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hi,this is amber, um this is about hayley again..see um, she has a friend named deborah and they've been friends since like kindergarden, and well one day she told hayley: " im not your bff, amber is. you can change this or you can never talk to me again".. thats what she told her, and so i think that affected our friendship in some kind of way, i dont know
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i think that any person that would ask their friend to choose between someone is bitch. hayley should not have to choose between her two friends. if she does then she is not a good friend.
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-- Jackie
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well if hayley was your friend then she wouldnt pick you over her or her over you. What Deborah doesnt know.. is that you can have more than one bff. And it seems like deborah is just jealous because maybe she just wants Hayley to herself. Try talking to Deborah about this.. or even hayley.. let them know ... hayley can have more than one bff.
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That best friend isn't a good friend... because if she would abandon her friend that quickly, and was making threats, she doesn't care about her friend! A real friend would state they felt a little left out, or whatever, but that they wanted to work it out. If it affected your relationship/friendship with Hayley, why don't you ask Hayley herself? Just be like "Look did the situation with your best friend have anything to do with why we dont talk" or something along those lines. If hayley barks at you, she's being nasty, so long as you approach her in a polite manner.
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Uhm, it seems that you've made the ever popular mistake of sending a personal question to the pool.
I'd like to help you, but it appears I do not have all of the necessary facts. =/
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