|
i really like this guy and i cant tell him.. how should i be able to tell him how i feel without scaring him away?
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Heya,
Firstly body language is always really important. Here's some body language tips to show him you like him:
1) Tilting your head to the right is a sign your interested in what he's saying; tilting your head to the left is a sign your interested in him!
2) Touching/playing with your hair or fiddling with earrings is quite flirty.
3) Touching your neck (necklace) or resting a finger on your lips for a moment are very seductive moves. They will definitely get him interested!
4) Whatever you do, make sure you DON'T fold your arms this is giving him the impression that your protecting yourself and want him to back off.
5) Catch his eyes for a moment, hold his gaze for a few seconds then look away. Keep doing this and he'll be hooked.
Just to get a guys attention one of the most important things is confidence. If you think you look good - he'll think so too! So look up, hold your head high, shoulders down and SMILE! A girl who slouches about with a depressed/angry look will just scare him off.
Also remember guys love it when you just talk to them. Say 'hi' in the corridors, chat about HWK to get the conversation started and look them in the eyes when your chatting. Compliment their hair, clothes, bag etc. Before you know it they'll all be after you!
smile a lot it makes people notice you. Be nice and dont try to show off. Make friends that are guys. Dont try to rush into relationships. Play hard to get IT WORKS
If you think its right then do it but don't walk away, might make him feel like it's a joke, expect an answer. Anyways, just go for it, there is really no harm in trying, nothing to loose but so much to gain! :)
Its good to be honest and open. Granted things don't always turn out that way, but you will never know untill you try.
You could try writing him a letter. Be sure to let him know that you'd like a response to the letter, whether it's face to face or in another letter. Just try to make him understand that even if he doesn't like you the same way that there will be no hard feelings. Cause he might feel. I hope things work out for you.
I think that if that is the plan that you want to do...that is exactly what you should do. I think that it lets him know that you like him, but gives him a little time to think about what it. I think that things will go great and you will feel a lot better after you give him the letter. I really hope the things go well.
Goodluck
]
If it's really just too hard for you, have a friend let him know. You might find this too immature for yourself, so if you want to be bold, and I commend you for such a thing, just phone him or when the moment is right in person just be like, "look, I care for you as more than just a friend... I don't know if it could work, but I wanted to tell you." There's nothing wrong with that as long as you've been friends. But if you've never talked or w/e and thats the situation wait till you know eachother. To help me better understand, just send a question to my inbox if you need me for anything! Good Luck!
]
dear asker♥ as long as this person isn`t dating anyone i doubt he`d be scared away to know someone likes him..but just in case..try to become "friends" with him, you know hang out with him and talk about stuff you can talk about with your "best friends" if he wants to be friends with you..just tell him how you feel, i`m sure he wouldn`t be scraed away if you are friends. hope i helped.
don`t be afraid to leave
a question in the inbox`
xOxO Alexxa ♥♥
]
Ok well i think you hould stop and talktohim first if u dont no him alot or he dont no you that much get to no each other then when the time comes you'll no and if u do no each other well tell him fast cause men dont like to wait good luck ~ Big D~
]
More Questions: |