Question Posted Saturday September 3 2005, 1:57 pm
Theres this guy that i like alot and i think i love him, and he is 19, im 15 and i dont understand wut is wrong wit the age if my mother says its alright, and he asked her if he could ask me out and she said yes but than he never asked me out, and last night i went 2 the roller rink and he wuz all ova this otha girl and makin out wit her, my friend went up 2 him and asked him wut wuz wrong wit him, he said he had a problem wit the age diffrence between us, than y would he let it get that serious i mean me were practually like goin out but he just never asked me, he would come pick me up every night, he would give me a kiss good-bye and everything. Please some1 help me
Tell me wut 2 do
Tell me wut went wrong.
PLEASE I NEED SOMEONES HELP..
TrojNgrl6907 answered Saturday September 3 2005, 2:45 pm: I know exactly how you feel. I dated a guy who was 19 when i was 15, and i knew my mom would have hated the age difference..so we would see each other in secret and it was hard considering i wasnt able to drive yet. I fell so fast in love with him, and all of a sudden he wanted to make sure my mom was okay with us dating because he said it was bothering him. I told her because i didnt want to lose him and she decided to at least meet him. The day he was sopose to meet her, he stood me up and i called him and he gave the phone to this girl who told me he didnt want to be with me anymore and the words that i remember hurt me the most was when she said, "your just a lil f**cking kid"
Older guys are not worth it and he probably thinks its too complicating to be with you because you are a younger girl and most guys that age dont want to mess with the whole parent complicating crap..even if she agrees or not.
You need to move on and forget about him, because he isnt worth your time
Go hang out wit ur girls and chill at the movies or sumthing, go pimp out at the mall, anything to get your mind off this guy because he is trouble and you can't spend your time thinking over and over what went wrong and why did he do this to you...there are so many questions unanswered and wont be answered because noone knows exactly whats going through his mind and how he feels [ TrojNgrl6907's advice column | Ask TrojNgrl6907 A Question ]
xXxithoughtwehadsomething answered Saturday September 3 2005, 2:34 pm: wow umm ok.. all i can say is that maybe he thought that the age was wrong. dont get me wrong or anything but maybe some guys change their mind because they met someone his age. And if he was leading you on... that wasnt fair to you. Maybe he was just nervous about asking you out.. did you ever think that maybe you could ask him out? I cant really tell you what to do but to except what had happened. Its hard to but you basically have to. Especially if hes with her now. I guess this isnt the advice you were looking for but i hope i helped a little with your problem. [ xXxithoughtwehadsomething's advice column | Ask xXxithoughtwehadsomething A Question ]
Ekaterina answered Saturday September 3 2005, 2:33 pm: Seems like you are just his rebound girl. He is just with you when he is bored and doesnt have anything to do . If he was serious about liking you he would have asked you out straight up which would have showed he cared for you but he doesnt. Forget about him you deserve better. He doesnt deserve your attention!Hope I helped. [ Ekaterina's advice column | Ask Ekaterina A Question ]
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