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2nd base
Hey i'm 15 years ikd and my boyfriend and i have known eachother for three years but only started dating two months ago. i know he's itchin to move to 2nd base but i'm kinda unsure. i mean only 2 months?? isn't that way too soon? and dont tell me it depends on how i feel i need a good non-slutty opinion of when you should begin to let your boyfriend touch you in that way
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Let me start by saying that is a very mature way to look at this.BUT- You are way too young to go any farther than what you have already. I have been there. I am 35 years old now and I was pretty wild in my younger days.I slept with and messed around with guys who don't even remember my name.You do not want to look back on your youth as a time of regret that makes you feel ashamed of yourself.You should be able to smile when you think of your high school days. I got pregnant with my first child at 18. I love him dearly, but if I would have waited, I would have been a better mother. I had to work all the time because his dad was off with someone else, so I didn't have the time for him I should have had.And I started having sex when I was about your age. You can't go back once you start. So please - take things very slowly. If he won't wait, he does not deserve you. You don't want someone who will drop you after he gets what he wants. I have a friend who is 18 and she wanted to wait till she was married to have sex.Well, this guy talked her into it and dumped her like 3 weeks later.Then had his friends calling and texting her trying to get some.So please wait.
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you already know the answer to this question. if you feel uneasy, unsure, or unwilling, then is this really something that you should do?
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well, i mean i know you really like this boy, or at least it sounds like it. you usually have to like someone to feel the need to do this stuff. but i really just think that 15 isn't the right age to be doing this stuff.
you can't even drive yet, and you're already feeling the need to make it halfway through the ball park??
and two months is a little soon. a lot happens in a relationship in two months, but i think you need to realize you don't have to grow up so fast. enjoy being young and have fun without feeling the need to be sexual. it's a big responsibility. first and foremost, make sure you're ready and good and responsible to handle the emotional ties it will all bring up that weren't there before.
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