Member Since: January 15, 2009
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Last Update: January 28, 2009
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When a guy goes to second base and is feeling your boobs, is he getting something out of it or doing it for you? (link)
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Both. Guys love boobs.Any size.
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When I was 12 my mom died from breast cancer and that was a big shock. Now I live with my aunt and life is hell. I had to move. Now i dont live with my 2 sisters. I have to be with my 2 cusins. I feel like i dont belong. They treat me as if im theyre dog. I always have to do something, and if i dont i get in trouble. My aunt treats my cusin better, probably because its her daughter. shes 19 and she gets everything and acts like im the problem child. If i tell anyone she smacks me. Ive thought of suicide. I dont know what to do ... help ... (link)
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You need to talk to someone that can help get you out of there. It would be better living in a foster home than where someone hits you and treats you like that.Go talk to a school counselor or a teacher you trust. Please do it now.
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Two of my best friends hate each other's guts for reasons that are completely stupid, but I of course, am stuck in the middle. They were good friends at one point a while back but things just changed, and now they really can't stand each other. We use to be a really tight knit group of four, the 'fab four' as you may call it, but now it's down to three, and we've recently taken in a 'replacement' for the missing spot. So now two out of the four of us hate the girl that use to be in our group, but the other two can bare with her. It's just annoying that I have to put up with their trash talk, because in reality, she never did anything wrong. I feel like I can't keep tolerating them talking rudely behind her back, because she is such a sweet person. I'm wondering whether I should confront them or just let it slide. I think it's pretty unfair that they think they can go on talking crap about her. If I do confront them, there's a good chance I'd be loosing two friends, maybe even all three, because my other friend is the type of person who sides with the majority. Please, what should I do? (link)
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Do you really want to be friends with these girls that are making you feel bad? If they are ganging up on the other girl , that is just wrong. You said she didn't do anything wrong. So you need to be the bigger person and stand up for the girl who's getting trash talked behind her back. Would you want to be in her shoes?
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Hello. My name is Bobby, I`m 32 and from London. I no longer want to live. I am not in an irrational state of mind and niether do I suffer from a debilitating mental illness. I obviously have issues but I have a fire in my heart and I strongly believe death is the only solution for me in order to exorcise this pain. Yes I am sad and lonely and have no friends and have debts and have little money and no prospects but I do not want anything anymore. Death has become a beautiful dream for me and all I want from the almighty is death. If people in physical pain are sometimes allowed to die (euthanasia) then why can someone in extreme emotional pain not be allowed to do the same. My pain is too great and too deep to be simply diagnosed and treated via therapy or drugs or a combination of the 2. My pain has paralysed me emotionally and has left me a pathetic and useless wreck. I must have the same rights to die as someone in physical pain. I don`t want attention and niether do I want to be celebrated (I`m a nobody after all) so this is not a plea for help or some pathetic attention seeking rant. I genuinely want to die. If society can accept the self-death of someone in physical pain then why can it not accept the death of someone in emotional pain. Who`s to say my pain is not equal or greater than that someone? (link)
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No one is trying to minimize your pain. Emotional pain is overwhelming. But you have to know that life will get better. Whatever it is that has you feeling this way, the feeling will eventually give way to other things. It does not last forever. Time really does heal wounds. Many times I have been upset and felt that I would cry forever.That the pain I was feeling would kill me.But I was wrong. Everyday I got stronger and so will you. There are so many people worse off than you or me.Really. I don't know your situation, but you don't know mine either. I know you have probably heard this before but I hope you will listen again. If you take your own life you are damning your soul to an eternity burning in Hell.There is no forgivness for that. God can and will help you if you will let Him.He turned my life around . The unbearable weight I had on my shoulders is gone.HE is my strength. And He wants to be yours too. He loves you. He loved you enough to DIE for YOUR sins. HE DIED SO THAT YOU WOULD BE ABLE TO LIVE ETERNALLY WITH HIM. Obviously I have never been there, but Heaven will be amazing. NO more pain, no tears, just joy.
Forever. Would'nt that be wonderful? Please , before you do anything drastic, seek God. Find a place you can go pray. Find a church that will help you. GOD LOVES YOU AND SO DO I.
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I am going to attempt a pole dance for my man on valentines day and really need to know and good songs to strip to! Any style will work, modern or old burlesque...I have no prefference!! Just want something sultry! Thank you so much for any help!!!! (link)
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"In The Still Of The Night" by Whitesnake -- HOT
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For starters, I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 20. I was just wondering who you guys would agree with. We were at his friend's place one day and were well..wanting each other. He wanted to ask his friend if we could use his bedroom. But I didn't want him to know so I said we should just go to the bathroom and not tell his friend. His friend was playing video games so he wouldn't have noticed if we were gone for a little. So which do you guys think is better? Tell him and use his bedroom or not tell him and just do it in the bathroom? (link)
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Doing it on anyone elses bed is just disrespectful.
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my boyfriend just went to jail and is gonna be gone for 2 years..what are some sad songs that are about missing someone but also staying strong about it..country or r&b or anything is fine. thanks in advance (link)
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Doug Stone- I'd Be Better Off
Reba- The World Doesn't Stop[for my broken heart]
SheDaisy- What This Woman Needs
Bryan White- Someone Elses Star
Travis Tritt- Tell Me I Was Dreamin'
Tiffany- Could've Been
Olivia Newton John- Hopelessly Devoted To You
Tim McGraw- My Best Friend
There are so many sad songs out there. I could give you hundreds of them .I used to listen to them all the time.Good Luck.
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So, I ended up losing my virginity to my boyfriend around Thanksgiving. Since then we've been having sex regularly. In early December we were having sex and he didn't pull out in time, and, well, you know the rest. After that I had an irregular and way lighter period that lasted longer than usual. But it was so off and different that it didn't even seem like a period. After I had stopped bleeding, we began having sex again. And, well, he didn't pull out then either...
My period has always been regular, always at the beginning of the month. And now it's Jan 13th and I'm getting worried.
What do I do? Am I pregnant? (link)
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Have a test done and pray it comes back negative.Then get on the pill or something if you are not pregnant.You def could be by the sounds of it.And if you are you need to go to the dr and get prenatal care so you will have a healthy baby.If you can't keep it there are many people out there who would love to have a baby of their own.
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my boyfriend and i have had sex before, and i never noticed until yesterday that its really difficult for him to get hard.
i did everything in my will power that i could. nothing worked.
i just recently started giving him handjobs and he stays hard for a few minutes and then it goes down. it confuses me and frustrates him. i was wondering about viagra, or any other "boner medicine"
is it over the counter or prescription? and also, if its prescription, how am i supposed to get some because my boyfriend and i are both minors. :\
help? (link)
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If your bf is having trouble like that he needs to see his dr.He is way too young to be having problems like that. Maybe he has something going on in his body that is making him unable to perform.
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I was supposed to get a root canal in about 3 days and i already waited about a month and 1/2 and the days after the root canal i have alot of important things to do (in person) like dinner and stuff and i was wondering if it would bother anything or make anything worse/ unrepairable if i waited another month? (link)
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You could end up damaging your tooth if you wait. But, if you have a dentist you trust knows what hes doing, you have nothing to worry about. Mine was totally painless but for the shot to numb me up. Seriously. I was worried sick for nothing.
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Well there's is this kid David that Ive been crazy for ,for about 3 ish years.We have been reallly good friends and he has admitted to liking me on and off.We've been having sex for about that long as well and I just had a feeling deep deep down he had alot of feelings for me ,he just didn't show them or wasnt ready to show them or just didn't wanna ruin things..so i continued having sex with him even though we weren't going out .Then I asked him if he likes me and what not and he said he does deep down and he knows one day we will date but hes just not ready for a girlfriend so I believed that.Shortly after ,he started talking to this girl who doesn't even live in our town and whatnot.He started talking to me less and less and acted like he cared less and less each day.He's now going out with her and barely talks to me and when he does,its usually something mean.I tried talking to him about it and he said "that he didnt wanna spend his life with just one girl the rest of his life "etc etc. and from then on ,I just kinda pretend like I dont care but it's really killing me inside.I wanna know if he atleast thinks about me or what is going on.I would stop liking him but its hard and we've had a thing for 3 years so I don't want to lose it.Any advice would help thanks! (link)
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What have you been wasting your time for? You could have spent these last 3 years with someone that wanted to be with you for you. Not because you were willing to give it up whenever he wanted.Don't you think you deserve to be treated better than that! You should be treated like the princess you are!Tell this jerk to hit the road! Go find yourself a good guy. He is not worthy of even having you speak his name.Look in the mirror and repeat after me" I am beautiful and deserve to be loved" . Keep saying it several times a day until you believe it. Because you are.
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Hey i'm 15 years ikd and my boyfriend and i have known eachother for three years but only started dating two months ago. i know he's itchin to move to 2nd base but i'm kinda unsure. i mean only 2 months?? isn't that way too soon? and dont tell me it depends on how i feel i need a good non-slutty opinion of when you should begin to let your boyfriend touch you in that way (link)
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Let me start by saying that is a very mature way to look at this.BUT- You are way too young to go any farther than what you have already. I have been there. I am 35 years old now and I was pretty wild in my younger days.I slept with and messed around with guys who don't even remember my name.You do not want to look back on your youth as a time of regret that makes you feel ashamed of yourself.You should be able to smile when you think of your high school days. I got pregnant with my first child at 18. I love him dearly, but if I would have waited, I would have been a better mother. I had to work all the time because his dad was off with someone else, so I didn't have the time for him I should have had.And I started having sex when I was about your age. You can't go back once you start. So please - take things very slowly. If he won't wait, he does not deserve you. You don't want someone who will drop you after he gets what he wants. I have a friend who is 18 and she wanted to wait till she was married to have sex.Well, this guy talked her into it and dumped her like 3 weeks later.Then had his friends calling and texting her trying to get some.So please wait.
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I am from South Africa and I am 32 years of age. 14 years ago I met the man of my dreams. There was a misunderstanding, we broke up. Suddenly he is back in my life and I can't help but have a yearing for him.i can't sleep and i lay awake recalling our memories and conservations. I am now married with no kids. He is married with 2 kids. we phone each other all the time and I want to be with him. My hubby is wonderful and I don't want to hurt him either. He on the other hand says he wants to keep in contact with me but I am not sure what to do. I want to do the right thing but I don't want anyone to get hurt. Should I forget about him - which I can't as we sometimes bump into each other at friends/family functions. I know he wants to be with me - but he has commitments too. What must I do... I need help. I feel as if I should have a relationship with him in secret. (link)
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Take it from someone that has been there, you DO NOT want to pursue this. You are both married and he has children. Do you think your spouses and his children deserve this? You took a vow. Before God.Believe me, no good can come from this.You will end up not only being hurt yourself, but hurting innocent people. Please seek counseling to help you deal with these feelings.You are not the first one with this problem. Please don't wait. You owe it to your HUSBAND to make it work.
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