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well me and my boyfriend have been going out for nearly 6 months now and hes told me hes done stuff with other girls and he wants to do things to me, the other day he said have you got a 'shaven haven?' ive shaved my pubes but when you shave you get stubble? is that still classed as a shaven haven? and will he like doing stuff to me if its like this?
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it is, if you dontlike the stubble, try a new razor, the oneyour using could be dull and wont ge the close shave you need.
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i dont even get whats wrong with me most of the time. sometimes, everything will be fine. like, ill be hanging out with my boyfriend and his house or at the store or something. and then suddenly, all my energy and happiness gets sucked out and im up in space and i feel like dying and he keeps asking me whats wrong and i keep telling him nothing. most of the time it is just nothing, but its bringing a wedge in between our relationship.
i love him to death, and i think he loves me, too. but whenever i get upset or depressed, i dont like talking. i just want to sit and stare at something or just lay down and go to sleep. so whenever he says "i love you" i just nod and say "mmhmm" and he thinks im mad at him BUT IM NOT!! these random depressions are ruining everything and im always upsetting him, and upsetting him just upsets me even more.
i tried to tell my parents once that i was depressed but they pulled the old "you're a teenager, its just hormones" gag and so i never tell them anything.
i probably wont kill myself, but i really want to. i was raised christian, and also raised to believe that if i kill myself, i burn. and im afraid of hell.
i think im mostly worried about not being with my boyfriend in the future. hes left me before, and whose to stop him from doing it again? i just cant handle it anymore. and i dont like being a downer. around him, especially.
im 16/f, btw. if anyone has any advice, please share. i dont know what to do anymore. :( (link)
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your not alone, there are alot of people who feel the same way.about your boyfriend. not to sound mean, but this guy doesnt soundlike he deserves you if you have to worry day by day i he'll leave you. you want someone who cares about you and wants to always be with you(reliable). so dump him so he gets a taste of his own medicine. itsok to be single.and about the random depressions, i know what you mean, i get that way too exactly. ask your doctor if there is any anti depressants you can take, or if you dont like pills, talk to him about finding the source of your deppression so you can fix it.
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I have a bit of a weird situation.. I have a best friend who is turning 18 who I haven't seen since I was 7 so I don't really know much about her.
For my 18th she bought me a silver necklace.
I was thinking of doing a scrapbook or photo album but I don't have any photos of us from when we were little and we don't have many memories together.
What can I get her? (link)
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o i just read the last part. i was going to suggest going to a club, but you wont be seeing her. try a silver braclet since she got you the necklace, tell her now we have a matching set so we must be good friends or something to do with that
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Every year I make tons and tons of Valentines. This year I'm doing the same and my sort of crush is one of the people I'm giving them to. He knows alot of people are getting one so he won't feel awkward about it, but I want to really subtly hint at him that I kinda like him. I plan on using a few inside jokes, I just need something that is flirty and ambiguous enough for him to interpret as either "she kinda likes me" or "she's just being as playful as she always is." HELP! (link)
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the inside joke thing is good. try also saying something like "i
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Hello, my girlfriend and I live relatively far away but we manage to see each other like maybye 3 times a month(in person). But another girl recently told me she had serious feelings for me and though i talk to my gf every night on webcam i can't help getting feelings for this other girl becuase i see her every day its hard to get over it.Now those feelings have gone away and i am back in that trance with my girlfriend. but i can't shake the feeling im gonna fall for another girl. Help? (link)
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its normal to feel like this, it just means you want more than webcams and seeing her 3 times a month relationship. im not saying you like other girls, but you probably like the idea of seeing your girlfriend. talk to yourgirlfriend and tell her you'd feel comfortable if you saw her more. i know long distance is tough, id know, my boyfriends in afganistan. but talk to her and maybe you two can figure somethinout that works for both of your schedules
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18/f. ever since i was born my mom has revolved her life around me. even her job revolves around me. i'm very independent and i provide for myself and i like to do my own thing. but she's so immature and she tells everyone how attached to me she is and she treats me like i'm a child and it's mainly because she wants younger kids but she can't have them. so i get stuck with her treating me like one. and unfortunatley i spend a lot of time home, with her. she has to know every detail of my life. she doesn't have her own life anymore, it's so annoying. and she basically makes me live my life how she wants/wanted to live hers. she doesn't talk to anybody with daughters/sons my age, so she doesn't know how things should be. i'm so sick of this. what can i do? (link)
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not to sound like im not on your side, but have you ever thought about what your life would be if she didnt care about you? there are lots of kids that have parents that dont care bout them so much they dont feed them and take college money from them. i know you want to feel independant i can understand thats important. but its your mom, shes in your life for a reason. she says you wont understand until youhave a daughter because you havent experienced what its like to have a child and know shes the only one in the world who will always be there for her.
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Why is it that people say you only have a 20-25% chance of pregnancy? If i continued to have unprotected sex on the right dates, or around them, when do you think i would be pregnant by?
Do you NEED to have sex on the days of ovulation, or can it be any day of the month, that there is still a chance of pregnancy?
Thanks :) (link)
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they saythat because 1. a womenovulates 25% of the year
2.statistics show 25% of women who said to had unprotectd sex, had a baby
im not sure if its anyday of the monrh to get pregnant...but thats why they invented condoms just in case
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what is a website that i could actually go to, to see 2 girls and 1 cup i've been hearing really gross things about it and i want to see it for myself but every time i try to see it something pops up about puttin in all of your important information such as your credit card information and alot of other garbage so could you please give me a site to find 2 girls and 1 cup without going through all that and please let it be just one click away. (link)
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okay i dont know if you want to see it, its so disgusting, its where 2 girls go in a cup and then eat it. but if you still want to see it, type in free porn 'two girls one cup'
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To start this off i liek this boy oka, and he knows how much i like him right. But there you see there are like two other girls that also like him. You see iven been liking him for awhile now liek maybe alomost 2 years and havent done noting about it. All because i was shy and afraid. You see we have this class together and he do somtimes be messing with me and flirting and stuff. And i guess i kinda got a lilttle comfortable being around him now. But you see there also these tow gurls that like him to . And they be talking to him and everything. And i dont know what else to do, its like they have a speical bond to him. And i dont know how to top that. How can i make it more between me and him. Instead of just messing around with eachother. (link)
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well the other girls may like him..but he may notlike them back.if you want to "beat them to his heart" try giving im hints that u like him, but not using the generic "your hot" thing, otherwise he'llthink your just another oneof those girls, you have to be differant from the rest so you can stand out from those other two girls that like him
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i want to foreplay with my boyfriend for vday but where would do 16 year olds go to do that stuff? i love him with all my heart and i dont want to be interupted by parents or siblings. (link)
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does he have a car?
get on top of him in the back seat and makeout withi him. if he doesnt have a car, go to a movie that no one will be in the theatre(aka a boring movie) then pick a seat in the back so the ticket guy doesnt see you and do your thing. guys get excited when they do things in places besides the bedroom...he'll love it.
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ok i didn't know which category to put my question in, i thought etiquette would be right because having neat eyebrows is part of it. Anyways, i don't know how to do my eyebrows, i usually over tweese and its just bad.. So some instructions or advice would really help.. I don't have any beauty parlours near by so i cant go to any professionals unfortunately..
Thanks. (link)
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let your eyebrows grow out so they dont look "over tweezed". if you want them to look professional, try going to a hair salon, hair salons always incude waxing of eyebrows and other areas for a decent price.for example, i know supercuts does eye brow waaxings in my area for $5
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what gift should i give to my hubby? (link)
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anything that has a sentimental value to it. like maybe getting him a new watch or cologne or making him a romantic dinner of sll his favorite foods.
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Alright, tonight my girlfriend and I had sex, not the first time, and I wiped any semen I had still on me off of myself and my hands, and soon after I was fingering her again, is there any chance of pregnancy, since there was no semen on my hands, at least not any liquid semen? (link)
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there might be a chance because even though you wiped your hands and everything, semmen doesnt come off that easy. but the fact you fingered her with the potential semen fingers then there is a chance for the sperm and egg to unite. have her take the morning after pill at planned parenthood or if she doesnt have any, just make sure she gets her period when the time comes or if you cant wait until then, have her take a test
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Idk why but I have hairs around my nipples and the lower part of my breats.
1. Is this normal?
2. Should I shave it?
3. if I do shave it, will it just start growing faster and quicker and will i start getting stubble? (link)
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yes this is normal.but whatever u do dont shave it or pluck it out because this can lead to infection and yes it would grow back in a darker color. a few hairs is normal but if you have more than 20 hairs on each breast, then consult a doctor and he will prescribe you medication that decreases the amount of hairs
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Uhm,
What is the difference between being stressed and being overwhelmed??
Thank you! (link)
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wellbeing overwhelmed is knowing one has alot of work to get done and one might think they can accomplish it. stress is paniking that there is alot of work to be done and one wont be able to finish it
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can you get genital warts from another girl? like by sharing underwear(washed of course) towels or razors? (link)
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most common way to get genitalwarts from a girl is by having sex with her when she is infected or having an outbreak. even with the use of a condom, you could get it, to be sure you dont have it..take a test at planned parenthood or at a doctors office or hospital. they can also give you information of how the infection spreads
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okay so my girlfriend is pregnant and she dont get her period does that mean the baby is like drinking the blood? (link)
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no, the reason she doesnt get her period is because she is using the materials that usually come out within the blood when she gets her period. all women dont get there period when theyre pregnat...that an indicator if they are pregnat
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recently my boyfriend has been lying alot he has cheated on my once by kissing another girl but he was drunk.
he lied to me and went into a girls house with two other girls. and he is making a movie for school with 3 girls but he only told me one.
i figured this out and he says he will never lie to me again. we have been together for two years. were both 16.
do you think i should break up with him or stay with him. i love him and i feel like i cant live without him yet i cant trust him and i know that you cant have a relationship without trust. but i am trying. i broke up with him when he cheated on me but i was misrable.
should i give him one more chance? what would you do. (link)
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its hard to let go of someone you love...but cheating even after he said he wouldnt is infidelity,and if hes down it several times before, there is a huge chance he gonna do it again. as hard as it is to hear..but people dont change even thought they say they will. i would brake up with him and strongly tell him its because hes cheating on you and its hard for you to trust him. the only reason it feels hard to leave him is because you were with him for so long. and studies show it takes have the time of the relationship to get over a person, to get over him try a girls night in where you watch funny movies eat junk food and not talk about boys.
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I googled a few workout playlists, but most of the results had slow sad songs in them.
Any suggestions for good, fast, up-beat songs to work out to? Thanks! :) (link)
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well... if your interested in trying something new.
i know for sure any spanish artist/songs are very upbeat because the lyrics are about dancing and having fun, so its a sure thing it will get you in the mood to workout
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what is like an amazingly good hair straightner thats also reasonably priced?
what is a really good eyeliner pencil that stays on and doesnt smear?
whats like a really original store that isnt too expensive?
im looking to update my look... (link)
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a good hair straightener is called "wet 2 straight" by remmington.
really good eyeliner is remmington or maybelline
(try something thats waterproof)
a really inexpensive is "dots" they have up to date clothes where everything is less that $20
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