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Trust
recently my boyfriend has been lying alot he has cheated on my once by kissing another girl but he was drunk.
he lied to me and went into a girls house with two other girls. and he is making a movie for school with 3 girls but he only told me one.
i figured this out and he says he will never lie to me again. we have been together for two years. were both 16.
do you think i should break up with him or stay with him. i love him and i feel like i cant live without him yet i cant trust him and i know that you cant have a relationship without trust. but i am trying. i broke up with him when he cheated on me but i was misrable.
should i give him one more chance? what would you do.
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its hard to let go of someone you love...but cheating even after he said he wouldnt is infidelity,and if hes down it several times before, there is a huge chance he gonna do it again. as hard as it is to hear..but people dont change even thought they say they will. i would brake up with him and strongly tell him its because hes cheating on you and its hard for you to trust him. the only reason it feels hard to leave him is because you were with him for so long. and studies show it takes have the time of the relationship to get over a person, to get over him try a girls night in where you watch funny movies eat junk food and not talk about boys.
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i know it would be hard to do but I deffinitly think that it would be good for you to break up with him. Thats good that you two have been dating for so long but you don't want to be in a relationship with someone that you can't trust. i was in a relationship for 4 years with someone and i tryed to make excuses for everytime he lied. and as hard as it was i eventually had to break it off because i couldnt make up lies for him anymore. i think it would be good for you to break it off until he learns not to lie, afterall trust is a key factor to a relationship.
let me know how it all works out
lots of love,lizzie
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I know that you care for this boy very much. But you deserve to be told the truth in a relationship. If you stay with him you are just going to be miserable wondering where he is and what he's up to ALL the time. If you break up with him you will be miserabe because you'll miss him and your heart is broken, but that kind of misery goes away. And by that time, a new guy will come along. And I hope it will be one that will love and respect you by being honest and faithful. If not, love yourself enough to cut him off.
Hope it goes well.
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Okay you said both of you are 16 well exactly your not even at the point yet when life going to get even more crazier. I'm a guy and I know what guys do. He going to get older and things going to change. He is going to leave you sooner or later and he will find some one else. Its the way life works. Make your move and put your foot down. That boy dont listen leave him. Trust me you two still far from seeing real relationships and trust me your going to find a whole lot better men in the next two years =). People change we dont try to but we do its very sad.
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I think if he lies on you as much as he has already then you should break up because a relationship with lies will probably end soon so you might as well end now i dont think you should be around someone who cant tell you the truth end it now and save yourself from heartbreak.:D
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