Member Since: January 28, 2009
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Last Update: January 29, 2009
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16 f
Last friday I skipped school to go see my boyfriend. .I am aware of what I did so please don't lecture me about my wrong doing. .but the only reason why I did it is because my parents don't allow me to have a boyfriend. .they are what you call "strict" well I got caught and the result of it wasn't good. .my parents started flipping out and eventually forced me to come out with the truth that I have a boyfriend. .not only that but that I hadd skipped school to go see him. .since friday my mom won't talk to me and won't aknowledge me at all I tried appoligizing but she didn't accept it instead she said some harsh words to me and told me she wanted nothing of me . .it hurts to loose her trust but me and her have never had a good relationship still it affects me to see her hurt. .I never ment to hurt her the way I did . My father on the other hand accepted my appoligy but isn't exactly ok with me having a boyfriend. .I don't want to loose my boyfriend but I'm not sure I'll be able to see him anymore. .I just don't know what to do. .how do I get my mother to accept my appology or to atleast hear me out? How do I make them understand and accept me dating? (link)
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I know from experience that it hurts deep when stuff like this happens but the truth is we all cant escape sadly what our parents want us to do. either handle it maturely and talk to them bout how much you love this kid and prove to them it'll better your life or sacrifice a boy that isn't going to be there forever. your 16 you no where near the point of when guys start to change and want new things same for you. you'll change to. parents are forever but boyfriends arnt. All i have to say is no matter what happens from here on never abandon family. They are the only everlasting things in the world
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recently my boyfriend has been lying alot he has cheated on my once by kissing another girl but he was drunk.
he lied to me and went into a girls house with two other girls. and he is making a movie for school with 3 girls but he only told me one.
i figured this out and he says he will never lie to me again. we have been together for two years. were both 16.
do you think i should break up with him or stay with him. i love him and i feel like i cant live without him yet i cant trust him and i know that you cant have a relationship without trust. but i am trying. i broke up with him when he cheated on me but i was misrable.
should i give him one more chance? what would you do. (link)
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Okay you said both of you are 16 well exactly your not even at the point yet when life going to get even more crazier. I'm a guy and I know what guys do. He going to get older and things going to change. He is going to leave you sooner or later and he will find some one else. Its the way life works. Make your move and put your foot down. That boy dont listen leave him. Trust me you two still far from seeing real relationships and trust me your going to find a whole lot better men in the next two years =). People change we dont try to but we do its very sad.
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