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sexual things dont attract me...
i don't really like doing sexual things.
sure, they feel good...but after it all im wet and i feel so gross. is this normal? and when my boyfriend was fingering me it kinda felt good but i couldnt relax because im pretty tight and i kept thinking he was gonna accidently do something wrong...(first time fingering someone)
so is this normal?
16/f
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Hey there!
Well to answer your first question, yes, it is normal feeling gross while being wet... Some people feel slimy, some love it... the anxiety over him fingering you and you not being at ease is normal as well... what you guys can do is take thing slowly. alot of people go quick or slow. Whatever your preference may be, just remember sometimes us ladies have to be catered to a little more than males, we take more time to get aroused.. Good luck!!
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There is nothing wrong with you. Of course this is normal. We all start out the same. When you haven't had an excess of sexual experience and someone is fingering you and you can't relax so much, it's not your fault.
This kind of stuff isn't going to be extremely orgasmic and dreamy when you're first starting out. Guys have it easier than us. They can get off easier. We have to work at making it comfortable for ourselves, and it doesn't happen the first fair few times someone fingers you. So yes, its normal to not feel like it's the biggest turn on and the best sensation ever.
And the wet thing is way normal too. You can go to the bathroom or somewhere and clean up afterwards. You don't have to wallow in it, because it isn't too great.
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