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questions about having sex
i just lost my virginity sunday 4, 2009.
and my boyfriend and i were going to do it again maybe this week or next weekend.
the first time i was on bottom. the second time, will it hurt as bad as it did the first time? and should he be on bottom or top? [im just wanting a way for less pain.] and i heard that it takes around 3 times maybe for it to not hurt anymore. help?
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Okay judging from my past experience with girls I'm going to through this out there.
A lot of people say the first few times hurt for a girl, and they do. But from what I've seen and heard I believe you should take everything nice and easy at first and gradually work your way up. You or your partner shouldn't be rough with each other. Girls I know say it feels better every time, it just takes practice to get experience really.
As for the position, either way is fine, but if your on bottom don't let your partner get out of hand. Just let him know that your starting to hurt and I'm sure he'll be more gentle with you. Foreplay helps out a lot with the soreness too. It helps you work your body up to sex.
If you need anything else or have any ?s just visit my column. And remember be safe and use a condom, every time. Its not smart to get pregnant at a young age, you have a whole life ahead of you for that.
Sincerely,
JROCK
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My first time didnt hurt at all. and neither did my second or third[with the same person] they guy im with now the first time we did it, it didnt hurt but the second time it hurt soo badly it just depends on how hard youre doing it. If it starts to hurt tell him to be more gentle he will understand.
Be safe.
use a condom.
trust me more than likely youll get pregnate if you dont.
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