I'm just a guy who can give really good relationship advice.
Gender: Male
Location: Minden, Louisiana
Age: 18
MSN: jrock_101@live.com
Member Since: January 11, 2009
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I do not want this earth anymore, i want to go, i do not belong here, I do not like pain, so i have to do it painless. (link)
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Okay. First off I want you to take the time and read my answer carefully before you make any rash decisions.
Everyone has their problems and believe me I've had my share and I fight for a better life with every passing breath. But you have to understand something. All the feelings you have of pain, neglect, hatred, or even being afraid of something, lose them fast. I want you to turn all of those feelings into one thought. Now don't you want to take all that wasted energy and push yourself to accomplish a better life?
I mean seriously I've thought of suicide a few times, and almost done it once. Literally I was staring death in the face, but something told me not to do it. And guess what? I went back home and things got worse. But that's how the world works, things always get worse before they get better. Only a coward takes the easy way out.
You have one life to live and that's it, so why throw it away? The fight for something better is never over until you either win or give up? Anyone can win you just have to be persistent. So what do you say, why not win and show everyone (Including Me) that you have what it takes to be the person you want to be.
Don't give up on yourself, because I won't.
JROCK
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i just lost my virginity sunday 4, 2009.
and my boyfriend and i were going to do it again maybe this week or next weekend.
the first time i was on bottom. the second time, will it hurt as bad as it did the first time? and should he be on bottom or top? [im just wanting a way for less pain.] and i heard that it takes around 3 times maybe for it to not hurt anymore. help? (link)
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Okay judging from my past experience with girls I'm going to through this out there.
A lot of people say the first few times hurt for a girl, and they do. But from what I've seen and heard I believe you should take everything nice and easy at first and gradually work your way up. You or your partner shouldn't be rough with each other. Girls I know say it feels better every time, it just takes practice to get experience really.
As for the position, either way is fine, but if your on bottom don't let your partner get out of hand. Just let him know that your starting to hurt and I'm sure he'll be more gentle with you. Foreplay helps out a lot with the soreness too. It helps you work your body up to sex.
If you need anything else or have any ?s just visit my column. And remember be safe and use a condom, every time. Its not smart to get pregnant at a young age, you have a whole life ahead of you for that.
Sincerely,
JROCK
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