Hi my name is Michael'Salvador Ocampo Mendoza, i'm 19 years of age, i was born in manila, phillippines. my hometown is fridley, MN. i currently live in san diego, CA. i am currently a legal service specialist for the united states marine corp.i love to exchange conversations, i love to be near friends family loved ones then again who doesn't. i believe that i am mature enough to give excellent advice. maturing is not a age factor it's a mental choice changing of lifstyle from a child to an adult mindset. my main motos in life are "take advantage of life while you still can" "follow your bliss" and "love life and life will love you back" and last thing to describe my self is im one of a kind, unique in every way from personality to personal life views.
yours truly,
michael'salvador ocampo mendoza
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Age: 19
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Is it possible to love someone in highschool, get pregnant, and stay with that person?
And i don't just mean puppy love.
I mean REAL REAL love. We're you go through bad times and hard times and fun times and sexual times and aren't ever embarassed in front of eachother and tell the 100 percent truth. (link)
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i have the ansir2urprolem, everyone has there own personal outlook on life my personal opinion is yes, anything is possible, people search a lifetime to find true love the lucky ones find it early in life, i mean there are pros and cons to this situation, both people of the relationship have to feel the same way of course and if both people of the relationship are willing to commit, sacrifice, and trust eachother till the end of time then i don't see where any given relationship would go wrong, but keep in mind there is a whole world out there, but hey if you found it you found it right! "you know you found the one when you put them before yourself."
sincerely,
michael'salvador ocampo mendoza
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so im 17. i was going out with my boyfriend for 6 months then we broke up and got back together 6 months later after 14 months of being together in a great relationship, he just ended it cause we were arugeing. were still "friends" & we have hooked up a few times (sex) i really want to get back together with him but im not sure how he feels he says he doesnt wanna but i no he loves me and i think he just might need time. i dont wanna go to anyone else or forget about him just yet i still think there might be a chance to get him backk... ADIVCE PLEASE! (link)
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i have the ansir2urprolem, my advice to you is simply make him fall inlove with you again. see theres a difference between a guy loving you and a guy being inlove with you i think the love that he's putting out there for you is loving you, that means he care's about you and have feelings torwards you, if you want him back make him fall inlove with you, make him feel special when you guys are together give him that feeling that he wishes that this day never ends. but makes sure you think about this situation because if you two get back together and start argueing again this situation will happen again and you don't want to be hurt. "learn from your mistakes, for your futures sake."
sincerely,
michael'salvador ocampo mendoza
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okay dont start with your to young to think about this stuff okay ive herd it all so shh just answer my question.
im 15/f and my boyfriend right nows 14/m.
okay well weve been off and on sence last may we get in lil tussels you could say. so now were dateing again and its going wounderful it really is. i love being with him and hes the only guy i can really see my self with. and im ready to take it to the next leavel all weve done is make out. and we talk about haveing sex but im not truely ready for that i just wanna do some oral things. but im not sure if hes up to it. i mean we talked about waiting about two months ago bc i wasnt ready but now i am ready and i would like to suprise him but were never alone his paarents are always there or mine are or my brother or his brother or sister. so we have no us time but at movies and going out to dinner and what not. so how am i supposed to suprise him when theres no time to do it? (link)
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i have the ansir2urprolem, my advice to you missy is a.)your problem with not knowing where to suprise your boyfriend, i understand your 15 but someplace to do this at is a party(makes sure your in a locked room), maybe have your boyfriend sneak over your house late at night and bring him to your room after your parents have gone to bed or thee other way around. Just some ideas but always keep in mind do it somewhere not trashy i mean its the boys first time probably doing this type of thing just make sure your in a room make it special something to remember it is a suprise.b.)how to go along doing it. again make sure your in a room perferbly locked one, put some sensual music on turn off the lights you wanna take it slow ya know dance for a little bit dance till you get near the bed than when your by it start kissing him like you know the type of kissing to put the mood on but again take it slow kiss him till you both fall onto the bed make sure your on top than put your moves on him nibble his ear than start kissing his neck i could go on but basically put your mac on this guy let him know you want him, look at him and give him that look that he's about to get the gift of his life and make your way slowly in the treasure chest. "any type of sex is beautiful, so make it look good."
sincerely,
michael'salvador ocampo mendoza
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Hi i'm 15male and a freshman in HS
i like one of my bestfriends. We talk a lot in gym and walking to classes and all, and a few months ago she found out i liked her and was totally cool with it, but i didn't know how she felt. she knows i think she's really pretty, and she calls me "man pretty" if that means anything? I kind of want to start something with her, but i dont want to ruin our friendship because she's one of the nicest and most caring girls i have ever met. That and i don't know exactly how to ask her, i don't want to screw up and have anything be awkward between us. Any adivce?
Thanks =)
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i have the ansir2urprolem. My advice to you my friend is ask her on a date, like a formal date take her out to dinner than a movie, go bowling, or my favorite thing to do is taking a girl out to a concert music that she is interested in. But anyways you gotta let her kno how you feel about her otherwise your gunna regret never asking because it could have been somthing.take her out, be a gentlemen, let her know shes special to you, have some confidence in yourself. And nothings akward unless you make it akward. "anyman can have any women they want you just gotta have the right moves."
sincerely,
michael'salvador ocampo mendoza
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okay, so im in 9th grade, and me and this boy have had an on and off this for about 2 years now. when i first met him he liked on of my bestfriends and they went out..that didnt bother me because i didnt like him at all at first. then my friend and him broke up. me and him became really good friends, we talked on the phone for hours every night and i could be myself to point where i could just announce when i farted haaaha. then he finally asked me out. i was shocked. but of course i said yes. it was the end of the summer and we went out for about 2 weeks and broke up =[. we talked on the phone that night and decided we still liked eachother. then he said "hold on, i have another call". he never came back. the next day in school him and my friend were going back out. i was crushed. but then they broke up a day later. months went by and we were inseperable best friends. he claimed to me he was in love with my bestfriend! i pretended to give him advice and i pretended i was trying to hook them up..but deep inside i was dieing. my bestfriend didnt do anything with him cause shes a great friend to me. the boy came to his senses and asked me out again. we went out for about a month, broke up..then he had a thing with my other friend, and me and dan never talked for months. i went out with my friends ex and the boy found out. he told me he was still in love with me and im the only girl he will ever love. so i cheated on my bf for him...woops lol. we had a thing throughout the summer until my good friend made out with him behind my back. i hated them both and nobody spoke to eachother. finally it is december 2008 and he asked me back out...stupid me said yes.. we are now currently a couple. have been for 3 weeks. after theese years ive become differnt towards him and i can never be myself again, but i dont want to break up with him i love him. how can i be myself around him again? (link)
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i have the ansir2urprolem, my advice to you missy is to be yourself if he can't like you for who you are then he doesn't like the true you the real person within you. i mean you should be yourself no matter what in any situation you want people likeing you for who you are not what they think you are. and might i just add that this boy seems like he's playing games with you, but keep in mind, "love is like a t.v. show, theres always a rerun."
sincerely,
michael'salvador ocampo mendoza
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I have this big problem, that whenever I really need to have a very strong orgasm, I need to wear lipstick, my lady partner does not like this though. Which is very difficult for me because I want to have an orgasm, I dont know how I can convince her, to let it go, and let me enjoy myself. Could someone please help? (link)
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i have the ansir2urprolem, i have never heard of anything like this before, but my advice to you is to let your partner kno that this is one of your fantasies and that doing this specific act will only make making love much better for the two of you, your partner needs to know that having sex is beautiful and that every one makes love in different ways thats what makes it special. "it takes two to tango, otherwise whats the point of daning."
sincerely,
michael'salvador ocampo mendoza
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I'm 15 (a sophomore in HS), and I have never really dated anyone. It's not that i don't like guys (i'm a girl if you couldn't tell), because i have in the past, but they just never seem into me. I mean i don't think I'm ugly or anything of that sort, and i have guy friends, so i'm not socially awkward. Am i being very paranoid, or is this common (or both?)? (link)
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i have the ansir2urprolem, it's very normal to feel abnormal towards your situation because its new to you, my advice is to relax as much as possible go with the flow experience your 1st real relationship so you can always look back on it. "write the book as you want it, it's your story"
sincerely,
michael'salvador ocampo mendoza
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ok well i dont know what to do. i have a crush on this guy and we've been talking and then he told me he had a girlfriend. but im not giving up, and the more we talk the more i like him.
but the thing is since he has a girlfriend we cant really hang out because im not that kind of girl to do that to someone. but then yesterday he was like i talk to a lot of girls and i was like ok. and he was leading me on because he told he thought i was cute (he said your pretty damn cute) and that if he didnt have a girlfriend he would ask me to hang. and again he was hinting that he would ask to hang out if he was single. that was his answer to my question, do you like me alittle? because i told him i had alittle crush on him. and then we were talking about my school (because i go to a different school, all girls but totally not a lesbian) and i told him i wouldnt pay attention if guys were there because i would be daydreaming. and he was like who would you daydream about? and i said some like hot actors and he was like am i included in this.
and then he was like maybe you can teach me to snowboard sometime because im good and he doesnt know how too. but am i taking these signs wrong or is he just saying this stuff for fun?
i guess i just want to know what to do, he has a gf but like thats why i idk if he likes me and stuff????
i just dont know if i should even try or should i just not even go there. or any advice will help in this situation. (link)
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i have the ansir2urprolem, you never wanna interupt a relationship thats a sin, let him make the moves first, you kno you have the right of way when he's single, you don't want bad karma hitting ur face, or his girlfriends fist, but if you do like him i don't see the harm in hanging out, if he decides to not stay with his girl, than go for it. but good things always come if you wait!
sincerely,
michael'salvador ocampo mendoza
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17/f
I've just graduated from high school. There was this guy in one of my classes at school who i thought was pretty cute but he was a bit shy. We dont really know each other very well and have only talked a few times but i can tell he likes me. He talks to me online sometimes aswell. When we talk online its on myspace usually comments so everyone will read them. None of my friends know any of his friends or anything so it is really hard now that im not going to school. How can I get to know him better outside of school keeping in mind that we hardly even know each other so it would be really weird for me to ask him if he wants to hang out. :S
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i have the ansir2urprolem, so you kno he likes you, take it slow, next step exchange phone number talk over the phone get to kno each other, and when the right time comes go see a movie together. have some courage and confidence if you know what you want than grab it.
sincerely,
michael'salvador ocampo mendoza
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ok i am a girl. i am 19 in college. So there is this guy. I met him in school and he's been really cool. He's really everything i would want, like completely, but i know he's been on and off with this girl and supposedly she's now in a relationship with this other girl. I want to say 'ya know i like you' and all but if there is something going on with this other girl i don't want to become a part of it, or make things weird for next semester. But like he's does all the things the guy i would want does and he gives me the impression he likes me back. he listens and actually remembers what i say lol and gives advice and says he thinks my friends and family sound funny and he'd have fun with them. theres lots of hugging and goofing off, but no kissing... and like he tells me all about his life, tells me to make plans for us, but then like... i invite him to things and he says he'll come and that he'd really like to but then he says he has work and i understand his schedule is really crappy and he does call and tell me his trying but this has been going on for a month. my friend thinks he has 'bonified asshole potential.'so i wonder whats going on and i know the only way to know is to ask, but like...its so hard. so how do i know he's interested like some def. signs that will help me out and give me the balls to tell him? (link)
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having courage is very tough, my main advice to you is gaining that courage and letting him kno your feelings towards him, probably thee only way to find out, have that confidence to chase after what you want. coming from a guy we def. like girls with confidence. him being busy is something he can't help it, it sounds like he's really trying to make it to see you,(guys don't try unless they dig you) relax be cool and everything will work out!
sincerly,
michael'salvador ocampo mendoza
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