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ready for more.
okay dont start with your to young to think about this stuff okay ive herd it all so shh just answer my question.
im 15/f and my boyfriend right nows 14/m.
okay well weve been off and on sence last may we get in lil tussels you could say. so now were dateing again and its going wounderful it really is. i love being with him and hes the only guy i can really see my self with. and im ready to take it to the next leavel all weve done is make out. and we talk about haveing sex but im not truely ready for that i just wanna do some oral things. but im not sure if hes up to it. i mean we talked about waiting about two months ago bc i wasnt ready but now i am ready and i would like to suprise him but were never alone his paarents are always there or mine are or my brother or his brother or sister. so we have no us time but at movies and going out to dinner and what not. so how am i supposed to suprise him when theres no time to do it?
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i have a masters degree in psycology working with 100's of other teens who have this same problem,
no worries; i will not tell you that you are too young to think about this stuff because that is not true, the mind does not have an age limit on thoughts:) im sure i can help you.
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i will reply as soon as read.
thank you!
sincerely,
Dr. Sandria
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i have the ansir2urprolem, my advice to you missy is a.)your problem with not knowing where to suprise your boyfriend, i understand your 15 but someplace to do this at is a party(makes sure your in a locked room), maybe have your boyfriend sneak over your house late at night and bring him to your room after your parents have gone to bed or thee other way around. Just some ideas but always keep in mind do it somewhere not trashy i mean its the boys first time probably doing this type of thing just make sure your in a room make it special something to remember it is a suprise.b.)how to go along doing it. again make sure your in a room perferbly locked one, put some sensual music on turn off the lights you wanna take it slow ya know dance for a little bit dance till you get near the bed than when your by it start kissing him like you know the type of kissing to put the mood on but again take it slow kiss him till you both fall onto the bed make sure your on top than put your moves on him nibble his ear than start kissing his neck i could go on but basically put your mac on this guy let him know you want him, look at him and give him that look that he's about to get the gift of his life and make your way slowly in the treasure chest. "any type of sex is beautiful, so make it look good."
sincerely,
michael'salvador ocampo mendoza
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Your age was pertinent to the question because your mutual inexperience makes your judgment even more unreliable than it already is at 15.
Sorry if you prove people right enough that you're sick of hearing it.
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::edit 2::
Oh, and its "you're" or "youre" if you hate punctuation. Not "Your"
As in "Your bad at following directions"
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You're young and he's younger.
Don't surprise him. Not the first time. Discuss it. Talk to him. Ask him what he wants and what he's comfy with. At 14 he's going to be more nervous than you because he's young and inexperienced AND because he is younger and less emotionally mature overall than you are.
Don't try to move to fast. Just because you personally are ready doesn't mean you as a couple are ready, or that he's ready.
Talk to him, figure things out, go from there. Communication is important.
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trust I had the same problem like this. Not only do you have to be ready, the time has
to be right. The last thing need is being pregnant or having any disease. And you are too young to thinking about sex. Make sure u r ready.
You write me at nagalie4lyfe@gmail.com anytime i wanna hear wat happen OK
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Not only do you have to be ready, the time has
to be right. The very last thing you want is
to be worried about being interrupted and
caught in the act. If that happens the
relationship would probably end, and thats not
what you want to happen.
My advice is not to attempt anything until you
have alone time. Tension will ruin it for both
of you. It will happen. :)
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