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exboyfriend
so im 17. i was going out with my boyfriend for 6 months then we broke up and got back together 6 months later after 14 months of being together in a great relationship, he just ended it cause we were arugeing. were still "friends" & we have hooked up a few times (sex) i really want to get back together with him but im not sure how he feels he says he doesnt wanna but i no he loves me and i think he just might need time. i dont wanna go to anyone else or forget about him just yet i still think there might be a chance to get him backk... ADIVCE PLEASE!
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i have the ansir2urprolem, my advice to you is simply make him fall inlove with you again. see theres a difference between a guy loving you and a guy being inlove with you i think the love that he's putting out there for you is loving you, that means he care's about you and have feelings torwards you, if you want him back make him fall inlove with you, make him feel special when you guys are together give him that feeling that he wishes that this day never ends. but makes sure you think about this situation because if you two get back together and start argueing again this situation will happen again and you don't want to be hurt. "learn from your mistakes, for your futures sake."
sincerely,
michael'salvador ocampo mendoza
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Ever heard of the sayings: If you love him, let him go, if he comes back it was meant to be or Absence makes the heart grow fonder?
These sayings are TRUE! You're still young. You still have a lot of experiencing to do.
My advice: Let him be. It's easier for me to say and harder for you to do. But there's no use sitting around worrying about it every time you breathe. Having sex with him isn't going to help anything either. If you're really serious about wanting to be with him again, let him be. If it's meant to be he'll eventually get love sick and come running back! Trust me...absence DOES make the heart grow fonder!
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Well first off, if he says he doesn't want to get back together right now, you'll have to listen to him. You have no solid proof that he means otherwise, and pushing it might push him away. Just stay as close of a friend to him as possible because then you'll be the one he thinks about all the time and he'll eventually realize that you're the one for him :) So just stay put for now, but if you must say something about it, just try to bring up how cool your relationship was a while ago and how much you liked him. Kind of try to get him to remember all those good times and it might rekindel[sp?] the fire :) Hope I helped!
-Jessica 14/f
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