ok well i dont know what to do. i have a crush on this guy and we've been talking and then he told me he had a girlfriend. but im not giving up, and the more we talk the more i like him.
but the thing is since he has a girlfriend we cant really hang out because im not that kind of girl to do that to someone. but then yesterday he was like i talk to a lot of girls and i was like ok. and he was leading me on because he told he thought i was cute (he said your pretty damn cute) and that if he didnt have a girlfriend he would ask me to hang. and again he was hinting that he would ask to hang out if he was single. that was his answer to my question, do you like me alittle? because i told him i had alittle crush on him. and then we were talking about my school (because i go to a different school, all girls but totally not a lesbian) and i told him i wouldnt pay attention if guys were there because i would be daydreaming. and he was like who would you daydream about? and i said some like hot actors and he was like am i included in this.
and then he was like maybe you can teach me to snowboard sometime because im good and he doesnt know how too. but am i taking these signs wrong or is he just saying this stuff for fun?
i guess i just want to know what to do, he has a gf but like thats why i idk if he likes me and stuff????
i just dont know if i should even try or should i just not even go there. or any advice will help in this situation.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? ansir2urprolem answered Sunday January 11 2009, 8:57 am: i have the ansir2urprolem, you never wanna interupt a relationship thats a sin, let him make the moves first, you kno you have the right of way when he's single, you don't want bad karma hitting ur face, or his girlfriends fist, but if you do like him i don't see the harm in hanging out, if he decides to not stay with his girl, than go for it. but good things always come if you wait!
midnight0heart answered Sunday January 11 2009, 2:23 am: Yeah, he totally likes you. what to do about it is harder though. it just depends on how close they are. if theyre not very close then i would continure to talk to him and like get him to like you more. and dont hide youre feelings, tell him. if he has feelings for you, he eventually will want to be with you. [ midnight0heart's advice column | Ask midnight0heart A Question ]
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