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OH CRAP!


Question Posted Sunday November 2 2008, 9:50 pm

15/F

Okay, big problem. For my birthday, that was in mid-October, I got my first diamond necklace. (worth over 200$) And today I realized that I don't know where it is. What the eff should I do first. My mom will freak!!!

HELP A.S.A.P.


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batteredxdreams answered Wednesday November 5 2008, 6:26 pm:
If I were you, I'd look EVERYWHERE(and I mean EVERYWHERE) before you tell her because she might never trust you with something big like that for awhile.. When did you realize that it was missing? You really need to backtrack every step you took. If it was in school, I'm sorry, but I doubt that you'll get that back. Most kids are jerks.

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Missa8305 answered Monday November 3 2008, 8:07 pm:
Try to remember where you last had it and trace your steps back. If it was a public place, call that place and ask if anyone has turned anything in. Hopefully, you'll find it...

If not, don't lie to your mom. Sure, it'll suck if she gets mad at you and she might give you a lecture about responsibility... But better to have been irresponsible with a material possession rather to be caught in a lie and proved untrustworthy.

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Disconnected answered Monday November 3 2008, 6:46 am:
First of all, calm down.
Relax.
Try to remember when was the last time you wore it.
And then try to connect it to where you might have put it.
For instance, I was looking for a bracelet I'd worn when I'd gone out drinking. The bracelet is worth a lot but I came home drunk and left it somewhere.
I remembered getting changed in the bathroom, so I searched there, and didn't find it. And then I remembered that I had thrown my clothes into my wardrobe, so I looked in there and it was in the pocket of the jeans I had worn.

So try to remember was much as possible, and search pockets, bags, boxes, drawers whatever you have. Every place where you might leave it.
Try to remember where were the last locations you had it (i.e your house, friend's house, school)

Good luck!
I really hope you find it, I've just lost a birthday card with $80 in it...so I know how you feel.

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josephballard10 answered Monday November 3 2008, 1:56 am:
Okay, dont freak. Act as if you've never lost it while your around your mom. If your mom asks something like why you havent been wearing it, or where is it. Do anything possible to strive away from the question like ask her"how was work" or "where's dad". If she asks you where it is or why you havent been wearing it simply say, "because i dont want to wear it today" or "I didnt feel like wearing it today" or "I dont want anything to happen to it"... If these lines get you off the hook than it should buy you more time to look for it and hopefully find it. I know how you feel and I show my deepest empathy, and pray for you.

Please leave me feedback on my answer ThankYou :)

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