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Why am i so worried??


Question Posted Sunday November 2 2008, 9:54 pm

Okay Friday my boyfriend (practically fiance) and I took my son trick- or - treating. I was hoping after work saturday he and I would get to spend some alone time together, but his aunt passed away he told me this at 3:30 pm on saturday. He also said he was going to call me and 2 on sunday so i could meet his mother ( he went to his uncles with his cousin to stay the night for the funeral sunday) and he hasn't even called and his mom is already back at her house in Springfield about an hour away from he and I. I know im worried about him but I also have trust issues and i have been doing great with him i trust him 100 % my stumoch has been hurting im always afrid i did something wrong and ive only checked my phone 100 times to make sure i didn't miss the call.

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christina12677 answered Monday November 3 2008, 6:46 pm:
don't worried. I think that you are worried because you really think that he is not spending all that time on the funeral. You are constantly worrying about what he's doing and who is with at this point right? but no need to worry. He will call you. He is probably going through a really rough time in his life right now from losing an aunt. I take health in school, and we were just recently talking about loss. there are many stages that people go through when they have a loss, and he is probably in that stage where he is distancing himself from everyone. But if you do trust him 100%, thre is really no neeed to worry. I think everything will be alright. Anyway. I hope this helped. Congrad on ur engagement!goodluck.

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josephballard10 answered Monday November 3 2008, 2:07 am:
IT's kind of hard to understand what your asking?
Are you asking "Is he cheating on you" or "is he okay?" I'll answer both for you, becuz I don't know exactly what you want advice on. Maybe you should go and see his mom to pay your respects about his Aunt's loss, and just wait on him to make some communication with you. The more you worry the more your going to think thats something's wrong, and I'm sure that in such short notice, nothing's wrong. Just stay calm and wait for him to call before you start freaking out, like I said, go and see his mom and maybe her conversation can keep you occupied for the moment. Maybe she even has the number to his cousin's & uncle's home, and will let you call him, by the way she is the mother right? So go and see her.

Please leave me feedback on my answer ThankYou :)

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