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Quick sidestory: told the guy i liked, we'll call him R, that I liked him a bit less than 2 and a half months ago, we were pretty good friends before that. He didn't respond, we didn't talk until 4 days later, we're still friends but things are still somewhat awkward and we're not the friends we used to be. He still never gave a clear response to it, we literally barely spoke about it, which isn't surprising because that's how he is.
So my friend, who we'll call N, is also a close friend of R's. We all have chemistry together, so I figured as long as N and I needed to study and get his help, I'd invite them over to my house so I could accomplish SOMETHING with him after all of this. So I told N about the idea and she said it was a good idea. So this past Friday, we were talking to him and I figured I'd ask him then. So I said "So N and I were thinking of studying for chem at my house on Tuesday (which is today) after US regents (chem regents are Wed) and we could probably use your help so yeah". So as I'm saying this, R has this weird smile on his face and is nervously laughing, which is really weird because he never is like that, he's always hard to read and isn't very expressive of how he feels. For example when I told him I liked him, no one would've known he was freaked out unless he told people about it, and he had told me that i kindof scared the crap out of him (that's actually the only response I got from him). So anyway, N & I said a couple of things after I asked him but then I was like "Okay so is it yes...is it no...is it maybe..." So he said "it's maybe". So I figured ok, Monday is the last day of full classes and the day before they'd possibly come over so I'll ask him for sure then. So Monday comes and in chem I talk to him and I said "so are you going to come over and help N & I tomorrow?" And he said "Uhh... am I supposed to?" So I said "No but I'd really appreciate if you did". So the bell rang and he didn't really respond so I figured I'd wait until after class when me, R & N walk together towards gym (I had gym with just R, but N still went the same way). So class ends and we're walking and I say to him "So, R, are you going to come tomorrow or not". So mumbled something and I was like "I can't understand you". So asked again and he was like "Do I have to?" and N was like "R's not into study parties haha". And so R's giving that weird smile again and we keep going back and forth, I'd keep asking him and he'd keep mumbling (basically he was trying to be funny and act like he was being annoying to cover up the fact that he was stalling). So N & I were like wow what is your issue can you answer the question already but we were still like laughing. So N had to go a separate way and I was walkng a little more with R on the way to locker rooms. So I was like "So. R. Is it a yes or no!" So he's still smiling weird and he looks nervous and slightly uncomfortable, and still not answering me, trying to be funny, whatever haha. So we went our separate ways for lockers. When I walked into the gym after he was there first sitting against the wall, so I sat next to him and gave him a look and he obliviously was like "what?" (he's quite oblivious). So I said is it a yes or no? He said "it's a no". So I asked why and he decides to say "Because I have better things to do" (now I'm not condoning what he said, but 1. he was referring that to both N and I and 2. That's something he would say, honestly I know him and by the influxion of it I highly doubt he meant to be hurtful by saying that, he's just kindof stupid that way). So for the rest of the period, me, him and my other friend, who we'll call T, were sitting and talking. Throughout the period, I was pissed that he was rude and that he wasn't coming, so I kept snapping at him throughout the period and I'm sure he noticed. Weirdly, he was still being nice to me and seemed to talk to me more, when usually in these past two and half months he tends to avoid talking to me or looking at me a lot (not that we didn't talk, but it was just a lot less then we did before I told him I liked him, and I could just tell he was more communicative with me then). So next period in math, which R and I also have together but we never got to talk there since our seats were kindof far, I texted N and told her what happened. After I told her to ask him what he said to me as if I didn't tell her, and see what he says and see if he'd change his mind. I'll get back to that soon. So last night, I was texting T and we were talking about what happened in gym. She said wow well he seemed really nice in gym (which he was). Also I talked to T this morning in person and she also mentioned that she also thought that it seemed like he ws trying to make me a little jealous with her in gym, it's hard to explain how so I won't get into it but it's possible she was right, but who knows if he was trying to be a jerk or not. I texted N this morning too and said "So I'm guessing he's still not going to come?" and she wrote "No sorry, he said that he was busy" and other stuff (at least that clarified that he's actually busy today, and he's not online which with him means he's probably not home). Basically, yesterday and the week before R was acting really weird, and I could tell a difference in him because he hasn't been like this at all before.
But anyway based on all of this info, why do you think he was acting this way? Why would he stall to give me an answer if he already knew he was busy and just could've easily said it? And also classes are over now and I really don't want to lose touch with him, and I know we will if I don't talk to him myself because he's not a big talker when he's not being talked to, but I'm always really scared to text guys I like because I never know what to say, so how could I allow myself to be more confident about talking to him this summer? (link)
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I think that he might have known that you were up to something. He seems like he just wanted to be friends. Like he didn't want to have to ruin the freindship that you guys had over a relationship. I have a friend who is best friends with this guy, and they like each other, but they just don't want to get together because they don't want to ruin the relationship. Maybe it the same with R. Maybe R doesn't want to ruin the friend relationship he had with you.Cuz a lot of the times when people go out, after, things get kinda awkward. But this is only what I think.
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ok so a few days ago I started texting this boy we'll call Dustin. Dustin is a 2 time champ state wrestler and is pretty cute :] anyways, last night our conversation just sort of ended and I don't know what's supposed to happen now. I've never had a class with him or anything so it's kind of akaward. I wasn't sure if I should talk to him at school or what to say if I did go talk to him or how to go about it. I'm way lost. Today we didn't text at all... Do I text him first or just wait for him to text me? I'm not exactly up to date when it comes to all this stuff. Thanks so much! :] (link)
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when you see each other at school, i think you should strike up a conversation for sure. I think that if you don't say anything, it will make the whole situation even more awkward. hey stranger, i haven't talked to you in while...how have you been? so wat have you been up to? what class do you have next? tell him something really funny that happened in class....that way he knows you still want to talk to him, and that will help you know wether or not he's interested because then he might end up texting you or watever......Plus since it seems like you are interested in him, he will think more about you and things are more likely to go farther if you talk to him.:D wait for him to text you though....dn't text him. Its really hard not to i bet, but just wait for him. He should be the one running after you :) the rest of everything will just come and flow naturally, you won't have to worry as much about what do say and what to do
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Oka I wanna know i liked this boyu for liek 4 years already and i havent made any moves or done nothing about it. And im just wondering what should i do. And what it means since i liked him for that long and i never really liked a boy for that long. Is it bad. (link)
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its alright if you've liked him for that long. Its normal, a lot of people go through that. I liked a boy for 3 years. I think that you should try to make a move finally though. I think that it is a good idea to take that chance and see if do have a chance with him. Make a move. Because if you don't, you will never know weather or not you would have had a chance with him. If you get a positive reaction then good for you!:D but if its negative, it helps you so that you can recover from rejection, and then move on and meet someone else that you really like. I hope this helped.good luck!:D
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Okay. I'm a female.. Well I have been dating a guy for awhile. And my niece just died. I have been kind of sad, And the guy I'm dating said he has been hearing stuff. Like I don't like him. But I really do. The other day I got a text message from him and it said "It feels like you don't like me anymore." And I want him to believe that I do. But Its hard to convince him because people are still saying that I dont like him. But He's starting to act different around me. Any ideas? :( (link)
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tell him about your niece more. Text him or talk to him. this might sound cheesy but you can say something like this.....hey baby, how are you doing today? then be like...."i'm so sad", he will probably ask you why, then you can say "i'm still feeling so down about my niece dying. She was like a little sister to me, and i can't believe she's gone you know. Its been so hard. and people have been saying that i don't like you anymore, but i do. I love/like you. And i think that all this pain with my cousin, is affecting our relationship. I don't want us to fall appart. I need you. Especially now more than ever because I wanna get through this hard time with you. you are the person that is always there for me, and can make me laugh and feel so happy. I don't want to lose that, because i feel like we are getting distant." Anyway, this is just an idea of what you could say. i'm sorry about your neice, and goodluck :).
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How you think god want us to live? all of these people on here you know talking about wanting sex and all these crap. do you think god want us live that way? all the drama and all this? wonder why weather so mess up? ever think maybe God is angery and hurt. if god ask you for advice. let say god ask what can I do make this world better place? how I can stop all the maddness? think about it.. (link)
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i see what you say. God is probably angry, and i honestly think that that is why all this bad global warming stuff is happening. Wel, for me, if god ask me what i can do to make this world a better place, it would be helping people on this website. Answering as many questions, so that they don't have all the drama they have. That is why I think the site is here. It is to help all those people dealing with crap, wether its family, relationships, sex, worries, anything. And I think that God is happy for the good that is being done here to help all those people "wanting sex and all this crap". And the madness is partly being stopped right here. I hope this made sense. Goodluck!:D
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Okay so I am 13, in the 8th grade and I am a girl. Ever since 7th grade I have had the biggest crush on this boy, lets call him Collin. In 7th grade the crush was not too bad, it wasn't until the summer before 8th grade that I started to talk to him, A LOT and I really fell head over heels. I know almost everything about him, his middle name, his favorite color, his favorite food, his biggest fear etc. and he knows all of these things about me. We have gotten really close and stuff but this is all outside of school, like at friends houses where not a lot of people are around or on IM or something. Lately, however, we have been talking a lot more at school and I walk to class with him and stuff like that. But then something weird happened. On Sunday night we were talking on IM and everything was perfect but then Monday he wasn't signed on and on Tuesday for some reason I had an odd suspicion so I logged onto a secret screen name and saw that he had blocked me! I couldn't understand it. So today (Wednesday) I asked him why he blocked me and he mumbled something that I couldn't hear and then started telling me this story. Now, I am not sure if this story has anything at all to do with why he blocked me/what he mumbled or if he was just trying to change the subject, but this is basically what he said. His friend's mom asked Collin "are you dating ____ (my name)?" now Collin thought that his friends mom was just joking around so Collin said "Oh yeah, of course" but it turns out she wasn't joking so now the son (his friend) has been all up in Collin's business about Collin and me thinking we are like secretly dating but Collin told me he didn't care what his everyone else thought and he was sorry that he had pulled me into this. So now I am confused, did this story have anything to do with why he blocked me? and if it doesn't... then what does this all mean?? (link)
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yep. It sounds a lot like it has to do with the story. I think that he likes you still, he is just trying to put up a disguise so that Collin's mother doesn't get up all in his business. So he probably did that just for show so that he can stop being bothered about it. Don't worry too much. It seems like he still likes it but he doesn't like the way that collin's mom is getting into the whole thing. And he seems like a good guy so there isn't much to worry about.Goodluck!:D
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Me= 17-F
Boyfriend=17-M
bf brother=17-M
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 15 months now. A year ago before his brother got his girlfriend, He complained alot saying i was stealing his brother and we only hungout once a week if that because we live 40 minutes away and talked on the internet an hour or so nightly. Since he has got his girlfriend they hangout all the time because they go to school together and she is pretty much his only friend now because he doesnt make time for his friends. He always says things to me now about how crappy me and my boyfriends relationship is just because we dont go out and do things everytime we see eachother because we'd rather stay at home and relax together. It always ticks me off and he's made me cry twice because i feel horrible. But last 3 weeks ago (the last time i saw him) his brother told us that we shouldnt kiss as much because it means our relationship is all lust and crap because he believes everytime we go to his room we stay down there and makeout the whole time...when in reality we go down there and cuddle and watch movies and just be together yes we kiss but we dont makeout the whole time we are away from eachother for 1 to 3 weeks at a time and he complains when i say i miss him when he says it right after he gets off school when he saw her a whole 10 minutes ago.
I just want to know why he always makes me feel like shit i love my boyfriend so much but im tired of his brother making me cry and feel like crap.
just please tell me why you think he might be doing this...
i just want to understand why hes doing this to me when, when me and his brother first started dating he seemed to like me.
HELP!
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it seems to me that maybe the brother like you too. he probably says al that crap to make you feel bad, and so that you won't be with your boyfriend anymore, but really, he doesn't realize that its bringing you and your boyfriend closer together. You should try talking to your brother, and then talking with his brother too, like when you chill with your boyfriend and his brother, you and your boyfriend should talk to him, or you should just tell him (the brother), that you feel like shit when he talks to you, and you want him to stop because you really love his brother. honestly speaking...the brother should be minding his own business. He seems to be always critisizing you and and your boyfriend's relationship, and he obviously has issues. He like you. That is what i think. but anyway, i hope this helped. good luck!:D
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okay so on monday i started to feel a little under the weather, just sniffles and that kind of stuff. It got worse and by the end of tuesday i had started to lose my voice. I dont have my singing voice at all and my talking voice fades in and out and is scratchy. I dont have a sore throat, I dont have a fever, and I really dont even feel very sick besides the runny nose and that I'm tired. When im not talking it doesnt feel like im sick but when I begin to speak it just doesnt work. I need my voice back by monday but I dont know whats wrong with me and I haven't had time to visit a doctor. I was wondering if anyone had lost their voice before and what they did to get it back faster. I've been resting it, trying to speak as little as possible but its not showing any improvement. Thanks! (link)
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you are doing good by not talking. Don't sing. and just like drink a lot of fluids so that you can get rid of that runny nose, cuz maybe you are in your early stages of getting a bad cold. Just drink tons of water and vitamin d drinks, i think it will help a lot. And take warm/hot showers. It will help a lot. Good luck! i can relate to this a lot. :D
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Hey guys I'm 14/f and I need a lot of help.
So I met this guy a while ago, let's call him Dan. I've hung out with him twice and my friend Sydney's house in a group, he goes to a different school thats kind of far away but we've been texting constantly ever since. Well, he asked me if he wanted me to come to his house on Friday. And I was like more than excited. But my mom isn't letting me!! She doesn't want me at a guys house alone. I keep explaining to her that the parents are going to be there but she won't listen. She only wants me to hang out with him in groups but that's a little hard considering I don't know his friends and Sydney is away for the weekend. Ugh, I know he's a good kid and I trust him more than ever but my mom is being so annoying =( I want to go so badly. I mentioned if it was okay if we went to the mall or movies or something but she still keep saying "No, Not alone, only in a group" I can't take it! I'm 14 for crying out loud! I'm going to be 15 soon! Ugh, please help how do I convince her? And what do I tell him? He's going to think I'm so lame if I tell him "Oh yeah I can't come over because my mom doesn't like me at guys houses" So please help me =( I can't take this. All my friends go to guy's houses alone all the time and all of them have guys over alone too. I keep telling her that but she just says she doesn't care. UGH. So please help with those two questions. Thanks! (link)
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heylo, i can relate to how you feel..lol.....a lot.....with my boyfriend, we wanted to hangout at his house, and so he was like, my mom will talk to your mom. My boyfriend was having a family event, so like, it was a bit easy for his mom to ask my mom, and my mom said yes. I even went to his house on sundays because his mom asked my mom if i could come over for dinner. And like, my mom would say yes. At first she was reluctant. His mom only called my mom once or twice, and then after that, i would just tell my mom that i was invited over for dinner, and then slowly when my mom started to get compfortable, i would tell her the truth. But i hope this helped..good luck!:D
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I'm 15, 5'6" and about 159 pounds. I've been overweight since I was a child, not from eating wrong or not being active, it's just how it happened. I started going to the gym in May, and in the past few months I've been working out a lot. I look different appearence-wise, I can see my body slowly changing, but my weight isn't really changing. It's taking a long time for my physical appaearence to change, too. I'm not eating badly, I've cut down completely from fast food and things high in calories. Can someone tell me how to lose weight faster than I am? I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong. (link)
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it sounds like you are doing everything right. But it could be that your body is just going at its own pace and order of change because everybody's body is differnt you know...but umm, i have a friend who was overweight, and i helped her lose 18 pounds in 3 or four weeks. crazy right? but what she did was eat yogurt with strawberies in it in the morning for breakfast. Then in the afternoon she ate tuna salad. and then for dinner, she ate chicken salad. then in the evenings, we would go run and walk some and run around her neighborhood. I have a problem with losing weight....the reason why is because i only eat when i'm hungry, and i'm working on eating 3 balanced diets everyday, but its so hard. So i can't really gain much weight because of that. But anyway.....i hope this helped. goodluck!:D
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here's my problem, lately I feel like I've done absolutely nothing with my life.... I feel really empty...I'm great at poetry and art. I've graduated from highschool during this year but I haven't gone to college yet because I have an avoidence personallity and I can't be around large groups of people I don't know,which is why I had a hard time in high school an now I'm seeing a psychiatrist... Well all my life I've spent helping others but I can't help my self. Its hard for me to get a girlfriend because I'm really shy and I've been alone for a very long time..I do love someone very close to me but she only wants to be friends..we haven't really been talking lately and I don't know why. An it feels like she's avoiding me, I've been trying to get myself together but more an more I feel so empty an I jus don't know what to do any more, thank you in advance for listing/helping (link)
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i'm so sorry that you've had to go through this. I can relate to you in many ways. Thats awesome that you have that talent of poetry and art. What I would do if i were you is think about trying something new! like joining a club or group, where you will feel forced to talk. try not to think too much about what anyone is going to think of you. I think its something that will happen gradually so you will have to have some patience. Like try to get that side of you thats hidden, just say whatever you want, what you are thinking, how you feel, compliment people. Also you can try to smile a lot. Like try to walk with good posture and confidently, and for example, when you go into the grocery store, smile at people you pass by or that are looking at you. This will help make you look more approachable and open. And then like you can also try getting a new look. Change your look in a way that people that know you will be like "O my gosh....no way, that is not blah blah blah..he looks amazing". A new haircut, with an oufit from head to toe. That girl that has been avoiding you, you can purposely bump into with your new look. And be confident, and just don't talk to her. She will be starring at you in amazement and look at her, and if she does smiles, smile back or talks to you, then you can talk to her. Try to look online or in magazines for looks that girls go crazy for. You still want to be you, but the happy approachable you. Another thing, when you talk to her, make eye contact, not too much tho. but look her in the eye. or just any girl you have around you. Eye contact is a big thing. Girls like girls with a little muscle, so what you could do is also think about body building a little. the natural kind just to get your body that point girls love. Girls love guys with muscle and mid sized, and bigger than them. but neways. I hope i didn't say too much. And you don't have to do this all at once...little by little. Hope it helped, goodluck.:D my email is chris12677@yahoo.com is you would like to talk more.
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I reaally like this boy. I have no idea if he likes me or not. He stares at me in assembly sometimes, and when i look at him, he looks away.
Also when he's talking to his mates. they look at me?
im so confused. Does he like me? (link)
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its a big possibily. it seems like the part about when he's talking to his mates and then they look at you, i bet they are checking you out because he likes. kind of like when one of your friends like a guy, and all the friends are starring at the guy, and you are the only one not looking. basically because you like them. i think that it is the same thing. I think he likes you. and the fact that he looks away when you look at him is because he doesn't want to have had you catch him, because maybe he's nervous or embarrassed. yep, i 100% think he likes you. :D goodluck, i hope this made you a little less confused.
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I have a question obviously, but I would really appreciate answers from people with experience.
Are guys all the same? Is the main goal of their life to have sex? I mean I see these guys and they're gorgeous, know they're gorgeous, and use it to their advantage to get EVERY girl possible. ARE THERE ANY THAT DON'T TRY TO GET WITH EVERY GIRL? THAT TRY TO FIND SOMEONE THEY LOVE? like real love, not lust.
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No, they aren't all the same, but it is really hard to find one that can be focused on all different things, not only dirtyness. I just recently broke up with a guy who was beautiful, but he wasn't nasty. He wasn't really too focused on dirtiness, but in the past, a lot of guys that i was with were very dirty, some more than others. So it just depends on the guy. They are ones that don't try to get with every girl. They are more older and mature. The ones that can give their love faithfully to one girl. The ones that can love. There are a lot of them, usually not the really super georgeous ones. Too much of georgeousness is bad. So If i were you I would look a little bit lower, not too georgeous because the georgeous ones know how to play.goodluck, i hope this helped :D
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18/f
so i use to be close to this girl. but we went to different schools and we just...stopped talking for awhile. well then we hung out every now and then and then stopped talking again and lately she was asking what i was doing because she wanted to get together, and i was always busy. so last night i texted her and was like, what are you doing tomorrow night? we should go to dinner and she was like yeah!! and so then tonight i met up with her at a restaurant and we were catching up on everything, and i was like oh you got a new phone and she was like ya! here look, and she gave it to me. well i was looking at everything and i went to her texts and i saw that she was like talking about me to another friend (i use to talk to her too) and she was texting her about how i asked her to go to dinner out of no where, and how it's all awkward and the girl was like ask her about college and she was like well then what!! and she was like it's just awkward. i didn't think it was awkward at all and so when i saw that i was like wow i feel stupid now. she is talking about me to someone else, saying how it was random how i asked to go to dinner, and how it's all awkward (but it really wasn't?) and i told her like everything that was going on in my life, all my problems and everything i've been going through and now i was like okay..sweet. guess i can't trust anyone anymore? i just wanted to leave after that because i felt so stupid. i don't know what to do. am i stupid for feeling so dumb about this? (link)
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You are not stupid for feeling dumb about it. I know I would too. maybe she didn't mean it in a bad way. Maybe she was surprised because you usually can't hang out because you are so busy. Maybe her friend asked her what she was doing that night, so she told her that she was gonna be with you, and then the friend would have been like, oh cool, and then you friend said, yeah, but its weird because it is so random, but not really. This could be the positive way of looking at it. The other thing that could have happened is that she could have been talking about how she was gonna chil and how it was weird because it was random...but i think you should talk to her and bring it up. Tell her that was fun catching up on everything, and just tell her what you saw, and how you didn't understand what she was meaning. Like you want to know why she said that. That is a quick way to solve the whole issue, then you can just easily decide wether or not you can trust anyone. i hope this helped.gd luck :D
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so i like this boy and he likes me a lot but im also hearing theres this other girl who likes him but i dont know how he feels about her. what are some things i could do to win him over? (link)
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tease him and play with him, and flirt a lot with him. Then play hard to get. What you can do is just tease him by just poking him in an annoying but cute way, make funny faces at him, but cute. Then just totally flirt with him. Give him complements. If he has told you that he likes you, tell you that you feel like you don't deserve to be liked by a guy like him...he might ask why then you can say because he is so cute, hott, or whatever word you want to use, or he might also say that he doesn't deserve to be like by a girl like you. Then you can give him complements once in a while...they go a long ways....a long long ways......i hope this helped, goodluck :D
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ok i have been like freaking lately because everyone says i have a big butt. and i dont want a big butt. but does that mean im fat? should i start dieting? i've tried but its reeealy hard lol :( im 16 and like 5 feet n 5 inches tall and weigh about 133 pounds. please tel me if you think i should start watching wat i eat oh and by the way im a athlete, a figure skater but i ahvent been skating that much and i keep eating alot so im worried im gunna gain alot of wieght and i realy dont want that to happen. :( (link)
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thats a compliment!!!! you should be happy about it. A lot of girls wish they had a big butt. Right now, for example, i am slim, and i have a little bubble butt, and i know for sure that if i gain weight, i'll have a big one, so i'm working towards an increase. It totally does not mean that you are fat, this is good. Guys love big butts. Don't worry too much about it, i'm am 100% positive it is a compliment.i hope this helped :D
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Im a 13 year old girl and i havent had a boyfriend for a whole year! I like this on kid in my class alot but i just dont know how to get him to like me back. Any advice???? (link)
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show him that you are interested by looking at him in that i like you way. Let him catch you, and then look away quickly like you didn't want him to see you looking at him, like you are embarrassed or something. Maybe if you see him in the hall and you are passing him, look at him, and when he looks back, smile at him in a friendly way...just little things like that to start out with....you can also try to smile and laugh a lot with your friends in your class, then maybe when you are smilling with your friends, you can look at him, lock eyes, and then just look away and just keep talking with you friend....but i hope this helped...goodluck :D
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i have been with my boyfriend for a while now and we have talked about marriege. he is my first love and i can see myself spending the rest of my life with him. we have had our ups and downs but i trust him and do love him. i just wonder if we're to young to get married. we're both 19 and are going to college. the fact that we are both still teenagers scares me. should age matter if you know for a fact its true love? (link)
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I honestly don't think that 19 is too young for commitment. It just basically depends on the relationship and the maturity of the people in it, and their trust and willingness to fully love each other to the fullest no matter what. And it also depends on how long you have been together, because usually if you have been together for a few months only, its hard to make it work because you don't really know each other, and then you are gonna have to find out the real side of the person you married the hard way. Its okay that you have ups and downs because no relationship is perfect, and the love and chemistry,that magnetic feel, is the thing that has kept you together through all that. In my opinion, if you guys wanna get married, plan an engagement that goes on for a year or two, then you can be sure, if getting married is what you are ready for. Because not everyone is the same. And then if it all works out perfectly good, then you know, you can go ahead and tie the knot, but at the same time, thinking ahead. I hope this made sense. Goodluck :D
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15/f
So Im going out with this kid named Kris, and weve been going out for about 3 months, and I definitly love him, like nobody has any idea how much I care about him. He tells me he loves me all the time, and I know he does. But he has only kissed me once, and it wasnt even long, and that was like a month ago, when he gives me hugs there never long and he never seems excited to see me, but then when we talk on the phone hes all love dovey and says he loves me. I just dont know what this means, and its starting to really get to me. (link)
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one thing could be that he is feeling the same exact way that you are feeling. A lot of times in relationships I noticed that when a person feels something, the other feels the same, or they tend to think alike sometimes. like what you should try is hugging him longer, try kissin him long, and look excited to see him...Try all the things you see him not doing......see how he reacts when you do this, then if he is still acting the same, you can tell him how you feel, and just forget about him. It will probably be really hard but you don't deserve someone who treats you like you are nothing out in the open, and then behind closed doors tells you how much he loves you. I hope everything goes well. Goodluck :D
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i like this kid billy and he knos i like him and things hav been cool between us. but lately, i been thinking mor and more about y he doesnt like me. i keep wondering wat is rong with me. and i hav tried to talk to billy about y he doesnt like me but wen i see him words just dont come out.
also,i went over my friends house earlier this week and i used to hav a crush on her neighbor. and then i saw him agin this week while at her house and all the feelings i used to hav for him came back to me. and i dont kno wat i should do bcause i really like billy but i also like "the neightbor"
please help :(
~steph~
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In my opinion, since you know billy doesn't like you, go for your friend's neighbor. Hang out with him or go to your friends house more so you guys can chill. I think that there could be a chance that billy likes you, but he doesn't want to admit it, so when you go out for the neighbor instead, this will also help see if billy really doesn't like you. But if Billy doesn't like you for sure, you have the neighbor. And by going to the neighbor, you are sort of playing hard to get with billy. I hope this made sense...goodluck :D
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