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fighting for a boy
so i like this boy and he likes me a lot but im also hearing theres this other girl who likes him but i dont know how he feels about her. what are some things i could do to win him over?
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Some tips to winning him oveR?! and this is on the assumption he has even given the other girl some thought.
1: Don't compete, try not to think about winning him over like he is a prize. This will put your mind at rest and make it more bareable to stand yourself if you should ever see him with her. Remember he is a PERSON, not a boy. theres a difference.
2: I'm sure he likes you alreayd because you've been doing exactly right. So I can hardly say anything else to improve on.. your tactics :D. Yes flirrtation is a go! but key- do not ever, ever intend to flirt with another man in his presence to make him see that you are to be wanted. Its a turn off, maybe some guys like the challenge but if u truly care for him, you won't put him through that, your better than that.
3: Wow, these shouldn't even be listed as numbers- Even if you do, pretend you don't care. If you see him talking to the other girl involved (assuming) dont let your judgements get in the way, its selfish. Actually, if you even help her in a way, if you know he likes you.. and you say "wow, you two make a great couple" (REALLY SINCERELY, without a hint of remorse) he'll know that you cannot be affected by anyone else. That you are above all that and that he has to work to please you, or even disturb you. I hope this doesn't backfire, but this is from understanding that he does like you. But also don't misinterrpret what I meant and not be affected at all- just in the bad ways- be affected in a way, that once you see him (which im sure you're alrdy doing since its so uncontrollibly awesome!) Smile, be so happy to see him and he will then see, in reverse, how capable he is to do so much good with little effort.
6: Did I skip? SO! just another plus. Be mysterious. Don't give away too much- if the other girl is always telling him, her day, what she did exactly at every moment, he won't be interested that much loner because he already knows, there no work for him to be the greatest detective ever. If she's telling him, rather than SHOWING him what kind of person she is, again its all said and done. He can't even make a judgement for himself. But please, do not be there and not tell him what you did that day if he asks, he may get a little annoyed and too tired if your playing too hard to get that he mis-construdes it to be that you are infact, not interested. SO.. be careful
19: I hope I helped! So sorry if this makes no sense. Be happy!
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Go with the " go after what you want and if it doesn't want you back than it doesn't deserve you anyways" Flirt with him. Show him your interested. Teasing. Be your self with a little spice. good luck.
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tease him and play with him, and flirt a lot with him. Then play hard to get. What you can do is just tease him by just poking him in an annoying but cute way, make funny faces at him, but cute. Then just totally flirt with him. Give him complements. If he has told you that he likes you, tell you that you feel like you don't deserve to be liked by a guy like him...he might ask why then you can say because he is so cute, hott, or whatever word you want to use, or he might also say that he doesn't deserve to be like by a girl like you. Then you can give him complements once in a while...they go a long ways....a long long ways......i hope this helped, goodluck :D
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make the other girl jelous(spellin)
flirt with him alot if you wanna win him over
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Ask him out!
(if you're one of the really brave-confident types)
If you're not, and you're like me, then just step up your game and flirt with him more! Try to connect with him more, become a closer friend, invite him to parties etc. Then, maybe you could ask him out :D
Don't worry about the other girl, all you care about is the guy anyways!
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