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boyfriends brother=mean to me
Me= 17-F
Boyfriend=17-M
bf brother=17-M
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 15 months now. A year ago before his brother got his girlfriend, He complained alot saying i was stealing his brother and we only hungout once a week if that because we live 40 minutes away and talked on the internet an hour or so nightly. Since he has got his girlfriend they hangout all the time because they go to school together and she is pretty much his only friend now because he doesnt make time for his friends. He always says things to me now about how crappy me and my boyfriends relationship is just because we dont go out and do things everytime we see eachother because we'd rather stay at home and relax together. It always ticks me off and he's made me cry twice because i feel horrible. But last 3 weeks ago (the last time i saw him) his brother told us that we shouldnt kiss as much because it means our relationship is all lust and crap because he believes everytime we go to his room we stay down there and makeout the whole time...when in reality we go down there and cuddle and watch movies and just be together yes we kiss but we dont makeout the whole time we are away from eachother for 1 to 3 weeks at a time and he complains when i say i miss him when he says it right after he gets off school when he saw her a whole 10 minutes ago.
I just want to know why he always makes me feel like shit i love my boyfriend so much but im tired of his brother making me cry and feel like crap.
just please tell me why you think he might be doing this...
i just want to understand why hes doing this to me when, when me and his brother first started dating he seemed to like me.
HELP!
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okay i was kinda in the same situation with my sister and just dont think anything of it because i was letting it get to me too and it only made me feel like crap so now i just tune out what my sister has to say about my boyfriend and me. hope i helped
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it seems to me that maybe the brother like you too. he probably says al that crap to make you feel bad, and so that you won't be with your boyfriend anymore, but really, he doesn't realize that its bringing you and your boyfriend closer together. You should try talking to your brother, and then talking with his brother too, like when you chill with your boyfriend and his brother, you and your boyfriend should talk to him, or you should just tell him (the brother), that you feel like shit when he talks to you, and you want him to stop because you really love his brother. honestly speaking...the brother should be minding his own business. He seems to be always critisizing you and and your boyfriend's relationship, and he obviously has issues. He like you. That is what i think. but anyway, i hope this helped. good luck!:D
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Really, who cares WHY he is doing it?
Obviously he is both a hypocrite and an arrogant kid. His opinions never really mattered, and they matter even less since they can't stay consistent.
No one can make you feel like crap without your permission. So stop giving this guy permission to make you feel like crap.
The next time he makes a comment say calmly and kindly "Well, all relationships are different and I'm very happy in mine." If he doesn't get the message, walk away, change the subject, or simply ignore him. If he STILL doesn't get the hint say "Your comments are hurtful, I know we have different opinions so please, keep yours to yourself."
He shouldn't have the power to make you miserable. Stop letting him have it.
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