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Okay. I'm a female.. Well I have been dating a guy for awhile. And my niece just died. I have been kind of sad, And the guy I'm dating said he has been hearing stuff. Like I don't like him. But I really do. The other day I got a text message from him and it said "It feels like you don't like me anymore." And I want him to believe that I do. But Its hard to convince him because people are still saying that I dont like him. But He's starting to act different around me. Any ideas? :(
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Well, this is a difficult situation, you need to let the guy your dating know how you feel and if he trusted you then it wouldn't be an issue.
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Tell him about your niece and how you feel a little depressed about it and you miss her and stuff that's why you have been kind of "blah". Let him know. that the rumors people are telling him are just rumors and that you like him a lot and you don't want to loose him. have a seat and tell him this look him straight in the eyes and tell him.
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tell him about your niece more. Text him or talk to him. this might sound cheesy but you can say something like this.....hey baby, how are you doing today? then be like...."i'm so sad", he will probably ask you why, then you can say "i'm still feeling so down about my niece dying. She was like a little sister to me, and i can't believe she's gone you know. Its been so hard. and people have been saying that i don't like you anymore, but i do. I love/like you. And i think that all this pain with my cousin, is affecting our relationship. I don't want us to fall appart. I need you. Especially now more than ever because I wanna get through this hard time with you. you are the person that is always there for me, and can make me laugh and feel so happy. I don't want to lose that, because i feel like we are getting distant." Anyway, this is just an idea of what you could say. i'm sorry about your neice, and goodluck :).
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You need to just flat out tell him that you like him. You need to tell him that if he loves you and trusts you enough then he shouldn't believe what all the other people are saying but what your telling him.
Don't do it over a txt either. Do it face to face. It'll be more effective.
If you haven't been going out for long then I'd break up. He might just be looking for an excuse to get out of the relationship.
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