Oka I wanna know i liked this boyu for liek 4 years already and i havent made any moves or done nothing about it. And im just wondering what should i do. And what it means since i liked him for that long and i never really liked a boy for that long. Is it bad.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? christina12677 answered Wednesday December 24 2008, 12:59 am: its alright if you've liked him for that long. Its normal, a lot of people go through that. I liked a boy for 3 years. I think that you should try to make a move finally though. I think that it is a good idea to take that chance and see if do have a chance with him. Make a move. Because if you don't, you will never know weather or not you would have had a chance with him. If you get a positive reaction then good for you!:D but if its negative, it helps you so that you can recover from rejection, and then move on and meet someone else that you really like. I hope this helped.good luck!:D [ christina12677's advice column | Ask christina12677 A Question ]
SWEETXLOVE answered Tuesday December 23 2008, 4:12 pm: well if it makes you feel better, i've been stuck on a boy for about four years too. it's hard, i know where you're coming from. first of all, are you friends with him? if you are, flirt with him and flirt ALOT :) don't be scared to go after what you want. unfortunately the guy i like has a girlfriend and there is nothing i can do about it but there is something YOU can do and if you have the chance take it. don't wait too long, because he may just get a girlfriend and boy let me tell you it sucks. i definately do not want you to have to go through what i'm going through. if you two aren't friends, try and talk to him. whether it's in person, through a text or even online if you're more comfortable doing that first. try hanging out with him and it doesn't just have to be you two it can be with a group of friends. he will never know you like him, if you don't hint at it or tell him. he may just think you two are friends! be confident, guys love girls who are confident and know what they want. but girl, i'm not saying its bad that you've liked him for so long but you must do something about it! otherwise you may just keep wondering "what if" everyday and you do not want that do ya? i know rejection is a horrible fear, everyone is scared of rejection but within the past two years i've realized i have to go after what i want, and who cares if i get rejected at least i tried and at least i could move on if i knew they didn't feel the same way. if you need anything else, or want something answered better don't be shy, ask away. good luck ♥ LU [ SWEETXLOVE's advice column | Ask SWEETXLOVE A Question ]
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