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is 19 to young for commitment?
i have been with my boyfriend for a while now and we have talked about marriege. he is my first love and i can see myself spending the rest of my life with him. we have had our ups and downs but i trust him and do love him. i just wonder if we're to young to get married. we're both 19 and are going to college. the fact that we are both still teenagers scares me. should age matter if you know for a fact its true love?
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Statistics are stacked heavily against you.
Make it a long engagement if you're that serious, and I'm not talking a few months, more like 4-5 years.
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Honestly people can chance alot in a few years, but I think its great that you guys want to get married. Personally I would try to go through college first, if you can handle college and still feel the same way by the time you both graduate, then yes I would say its def meant to be. I have met alot of people who wanted to get married at 19, but after college they felt differently, maybe your love will last and if it does then go for it.
Good luck with the rest of your lives, I hope things work out for the best with you guys.
Love is hard to find, and if you guys have it then you should hold on to it, and savor every moment. Cherish each moment you guys are together. :)
All the best :)
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yes and no. it really does depend on you and your boyfriend. my brother and his fiance met while he was 19 and she was 18 and they have been going out for two and a half years. she is now turning 20 in a month, and he is 21 and they are getting married in a year. they got engaged when she was 19, and i know that this is true love. i can see it and they would do anything for each other but they also are very committed. they bought a house together, and have a cat. they put their bank accounts together, so it's now both of their money, it's not seperate. it's a cute little family:) and i know they are very much in love. on the other hand my best friend is 18 and he has also been going out with his girlfriend for two and a half years. i know that they do love each other and they are also each other's first loves, and they do have their ups and downs but they recently are on a break because they have been fighting alot, and even though they say they are in love i know he just may be falling out of love with her. i know she loves him, would do anything for him and never wants any other girl to have the chance to see how amazing he really is but he, he doesn't feel the same way and i can just see it. he doesn't want to be tied down at 18 years old, he has so much ahead of him and i know he wants to see what else is out there yet he still stays with her because he is scared to not have anyone there, and he does not want to hurt her family and especially HER. i'm not sure where it will end up with them, but i do know that they were in love. love to me, has nothing to do with age. just make sure you think about all the possible situations before you decide to do anything. i am happy for you, i am glad that you found such an amazing person who makes you happy and i wish you two the best of luck ♥ LU
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Everything depends on the relationship. If you truely believe that your relationship is strong enough for marriege than why not? Age is just a number. its the relationship, maturity and so on.
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I honestly don't think that 19 is too young for commitment. It just basically depends on the relationship and the maturity of the people in it, and their trust and willingness to fully love each other to the fullest no matter what. And it also depends on how long you have been together, because usually if you have been together for a few months only, its hard to make it work because you don't really know each other, and then you are gonna have to find out the real side of the person you married the hard way. Its okay that you have ups and downs because no relationship is perfect, and the love and chemistry,that magnetic feel, is the thing that has kept you together through all that. In my opinion, if you guys wanna get married, plan an engagement that goes on for a year or two, then you can be sure, if getting married is what you are ready for. Because not everyone is the same. And then if it all works out perfectly good, then you know, you can go ahead and tie the knot, but at the same time, thinking ahead. I hope this made sense. Goodluck :D
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it depends how long the realationship is ?
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