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Why is he doing this?
Okay so I am 13, in the 8th grade and I am a girl. Ever since 7th grade I have had the biggest crush on this boy, lets call him Collin. In 7th grade the crush was not too bad, it wasn't until the summer before 8th grade that I started to talk to him, A LOT and I really fell head over heels. I know almost everything about him, his middle name, his favorite color, his favorite food, his biggest fear etc. and he knows all of these things about me. We have gotten really close and stuff but this is all outside of school, like at friends houses where not a lot of people are around or on IM or something. Lately, however, we have been talking a lot more at school and I walk to class with him and stuff like that. But then something weird happened. On Sunday night we were talking on IM and everything was perfect but then Monday he wasn't signed on and on Tuesday for some reason I had an odd suspicion so I logged onto a secret screen name and saw that he had blocked me! I couldn't understand it. So today (Wednesday) I asked him why he blocked me and he mumbled something that I couldn't hear and then started telling me this story. Now, I am not sure if this story has anything at all to do with why he blocked me/what he mumbled or if he was just trying to change the subject, but this is basically what he said. His friend's mom asked Collin "are you dating ____ (my name)?" now Collin thought that his friends mom was just joking around so Collin said "Oh yeah, of course" but it turns out she wasn't joking so now the son (his friend) has been all up in Collin's business about Collin and me thinking we are like secretly dating but Collin told me he didn't care what his everyone else thought and he was sorry that he had pulled me into this. So now I am confused, did this story have anything to do with why he blocked me? and if it doesn't... then what does this all mean??
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yep. It sounds a lot like it has to do with the story. I think that he likes you still, he is just trying to put up a disguise so that Collin's mother doesn't get up all in his business. So he probably did that just for show so that he can stop being bothered about it. Don't worry too much. It seems like he still likes it but he doesn't like the way that collin's mom is getting into the whole thing. And he seems like a good guy so there isn't much to worry about.Goodluck!:D
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It sounds like he was a little embarssed although he says he wasn't? I would ask him. Ask him how he feels about what she and his friend are saying.
Tell him you didn't understand what he had mumbled the other day. You may also be over reacting and not notice it. Im not saying your wrong but if i wake up in the morning and my fiance doesn't call me until say 2 or 3 pm i start to worry and think back thoughts. When nothing was going on he either slept in or was working outside or something. so Take a breath and either wait it off or get to the bottum of it.
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