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im not sure what i should do, a few weeks ago my bf stayed at his mates house who is 39. my bf is 16. his mate let my bf smoke a LOT of weed and he was so drunk he couldnt controll himself.(this has happened a few times whilst stayin at this guys house) my bf has now told me that he is goind to move in with this guy, trouble is it is about 45 mins away from where i live and im afraid i wont get 2 see him anymore. i have spoken 2 my bf and he has just said that he wont do anything stupid but i just dont wanna lose him... any1 got any advice? please? thank you lucee xXx
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idk exactly what my answer is, but i do think that cfwlovesyou (or whatever) is wrong, even if he does love you, he might not stay just cause its what he wants... i guess my answer is IF YOU WANT HIM TO BE HAPPY THEN LET HIM... so to say IF YOU LOVE HIM, LET HIM GO i guess
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say. if you love me u will stay. if you dont then go on.. and if he really loves you he will stay.
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He says he isn't gonna do anything stupid but then again he has been hasn't he? Might want to point that out to him. Where are the parents of this boy who would allow him to move in with a 39 year old guy in the first place?
If he moves 45 minutes away it will be hard to see him often. Will you even be going to the same school? It could work out if you both try. But, you both have to seriously work on it. I'm afraid if he gets under the influence of this older friend he may not try as hard as you'd like him to. I think you may be thinking the same thing. If he does move you can only hope he tires of the party atmosphere soon. If not then it doesn't look good. Encourage him to stay home as much as possible. :)
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okay just tell your bf you are really worried about him staying at that 39 year old house. tell him you dont want him to smoke or drink and its really hurtting you. tell him that you love him too and you want to be able to see him more often! hope it helps! <3chrissi
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wow this 39 yr old definately doesnt sound like your bf should be hanging around him..in that kind of environment you know your bf will be getting into more trouble like that
so..make a lil videotape to him telling him how much you would miss him and all your feelings
do his parents know about this? it sounds like this 39 yr old could screw up your bf's life forever..i mean i've had a couple friends and all it took was that one person who did bad stuff..and then my friends took a wrong turn and now they are into the bad stuff also..so0o i mean you could consider talking to them about it
just talk to him and tell him everything you feel..i mean you cant force him to stay..if he goes its unfortunate because he would be screwing things up pretty bad..but at least you gave it your all
i hope i helped..inbox me if you want some more help, i'd love to help as much as i can
-melissa-
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Tell him what you just told us. That you don't want to lose him. Make sure he knows you trust him, but that you just don't want to lose him. I hope it all works out darling! =D
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