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First time having Sex
ok.. so my boyfriend and i have been going out for 2 1/2 years now... and we are ready to have sex... seeing it as my first time i don't know what to do, at all. how do you start out... how can you keep it from getting awkward?
sincerly,
i am ready
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There's no right or wrong way to do it...unless you have sex by like, eating pizza or something (but I guess some people do think pizza is sexy, so who am I to judge?). It's just something you have to figure out yourself, be creative. But I can tell you this...it's more than just "insert here". Play around first, like with fingering or, I dunno, dressing up as French maids or something. You'll get better at it with practice.
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I have to agree with Panramos one this matter. You’re most likely not ready for it. i mean come on. There are risk of being pregnant, getting STD/SDI (which can not be stopped by "Protection" and other far worst things that I will not mention this time around. Even if you were “Protected” you still can get pregnant and do you honestly think he is going to stay with you if there’s a baby involved (if you thinks your far worst off than I thought). I know, I have seen it many times guys who want Premarital Sex don’t really care about you, they care about what you (or others if you’re not good enough) can give them. You don’t want to do this trust me, you’ll regret down the road everyone will.
I hope this helped. Sorry if wasn’t what you wanted, but I do not write to PLEASE, but to EDUCATE. May you choose the path you want most.
~Teen Guru~
PS Let me know if I helped
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I think that no matter what, it's going to feel awkward and you're gonna be nervous. Telling your boyfriend that you're ready is a good way to start out..he'll have a better idea of what he's doing and he'll understand if you don't. Hope I helped..
x Becca o
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If you were ready then you would know what to do.
Sincerely,
person who knows you are not ready.
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*im a virgin but i do know a thing or two ;) ..so i will try and help you out the best i can*
well you start out with foreplay..do you know what that is?
its all the good stuff before having sex..like oral sex, handjob,fingering, etc.
then when its time for sex, relax and just have a great time..it wont be awkward if you've been going out for 2 1/2 years..it will be special
www.talksexwithsue.com
^lots of great articles on sex and sex related e topics..all kinds of info from oral sex,to sex, lubrication,stds's, everything! its a great website..check it out for more information
i hope this helped! :)
-melissa-
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