Im a 13 yr old girl, and my boyrfriend is 15 and turning 16 soon. we really like each other and we connect so well. and ive already talked to him about respecting what im comfortable doing and stuff. but i feel like he is just waiting. and some of my friends who are friends with him said he isnt a virgin. and that kinda bothers me. but he is so sweet and honestly i love him. but i feel kinda bad that he wants to finger me and stuff but i wont let him. and because he is older then me he has done alot more stuff that i havnt, which makes me feel really in-expierienced. and i worry that if i do something im doing it wrong. he hasnt said anything about wanting me to do more with him but i think im getting some hints. like he is always going up my shirt when we are making out and stuff, but i always stop him, and then it seems like he gets a little frustrated because he just wants to move on, but im not ready, and he said thats okay, but im not sure that i believe him.. PLEASEE GIVE ME SOME FEEDBACK! I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO!!!
thankss
That is a normal guy, his behavior. Guys think about sex, a lot. Thats something you will learn through time. Do not give in if you aren't ready..virginity is something` special and once you lose it you will never get it back. I think you should wait until you're older and figure out a little more how the world works. I don't think at 13 you're going` to find "the one", so make sure you save yourself...he prolly isnt your first and he isnt going to be your last..i would wait. Tell him he will just have to get over it if he doesnt like that you arent ready because if he really cares for you he wOULD understand..
good luck
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Does anyone suggest any songs? I want the kind where it's sad/has a sad story/has a sad tune/talks about losing friends/talks about life, and how hard it is/talks about friends and stuff/talks about how everyone hates you, or that no one cares/no one cares about you/talks about how things have changed and won't be the same again..... Just stuff similar to that. Maybe by bands that aren't that popular and don't have a lot of screaming/talking in it. Bands that aren't country.... Just ANYTHING will work! Please feel free to make the list long, and list the song name and artist please!
(Don't ask why =\)
rascall flatts-what hurts the most
timmy t-one more try
pink-lonely girl is a REALLY good one
cranberries-linger
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I have smoked for 2-3 yrs. I have went cold turkey before and after a week i started back up how can I quit and stay a quiter?
All it takes is a little will power. If you really want to quit, nothing will stop you from doing so.
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Hey, I'm 17 and have been with my bf for just over 6 months...about a month ago he asked me to move in with him, and i really want to but i dont no how to ask my parents cus i dont think they will approve... how do i tell them that i think its the right thing to do???
I don't think moving in with your boyfriend is a wise idea right now, believe me. I'm 17 and have been in the same position. Nothing is ever a sure thing and seeing eachother every day will drive you absolutely freaking insane! People our age shouldn't be so quick to want to jump in with moving in with our boyfriends. You've been with this kid for six months, and he wants yo to abandon your family and move in with him? Your family won't take it well, and who's to say they let you move in, you and your boyfriend break up..then where do you go if they don't let you back in? Think hard of all the possibilities and take care.
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I am not the type of girl to just have any kind of boyfriend. He has to be my "boyfriend material". There is this guy who everytime I talk to him I get this smile that WON'T go away. Everytime I think about him I get so happy. But the thing is he is known to cheat on girls. So I know if I went with him there is a high chance of him cheating on me. And I don't want that. Oh yeah he likes me to (he says that to me, his friends, & my friends like everyday) So I guess I want to know why am I having feelings for someone that I know can hurt me and how can I stop or is it just one of those things you can't help?
Mhmm..Guys are great aren't they? Well..there is this theory..you always want what you can't have. We all know that we can't win the bad boy's heart..but we try anyways and end up getting hurt in the process. Guys are very sly and cunning. They make us girls so gullible. My advice is to do absolutely NOTHING with him. If you do nothing with him and he stays with you, he likes you for you. If not, then it wasn't meant to be. Good Luck
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ok..well im having sort of a problem.. you see ive been wit the same guy for a year and a half.. and for like the past 3-4 months it feels like im not good enuf for him... i mean hes always wantin to hang out wit his best friend nd im just sick of it.. i have to bug him to stay wit me and just hang out wit me... he just gets kinda mad.. wat am i doing wrong? i love him becca but i just dont no wat to do... it just feels as tho i have 2 boyfriends!and his best friend is like one of mii best friends im just tired of not bein able to spend time wit mii boifriend witout him bein around and witout mii man gettin mad and bored wit me!? help me plz!!
First off, you shouldn't beg him to hang out with you, if he doesn't want to..then don't make him. Let him be for awhile, if he wants to hang out, he'll ask you. He probably just needs some time with his friends. You've probably been spending too much time together. Good luck babes
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ok i like this guy but he is going out with one of my best friends..i've gone out with him twice already but i just can't seem to get him out of my mind...should i tell him or just try and get over it?
13/f
That's a tough thing..one friend should never date another's ex...causes trouble to the max. But, i guess tell him how you feel but you can't blame him if he's not quite nice about it since he DOES have a girlfriend and it does happen to be your best friend. Good luck..
Becca
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im in need of a new screen name and i have no clue with ideas!i like the color pink..im in dance and poms..i have blonde hair and green eyes..im preppy and spoiled..i have a guy in my life im crazy about! well theres a few things about me! can you please help me!? thanks a bunches!
hmm..
GuyCrazYPoMS34
Spoiledblondie
Dancingpink29
PreppyCheer
PiNkCrAzEe
GrNeYeDBaBy023
Um..im not real good at making screennames so sorry if they suck. I'm mucho apologetic about it.
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do any of you guys know any hot techno/trance songs?
LISTEN TO ANYTHING NERDCORE!!!
Mc Chris..
Mc Front A Lot..
YT Cracker..
They have awesome songs..
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i am 18 years old i have been with this man for about 4 years now but he have been with other woman but i still love him i try to move on with my life but i can not i need help
It's normal to feel like that. You were with him for 4 years, its gonna take awhile to recover. You just need to live day by day, focus on you for a change.
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I'm 15 years old, 5'1, and weigh 113 pounds.
Any weight fast and easy weight loss tips?
You don't need to lose weight. That's almost what I weigh and it's normal. Anything less than that would be emaciated! You should be content with the way you are
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ok my guy friend that i like a lot we are goin to hook up soon but i need to find a way out of the house... he wants to talk to my mom and tell her if she can drop me off at the mall to see him but i am scared to let him talk to her. i know he will make a good impresson but my MOM i am scared she goin to say something mean like usual.. both of my parents think he is my boyfriend and they dont complain about it but i dont know if they will let. my mom thinks boyfriends lead to sex. that is how it was back then and since i am the oldest i got to put up wit it can someone help me out... plz.. thanks!
p.s
my parents r really over protective they wont even let me walk outside the door without them comin after me.
Tell them that he is just a friend, and that if you guys become more than that you'll let them know. It can't hurt to go to a mall with a friend, right? Maybe they'd feel more comfortable if you brought one of your girl friends with you.
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13/f i am a cheerleader and i am the worst on the team. i was wondering if there was anyone who wanted ot be my friend and teach me a little bit more about cheer. if you want to help give me your email address and we can be email friends. xoxo
You have to work really hard if you want to be good at cheerleading. People think it's really simple and it's not. IM me on xcry4noguyx if you want tips or something or you can email me at rjbabiidoll1417@hotmail.com
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how do you get a yeast infection?
You can get a yeast infection from many things. If you wear thongs or nylon, anything that doesn't let air flow, that can cause a yeast infection. It can also be from bacteria..like..from someone. Hope I helped!
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i need like A LOT of good movies. it doesn't matter what they are, just as long as there is a chance that i might have seen them lol. old or new..doesn't matter!!
The Notebook
The Sleeping Dictionary
White Oleander
Hackers
Jay and Silent Bob
Meaning Of Life
and i can't think of anymore right now
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i loved your advice and your right not what i wanted to hear but it was a realty cheack thatnk you again ill ask u other questions in the future
Thank you, and good luck. I'm glad I was able to help
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i couldn't just ask him what if he says no i dont like you that would be inbaricing and hurtfull i just couldnt
anything else ??
sorry not trying to sound rude
Ask his friend I guess..but trust me we all go through these things, it's a part of growing up. YOu have to learn the courage to do it, cause if you want it bad enough to have to go get it yourself before someone else does. Good luck.
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i had five dreams about a boy he found out and ever sence hes been acting diffrent around me .i wanna bring it to a diffrent level of going out but hes not on the top of the food chain not that i am but hes higher then me .i dont want to get hurt more should i say strait up that hey i love u go out with me and have him make me crash or leave it where it is and wait to see if he makes the first move.im a girl and 11 but not to young to be in love
I can garuntee you that you are not in love. You may feel that way but it takes a lot more than dreaming about a guy 5 times to be in love. I know that's not what you want to hear, but it's the truth. Ask him if he likes you..trust me you'll bounce back again even if you do get hurt cause it will happen plenty more times in the future. That IS a garuntee. Good luck
Becca
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Okay so there`s this boy and i really like him. a lot. okay so i hang out with him a lot then one day i told him i like him and he blushed and changed the subject right away. so we were hanging out 2 days ago and he was being really sweet. not that he`s never sweet or anything but he was different. it was me and him. he was being really nice. he insisted on buying me food. when it started pouring on us.. he took of his sweater and gave it to me. everytime i look at jeff i catch him looking at me and he blushes and then he smiles at me. what do you think? do you think he likes me or is he just being nice because he knows i like him? you don`t have to be positive but i just want a few opinions. PLEASE help! i rateee =D
I think he likes you, but he's shy or something. The only way to find out is to ask him straight out.
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i recently got kicked out of my house, illegally, by my dad. i had a job before i left, and i was friends with a guy there. i had a cell phone on my dad's plan- but he screwed me over too many times with the bill, and he always questioned me about who's numbers were who's. well, this guy offered to put me on his plan- because he's get the phone for free- and if anything- i'd be helping him out- with the bill and all- cuz weve been splitting in directly in half- no matter who goes over. ive had it for maybe 6 or 7 months. but since ive ben kicked out- i lost my job- and another guy at work has been paying my phone bills for me- (the last 3 months). my gramma- who i live with- has never liked the idea of me having a phone on someone else's plan. well, lastnight- we got into an argument about it- and we fought. like, physically. she told me i could keep the phone until monday- but that i had to give it back to him then. i feel horrible- but i just need to know- does she in fact have the right to do that?- i mean, she's not my legal guardian- and the phone was given to me- it's not like i begged for it.my phone is my only bit of freedom here- and i cant live without it. someone please share what you think.
I'd hide it from her and pretend I gave it back, just don't use it around her :)..or you culd do what other people say and honestly give it back. But no, she doesn't have the right to tell you to return a gift..but you are living with her and under her roof, it's her rules..goood luck
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