I have a boyfriend and he is starting to get on my nearves.The other problem is is that i like someone else who doesn't even know i exsist!I need help figuring out how to tell my boyfriend I dont want to go out anymore and i need help figuring out how to get my crushes attention.And what if my boyfriend finds out that i dumped him for another guy?
please help!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? KristinaD10 answered Wednesday July 27 2005, 3:16 am: be honest with your boyfriend and tell him why you dont wanna go out with him anymore and tell him that you like the guy and if he gets mad well eventually he will get over it :) and for ur crush try nd make excuses to talk to him dont make it obvious though and try and talk to him alot and then hopefully you will become friends and then you can take it from there
juicygurlx3 answered Tuesday July 26 2005, 3:52 pm: i think if you like someone else then you should go for it. i mean if i had a boyfriend and i liked someone else yes i would feel bad too but i mean guys would do the same thing to you. if he finds out then you should just tell him that it wasnt working out and it's better off if we just stay freinds. now if you want to have ur crush reconize just try your best to introduce yourself
xBestAddiction answered Tuesday July 26 2005, 3:05 pm: well first of all, does it matter if he find out that you dumped him for another guy? no. because thats what happenes in this world, that is mostly why people dump eachother. and just say i think it would be better if we saw other people. and for getting your crushes attention. there are a MILLION ways. i say just flat out tell him. its the best way to get a guys attention and you never know he probably likes you back. good luck! [ xBestAddiction's advice column | Ask xBestAddiction A Question ]
Teza answered Tuesday July 26 2005, 12:16 pm: Are you sure you want to break up with him && that you have absolutley no interest in him what so ever? If you are positive then go ahead && break up with him. Tell him the truth and why you want to break up with him. You dont have to say that you like someone else but whatever is bothering you about him. If he is a good guy who treats you right I dont know why you would want to break up with him.. but start talking to your crush more and see how his personality is. Since he doesnt know that you exist you have to make the first move and talk to him and ask him to hang out.. find out if he might like you. Just be careful. If he is a jerk you would regret breaking up with your boyfriend.. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
funkymunky817 answered Tuesday July 26 2005, 12:14 pm: tell your bf that you need a break. sure he will be sad even mad. but there is no way that you can get rid of a bf without breaking his heart. as for your crush take a little time to get to know him. make friends with him before you make the big move. that way while your makeing friends with him it will give your bf time to cool off. so when you ask your crush there will be time inbetween the breakup and the big move so it wont look like you dumped you bf for you crush.
vickiooos answered Tuesday July 26 2005, 12:08 pm: there are some things you can't take back. so just 100% make sure that you really have lost interest in your boyfriend. after a while you could be just tired of him but the second you break up with him you may realize that you missed something bigger than that. after figuring that out, tell him that things just aren't the same anymore and they're not right with you. tell him that you're not really that happy in this relationship and that you hope he understands. wait it out for a while (2+ weeks) and then start moving on to this new guy trying to get his attention. start up a conversation with him, if you know friends of his, maybe they can help you. [ vickiooos's advice column | Ask vickiooos A Question ]
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