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ok this is gonna be kinda long
In the middle of last year my BFF got a boyfriend and i was soo happy for her. But then she stopped hanging out with me. She ate lunch with him,all she talked about was her boyfriend. But then she got new friends and didnt even notice me. At dance she didnt want to talk to me either. So i told her how i felt and she said thats not true!! So then i said i dont want to be friends if u arent going to be a friend. so then her boyfriend said F*** YOU to me online:(
I told my friends and they informed my ex-bff. So she dumped him and her were friends again. The 2days lata she went back out with him. And she started doing the same thing that she did before. On the last day of school she dumped him. We are friends now but all she ever talks about is her ex-bf and she still doesnt talk to me at dance. Ok so here is my question: Should i still be her friend or forget about her?
thanks and advace
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Just explain to her that them breaking up is not what you want. Tell her you feel like when she has a boyfriend, that she has no time for you. Make her realize that you understand that they need time together, but that you two need alone time also. Show her how upset you are, but dont get loud or mad. It will just start a big fight and you dont need that!
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Well I would say to talk to her about how you feel, but you already informed everybody that you did and she told you that it's not true. I think you shouldn't be her friend because just think that was one boyfriend when she finds somebody else it's going to happen again, and again, and again. And that's not even the end of it. So not to be rude to her and all but yeah I'd just say screw it and find some other friend there's many out there ha, ha. So true.. Hope I helped.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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well she doesnt seem like shes being a very good friend. you need to talk to her. tell her how you feel about her not talking to you.let her know that she doesnt have to choose between her ex-bf and you. she can have both of you. if talking to her doesnt work its time find a new group of friends.hope i helped XoXo
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I think you should sit down and talk to your friend. Let her know that her constant going back and forth is ruining your friendship. If she truly cares about the friendship, she'll make an effort to work things out with you. If she doesn't make an effort to work things out, I would move on. You deserve a friend that is there for you when you need her, not just when she's between boyfriends.
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i know it may be hard but sometimes when you get a really bad friend you have to get ride of them and from what you said i dont think shes avery good friend to you so i think you should dump her and trust me you will make new and better friends!
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Well it seems to me that maybe she wants to be the center of attention at dance and be very social.. or maybe (and i hope you don't take offense to this) she feels embarrased around you when you guys are at dance.. and thats why she doesn't talk to you.. but either way.. she doesn't sound like a good friend. And as hard as it may be, i think you should distance yourself from her.. and if she really wants to be your friend.. she'll notice it and say something about it to you.. best friends are always supposed to be there for you and she sounds like she could care less about your feelings.
SHe's obviously not over her ex so you'll just have to talk some sense into her.. tell her that things obviously didn't work out between them and that there will be an even better guy out there for her.
Since it doesnt seem like she gets how you feel about her leaving you out at dance and forgeting about her and not caring about your feelings, then theres nothing you can do to change her mind.. but once she looses you, she'll miss you and regret being so mean to you.
hope i helped
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she doesn't seem like a true friend to me. sometimes you need to juss step away from your friends that are girls. like..girls can get annoying and WILL do that to you. guys are so much fun, not juss to date but to hang out with. and you did talk to her about it so theres not much you can do. she'll realize she lost a good friend.
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Once a girl gets a boyfriend they are pretty much going to spend every waking hour they can with him. When you get a boyfriend you will do the same. It is natural.
Why she isn't talking to you in dance is something I don't understand. Ask her why but don't get into a shouting match with her about it. I would say you upset her last time and that is why the boyfriend jumped on you online.
I think you stay friends and just understand that your friendship is going to be a lot different when you throw a boyfriend in the mix. :)
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