my sis broke up with her bf last night and she is 21 and im 13 and i dont know what to tell her to make her feel better i really want to help her cuz im sure she would help me if something like that happened to me please help me
karenR answered Thursday August 11 2005, 8:17 am: Just let her know you are there for her if she wants to talk about it. Breaking up is pretty hard but, there isn't much you can do to help other than that. Let her talk it out. It takes time to get over something like that. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
ncblondie answered Thursday August 11 2005, 1:56 am: Just let your sister know that you're there for her if she wants to talk. Sometimes something as simple as a hug can help. [ ncblondie's advice column | Ask ncblondie A Question ]
jazabelle answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 9:47 pm: You could buy her some some chocolate, offer to watch a movie together, spend time with her. Just someone showing they care will help her. [ jazabelle's advice column | Ask jazabelle A Question ]
save_the_faires answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 9:10 pm: i have the same thing and you know what you can talk about anything random thats a happy talk make her laugh just let he know that you care trust me your the only person thats gonna make her feel better you her sister and she loves you and im sure you love her just talk about anything other than that or tell her that its ok and she shouldnt make her self soo upset over a guy... tell her shes stronger than that and ask her if she wants to do something like go somewhere ... if your her sister you know her the best out of anyone im 13 too and my sis is 18 almost the same as your problem and i always talk to her and she always feels better youll know what to say trust me. [ save_the_faires's advice column | Ask save_the_faires A Question ]
x_pink_x109 answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 5:22 pm: Hey!
Tell her that people come and go and her boyfriend will MOST LIKELY ask for her back, unless he's a senseless, rude, annoying, emotionless jerk! Good boyfriends always go back to his exgirlfriend and say, "I love you, I miss you, and I want you back... please!" and they BEG you and BEG you. If he cheated on her and she broke up with him because of it, tell her that SHE WILL find a perfect guy, everyone does. If he cheated on her, he's not even worth stressing over and he's not even worth crying over and he doesn't even deserve to live! He should PAY for his actions...
He shouldn't get the satisfaction of her saying sorry for something he did.
If what he did was very minor, I think you should tell her that she should tell him that she still loves him and wants him back but he has to love her and want her back too.
I really hope and WANT this advice to work. It should make her feel better AND get her and her boyfriend back together, if he did something very minor, that is...
Don't worry! Your sister will feel better...
I don't have an older sister... I AM one! I know that when I break up with MY boyfriend or HE breaks up with ME, my little sister will come around and make my life SO MUCH BETTER! Don't worry! You can really make you sister feel better... just tell her that there is a man out there looking for her... he's the PERFECT guy out there and it's HER job to find him and that guy is her boyfriend, she should be with him!
Well, you can email me at x_pink_x109@yahoo.com or drop one in my inbox ANYTIME! You will get a reply within 24 hours, maybe even 16 or 17 hours, I promise! :-)
xosweetiepiexo answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 4:55 pm: Well she was the one who broke up with him.. so why would she be upset about it.. it obviosly wasn't working out for them and just tell her there will be an even better guy out there for her.. ask her if she wants to go to the movies with you or go bowling.. or go to the mall <3.. just do something fun together so she won't be thinking about her ex boyfriend as much... hope i helped. [ xosweetiepiexo's advice column | Ask xosweetiepiexo A Question ]
HectorJr answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 4:10 pm: Hmm try asking her do go somewhere or do something like see a movie or go to the mall. Shopping has always seemed to be a favorite of girls between the ages of 13-21. Something to get her mind off of it first. If that doesn't work, handwrite her a letter. Write your home phone number on the bottom and give it to her saying she can call you to talk anytime, maybe that will cheer her up. Remind her that anyone can come and go, but family is always there. Good luck with that. [ HectorJr's advice column | Ask HectorJr A Question ]
xomegaroni answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 4:07 pm: the best thing you should do is sit her down, give her a big bowl of icecream, and juss talk about it with her. she'll definately find somebody. also laughter is the best medicine.
ViTaChaN answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 4:04 pm: Well, you can cheer her up..You can ask her to go to the cinema..Ice cream shop and a lot of fun place which can make her happy and forget about her bf.She will feel better, soon!!Hope she's okay..Hope I helped!
XxTruelyXYoursxX answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 3:12 pm: Hi well you usually can tell by the atitude of your sister if she really wants to talk to someone and if she does just say everything is gonna be alright so try not to worry because i'm your sister and i love you so please dont worry because i also care for [ XxTruelyXYoursxX's advice column | Ask XxTruelyXYoursxX A Question ]
TheOldOne answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 2:58 pm: There isn't much that you can say right now, unfortunately. It takes time for the pain to go away. Just be there for her.
A cute little present or a card to remind her that you're there and you love her would probably make her feel a bit better. But you have to accept that she's hurting right now, and it will take some time for her to heal.
emery answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 2:53 pm: give her some flowers and or a card/note that says i know im young but im still your sister and if you want to talk, i am here. [ emery's advice column | Ask emery A Question ]
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