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boyfriend's friend
I went to a party thrown by my boyfriend's family and my boyfriend went to bed around 11:30 that night. Well, the rest of us were partying still at 2:30. His friend that I have known since we started dating was hanging out with me rather close. (just like we always do) Well, we ended up making out and had this touchy feely thing going on all night and the next day I told my boyfriend so he would not hear it from someone else. My boyfriend was not mad and just total accepted it. Well since then I am still thinking about what happened and I am looking for to seeing his friend again. But, I am wondering since alcohol was involved..was it just that or could it be more? Should we talk about it? I really love my boyfriend but I really like his friend. Help!!
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If you really love your boyfirend than you would realize that there is noone else out there for you that you would even think about wanting to pursue a relationship with. I think you need to take a step back and look at what you want/need and your feelings for your current boyfriend. Talk to him about it if it would help, to see if he can give you any insight on this. It seems like this would be better to get info from an outsider though that way no feelings are involved, to swing the decision the other way.
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I hate to say it but it sounds to me as if your relationship has problems.
Drunk or not you were making out with another guy. Drinking probably helped you along but perhaps you have more than friendly feelings for the friend.
Your boyfriend not being mad or at least concerned could mean he doesn't care as much as he should either.
I think you need to have a long heart to heart talk with the boyfriend and see if it isn't time to take a break from each other. Sorry, hope I am wrong.
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definetly talk to his friend about it. see if his friend really likes you or wuz it just because you guys were drunk. if he relly likes you and you relly like him then maybe its time to break it off with your bf now. you probably want a more exciting fun life rite now and ur bf is ready to settle down a little bit.hope i helped XoXO
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You love your bf??? What kind of love is that?? I mean if you really loved him you wouldnt be thinking about his friend. You obviously like the other guy so why are you still with your bf. and if you really loved him you would have never done something like that, I def. dont agree with that, you need to pick one, and tell both of them the truth...
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its interesting how understanding your boyfriend was...being the suspicious person i am, it sounds as if maybe he has secrets to hide too? most guys will NOT be that understanding once they find out you made out with their best friend. he possibly might have done the same thing and is almost relieved you made out with his friend, to alleviate the guilt. another possiblilty is that since you said the excitement has long since gone from your relationship, he possibly doesn't care that much anymore. if you really love him, sit down and talk to him. tell him how suprised you are that he was so understanding and ask him why he's not mad at all. talking about this to him could bring you two back to that "just asked out" feeling again. good luck!
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WOW! your bf sounds like a really understanding guy! If i were you i would keep him! Its not that easy to find a guy like that! Hope i helped! IM me if needed Sportychicc9393
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i agree with the poster before me a bit. i think you should sit down with your boyfriend and ask him how he feels about the whole situation. if he doesn't seem to care, like how he just pushed aside the fact that you guys made out, [you got lucky there], then i'd dump him. maybe he isn't the one for you, or maybe his friend is. You never know until you talk about it with both of them and make your decision completely fair.
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your bf was fine with it? well you have one hell of a bf!! how long have you guys been dating? you maybe getting that itch to try something new if you have been with him for a long time. dont be a cheater those suck. i would talk to your bf a little more about the whole thing..who goes to bed at 11:30? tell him to wake up if he wants to keep his gf!
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