Hey! My friends call me Bee! I like to be myself and do things because I want to, not because everyone else is. I like to hang out with my friends and family, and I'd like to be a film actress someday. I've been giving advice to my friends and family for a while now, and thought I could give others some as well. Feel free to ask me anything. I'm not too quick to judge and am very open-minded!
Gender: Female
Location: Indiana
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Age: 15
AIM: bubblybisha08
Member Since: August 3, 2005
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ok. im not sure if my friend (brad) likes me or not. i mean i kind of like him. but when hes online we always talk and argue and then sometimes during the summer he would call me and we would talk for almost 2 hours every night. then when i had a sleep over i called him and we were talking and he got mad at me cuz i hadnt called him in a week. his brother is always askin m if i like him and his brother told me one day that brad loved me, then he goes just kidding, then he said but he really does.. now i no he doesnt love me but i think he might like me.. can anyone tell me what they think? and if you think he likes me, what should i do to maybe turn this relationship into something more? (link)
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Now, I'm not psychic, but that sounds like he likes you. He may be trying not to be too obvious in case you don't feel the same. You need to ask him somehow to know for sure. You could approach the topic casually, like mentioning what his brother said. Then ask him where on earth his brother could have gotten that idea. From the way you've described him, I doubt he'll come forward very easily, so tell him that that got you thinking about the two of you maybe being more than friends. Make sure he knows you're open to the idea, but don't want to rush anything or pursue anything he's not ok with. Tell him that no matter what, you were friends first and will always be, even if you start to date. Hopefully that will get him talking about how he really feels. Don't push him though. He'll tell you when and what he wants to. And of course there is always the possibilty that he doesn't feel for you that way, but remind yourself that's his loss.
Hope that helps and things turn out ok!
~Bee~
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i sometimes look at girls and think they are really pretty and fit. But i dont thik of going out with them i just think they are really nice and am really close to them. Am i bisexual? coz i think they are fit? Sometimes i even think strangers are really nice and pretty and think about them,, im confused (link)
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It's alright to think other girls are pretty. Honestly, every girl can notice that (unless they are blind or REALLY self absorbed LOL). You could be bisexual if you have feelings for them. If you want to kiss them, or think about them a lot, or just feel strongly about them in a way you wouldn't a friend. If you seriously just notice that they are good looking, your most likely straight, and completely normal.
Hope that helped you!
~Bee~
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what are STDS? how do u get them? can you get rid of them? what happens if you have STDs? (link)
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An STD is a Sexually Transmitted Disease. So yeah, you get them from having any sort of unprotective sex(without a condom). That means sex, oral sex, or anul sex. Some STD's you can get rid of, others like Genital Herpes and AIDS you can't. They all have different affects. They all can weaken your immune system. To find out more you could google STDs online.
Hope that helped!
~Bee~
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what's the best way to get rid of dark under-eye circles?
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concealer a little lighter than the rest of your face will work wonders! That's what I use anyway!
~Bee~
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My dad cheated on my mom with her best friend..my paretns got divorced and my dad got marries to my moms best friend..i hate her for doind that...when i want to go places with my dad and my brother she always comes along..i know they are married but how do i tell her i want to be with my dad and brother..or how do i tell my dad?
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I know that this sounds easier than it is, but you just need to pull her aside and explain that you know she wants to bond with you all, but sometimes you just need some time alone with your bro and dad. She should back off a little, but if she doesn't, mention something to your dad about it.
Hope that helped!
~Bee~
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i just cleaned out my whole closet basically and now i only have like 40 shirts! i usually shop at abercrombie // hollister // american eagle, and its pretty pricy. i was wondering if there was any other stores that have websites with cute clothes for school this year. and if you could name some. thank youu! (link)
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You could google for discount stores. They have the same brand name clothes for less money, that way you could still get the clothes you love!
Hope that answered you question!
~Bee~
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hi i really like this guy and i don't no if i should tell him because i think he hates me what should i do? (link)
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You need to find out if he really hates you first of all. Ask him or one of his friends, or if your shy have a friend of yours do the digging. If you find out that he really does hate you, CHANGE HIS MIND! Show him what a great person you are. If you need any more advice, feel free to ask. I hope things go well!
~Bee~
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can you wear a pad while swimming? or is a tampon reccomended.. can you not wear any? (link)
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Where are you swimming? If you're swimming in the ocean, you could go free, if you're in a pool, you could i guess, since movement often stems the flow, but I wouldn't risk it. Whatever you do DO NOT WEAR A PAD! You'll end up with the soggy diaper look, and everyone'll know. My best advice, use the tampon.
Hope that helped!
~Bee~
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I have this problem..My bestfriend was going out with this boy..Then this boy broke up with her..She was shock (i guess)..But okay, that's not the major problem..Now,I'm going out with that boy..and no one knows that except my sister..I've been going out with that boy for 2 weeks or so..now I have this illfeel..I feel that I'm so wrong by going out with my bestfriend's ex boyfriend..I don't know what to do..Should I break up with that boy and give him back to my bestfriend, or keep going??
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You should tell your friend what's going on and ask her how she feels about it. Make sure you let her know that you didn't want to hurt her and will put your friendship first no matter what. If she gives you her blessing, keep dating the guy. If she doesn't you should dump him, but make sure he knows he didn't do anything wrong and that you still think he's a great guy and all.
Hope that helps! Good luck!
~Bee~
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ohhk so i ahve known this gurl for like my whole life we are best friends and like we seem so distint from each other like i dont kno what is going on....im so confused...were going to different schools next year. all my friends are going to a different school and im loseing two of my best friends im still very close to my other friends cuz we do the same sports but the one i want to stay friends with doe snothing with me sports wise and i dont kno what to say to her .......please give some advise to keep us together and not fade away like all the others... (link)
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I go to a different school then most of my closest friends. It can be hard sometimes, but as long as you talk somehow...through email, instant messaging, snail mail, the phone...something! This is what my friends and I do: we try to set a date for each month where we can spend the night at someone's house. Then we spend the day doing something fun and spend the night laughing and doing the slumber party thing. Maybe you could try that?
Hope that helps!
~Bee~
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my boyfriends goin away for baseball tomorrow.. hes sleepin at his teammates house tonite.. and his teammates sister likes him alot n wants to get with him.. she wants him to go swimming with her tonight at their house.. theyre staying at the same hotel [ w/ a pool ] im gettin really jealous and worries.. he says hed never cheat and i believe him but temptation is hard to say no to for guys.. and he thinks shes 'hott'. should i be upset or get over it? (link)
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You like your boyfriend, so it's natural to be a little worried and jealous. But if your boyfriend says he wouldn't cheat on you and he hasn't given you any reason to assume otherwise, you should trust him.
Hope that helped you some!
~Bee~
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is there anyway i can gain a little more wieght?? i dont wanna be over weight i'm just kinda sick of people commenting my on how skinny i am. i just wanna to be "average" (link)
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Don't worry about it. As long as you're eating normally and to the point that you're full, you'll be fine. Ignore what people say. I used to get the same thing, people even always though I was anorexic (I'm not, nor was I ever). I just waited things out and gained a little weight naturally. I'm still skinny, but people don't make many comments anymore.
I'm not sure that helped, but I hope it did.
All the best, Bee
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Does anyone know where to get all the old green day cds? i cant find them anywhere
some are...
Dookie
39 smooth
Kerplunk
Insomniac
Thanks Bundles! (link)
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Try a store that sells and buys used cds. Also ebay is always a good place to find...well anything. Or you could try a music search for the albums on aol or yahoo music, they often let you buy them there.
Hope that helps! By the way, your taste in tunes rocks! Props to you!
~Bee~
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This is so corny but i need help! I'm at a camp for my sport and there is this guy and all the girls think he is hot, and he is!! But he's so shy and doesn't talk a lot. But he talked to me during a drill and kept giving me advice (he's really really good) and then saying "that's really good" even when it wasn't and walking back from a drill we talked. he's a year younger than me. but we actually had a conversation and i havent seen him talk that much cept during the game to get passes and such. i'm not sure how to get is AIM s/n, phone # is a bit to foward for me... all the other girls are so much prettier how can i make him see me more?? how can i talk to him more without looking pathetic n how can i ask him for his s/n?! (hurry camp ends friday!!) thanks!!
signed-corny (link)
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I don't think you have to worry about the other girls. If he was talking to you, that probably means he likes you (if only as a friend, but hopefully more). Just walk over to him the next time you see him and start talking to him. Before you're done tell him that he seems really cool and you'd like to keep in touch when camp is over. Ask him right then for his AIM sn.
Hope it goes well! Have fun at camp!
~Bee~
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Ok I'm a sophomore and I've never been to a dance before..why? I'm embaressed and scared to dance...I don't know how! I have no butt so what's there to shake..(aha seriously!) When I move my sides, I look retarded...I don't know what to do with my hands, head, etc..very embaressing..I look so stupid..can someone teach me how to dance naturally without looking like I'm trying to hump something..ahh..thanks! (link)
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Going to a dance is about more than just dancing. It's a chance to hang out with people and chat. If you do want to dance, the only way I know of is to practice. I started to go to dances in 6th grade, and I'll tell you what: I was awful! A lot of people were! Nobody cared though. Dancing is a way to express yourself and have fun. If you can walk you can dance! So get your minimal booty out there and groove girl! Move with the music and on the off chance people laugh, laugh with them!
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I was at this workshop thingy today. There was this one girl who's about my age and i really wanted to talk to her. She's cute and seemed nice when i met her. But i'll only get to see her for a couple more days. I don't think i'm gay so don't mention that..i'm a young/f by the way. What's the point of even getting to know her if i wont see her???? Any ideas??? (link)
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Who's to say you won't see her again? This is a small world sister! Anyway, ask her for her phone number, SN, e-addy, or regular address. You two could correspond that way and get to know each other. And as for liking her as more than friends, that's perfectly ok. You could be curious or something more. If you're questioning, think it over some more. There's nothing wrong with being who you are! Don't forget that! And get to know her some now before the workshop's over, people are always different in person than behind a comp or phone. And also, it's never a waste of time to get to know someone new. You can never have too many friends! Hope all goes well and you have fun at your workshop!
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ok so im going to be a freshman and i want to dress really good this yr but i dont want peole to think im al self absorbed bc im not! i just want to look nice but not snobby bc i want to meet some new people
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Dress like you would on any other day. You don't want people to think you're something you're not. If you want to meet new people, introduce yourself to all sorts of people and keep a smile on your face. People love to talk about themselves, so ask your new acquaintances questions about themselves. And pay attention to their answers too, that way you can gauge whether or not you have a lot in common. Thatta way you'll be able to decide if you want to pursue them as friends. Hope your day goes well!
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ok so this yr im a freshman & the 1st day i have to bring EVERYTHING! i mean biders books supplies, gywm clothes, gym shoes,,its ridiculous! whats the best way to get it all there without lookin lik a total nerd in front of my new school?!?! (link)
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My best advice is to bring the big stuff with you during your orientation. Don't worry about looking like a freak, a lot of people do the same thing, I know I did. And don't worry about the first day too much. Frosh year went by in a flash and you don't want to get too caught up in one single day when you'll have hundreds to make a name for yourself.
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im not concited. but i am well liked at my school. everyone thinks im...
exsperienced such in the kissing section. well ... im not... when you come from my elementry u are like a goodie good. not that i am but what ever. so anyways i havnt had my first kiss cause im not a hoe and im saving it.
is that soo wrong. and if i do kiss someone. would it all just come soo much more naturally? (link)
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Kissing someone doesn't make you a slut or a hoe, but not kissing someone doesn't make you a prude either. Save your kisses for someone who means something to you, not any old guy who comes at you. A kiss is something intimate, and if the moment and person is right, it will come naturally.
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Now everyone is dating really young and having boyfriends when their 13. i'm 13 and have had a couple of boyfriends but guys are just plain jerks sometimes at that age. most girls are crazy about dating young but older girls that have waited say that it is worth it to wait to date until your older. does anyone have any opinions on the topic?
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I'm 15 and haven't seriously dated. I have friends who have, and some have had totally breathtaking experiences, others have had their hearts ripped out. I think that you should date when you feel ready, whatever your age. You shouldn't cave to the pressures though. Find a guy you can see yourself being friends with. A good relationship always stems from friendship. If you can't be friends with the person you're dating, there's no future there.
Hope that helped!
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