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Okay well first of all I am 14/f and I have never had a boyfried. I have never even kissed a guy before. Well my question is why? I mean I'm not the prettiest but I have a great personality and I am fun to be around. Do guys only go for looks? What are some things that attract guys or what should I change to get a boyfriend?

Most guys these day do. But if you do find one that does he wants one thing..we all know..wait for they guy thats gonna go after you for you great personality and your fun to be around self..AND DONT EVER CHANGE ANYTHING about YOURSELF just cuz of a guy!!!

x0x0x Kristen

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I have a problem. With my jansport backpack, I have 7 folders and notebooks, and I cant seem to fit all of them. The backpack is pretty good sized, but I mean, I can only fit my binder (medium sized),7 folders, and like, 3 100 pg notebooks. What should I do? I mean, dont just tell me to try to fit everything in there and then try to zip it. Believe me, I tried that. So..what should I do? Is there anything I can do??

try taking some of the stff out that you might not need right away.

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Well, I have been VERY depressed lately about different things. My dad makes me really mad. I'm tired of being depressed. I can't get to sleep at night. I hate it. My best friend is wonderful and she tries to help me. But nothing works. EVER! I feel so bad because she tries her best. I love her so much for helping me. I'm just.. I don't know. I'm always sad. I need help. And I can't afford some REAL help, if you know what I mean. SO.. Does anyone have any advice?? I will rate 4s and 5s!!

ok i use to be like that so what i did was i start writing in a journal and doing things to keep myself busy. it helped me alot. i hope that helps good luck.

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Ok well im a 17/f and me and my boyfriend have sexand everything but like 4 months ago his condom broke and we didnt know it and now im pregnant. Well i want to keep the baby and my parents are all for me and any choice i make about the baby. Well my boyfriend and me are decieding if we should keep the baby and he wants to help raise the child if we decide to keep it. well i dont know if i should keep the baby. you see i will be able too because i act very mature for my age, i already moved out of my house when i was 16 because of family issues and i already have 1 child( i was raped when i 14 and i didnt give her up for adoption) what should i do should i keep the baby or give it up?

i think you should keep the baby! if your parents support you at any choice you make and your b/f wants to help raise the baby you have alot of support there so i think you should keep it.

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My parents won't let me remove the hair from my legs, but I do anyway because I use my dad's razor. I want to get my own razor or hair removal device but my parents won't let me buy them or else they will kick me out of the house. My friend gave me a disposable razor but it ran out and she is out of town until September. How do I get a hair removal device and how do I hide it from my parents when I have it? If it helps I am 13/f. I will rate high for good advice or a good try.

i would have my friend maybe buy a razor for you. or next time you go to the store see if you can pay for razors before your mom or dad checkouts. or if there is a store by you that you can walk to!! hope that helps.

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Hey im making a cd for excersizing.. and i was wondering if anyone new some good songs fer like.. a dance type thingy.. ?
I have .. These Boots- Jess Simpson
Do Something- Brit Spears
Switch- Will Smith
Pon de replay- Rhianna
These Words- Natasha Bedingfeild..
I need LOTS more ! :-) please help!

50 cent-candy shop
b2k- bump bump bump
eminem - ass like that
ciara - oh
fat joe ft nelly- get it poppin
nelly-errtime
omarion-touch
nelly- shake your tailfeather
ciara- goodies
usher- yeah
so are some of the songs i would do hope that helps!

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well im 14/f n there are tymes where i would want to die. see im not scared about dieing i would do it in a hearbeat but then i start thinking about my family and friends and how i want a family when i grow up. is this only me or are there other people feeling like this?
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i feel like this sometimes because sometimes life gets so hard. but than i do think about my family and friends and my future. so i dont think your the only one that thinks about it.

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i am redoing my room. the walls are white, and the rug is light-blue, which i cant change. does anyone have any ideas on what colors/theme i should use. i'm 14 if it helps.

ok you could do pink if you like pink. or you could do an orange and or even a light green or yellow thats what i would do. hope that helps good luck.

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Does anyone know where I can get a Kodak digital camera with a low price?

i would try ebay!

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Over the summer I really splurged on sugars and sweets. Im average weight but I can see my summer splurging is coming back in my stomach and my thighs. I'm goin to stop drinking soda and eating sugars and hopefully find time to exercise. But I always think "Oh this wont hurt" or "Ill start tomorow" What can I do to remind myself to stay away from soda's and sugars and excersise everyday ? I'll rate high!!

i quit drinking soda and it was really hard for me because like soda was my favorite thing. but what i did i kept tellin my self that its gonna all gonna come back when i try going shopping for something and it dont fit or when school starts i didnt want to look bad.

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can anybody suggest a really good men's cologne for me. I'm 15/m and i'm looking for something masculine, sexy and powerful, and it has to last. My price limit is $100.

i would buy adidas i really like the smell of it

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sometimes i seriously just cant sleep...is it bad for an almost 15 yr old to use sleeping pills?
any suggestions on what type (if its not bad)?

i have sleeping problems to. and i use sleeping pills i think there called ambien. but im 15 and they work. and i dont think there bad so good luck

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I really need help!

I can't fall asleep ever, i'm getting in a really bad habbit, a REALLY bad one. School atarts in less then 3 weeks! And I start school around 6 *thats what time it's suggested that you wake up*

And I dont go to sleep un'till about 3:57 AM or atleast 6:24... Between those times. That means I'd have to stay up for almost 2 days straight!

Are sleeping pills healthy? I really have to get out of this habbit. It's going to ruin my whole school year!

And P.S: I sleep atleast untill 2 in the afternoon, Thats what time school ends. I can sleep through school!


So about the pills, what is a really good brand that really works. How long do they take to work and make you fall asleep (kick in)? I have pill-Phobia for large pills, Do they come in a big size? My parents don't want to spend over $50 for them. They want me to have a good education, do they effect your mood in anyway if you take them? How many do you take?

Sorry it was so long, but im trying to get as much information I possibally can.


Maddy

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ok i sorta have the same habbit i wont go to sleep until like 4 in the morning than i would sleep until like 2 in the afternoon. and i start school soon to. and if it was up to me i would beable to sleep threw school to. so i asked my parents to call my doctor to see what my choices were. i could take medicine or try going to bed earlier. i took the pills and they work pretty good. so i hope that helps. good luck

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Ok, this might sound really stupid, but this bugs me so much. My mom normally lets me get my hair cut before each school year starts but this year she won't. She told me she doesn't feel like I really need one cuz she gave me a trim a couple months ago and she also said she wasn't gonna let me get it done for a whole year! I thought that was pretty harsh. My hair bugs me cuz it gets in my face when I play basketball and I told her I'm not gonna tryout unless I get it cut. How do I convinve her to let me cut it, or ways for me to like my hair.

when my mom wouldnt let me get my hair cut i would always wear it up and in a bun or whatever. well than my mom got so tired of me wearin it up she finally said i could get my haircut. so do that and see if it works. good luck!

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OK....i want to do gymnastics and im not very flexible. I am but not as flexibale as other ppl....anyway do you hav to be flexible to do gymnastics? And is it hard to learn to do gymnastics?? Plz help i rate high!

no you dont have to be flexible. i did gymnastics and i wasnt even close to being flexible. but after u start stretching and stuff its really easy!! so good luck!!!

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My mom and I fight alot,and when we do it's bad. She never wants me to have any style, she wants me to buy the cheap stuff. She doesn't understand that kids do tease you if your wearing a shirt with Barbie on it. I used to be known for my style at school but since my dads paycut she wont even let me get a haircut because "It Costs Money." I know it costs money, everything does, but there are something a girl needs like shaving cream and actual razors not like those crap disposable ones. It's not like we have no money whats so ever. We're just struggling, I buy all my own clothes and things. Its gettin to the point where she wont buy my the shampoo I need or the toothpaste I need. She always insists on the cheap stuff and I'm sick of it cause we always end up fighting about it. She thinks I need a job, but what job *besides babysitting* can a 13 year old do ?!?! PLEASE HELP ME. I know its long, but I'd greatly appreciate it.

i would say i can relate cause my mom is always saying that she dont have any money and i have to buy my own things sometimes and most of the time i do cuz i have 3 brothers that live with me and always use everything. so i buy my own stuff. and my mom will never take me shopping for new clothes so what i could say that if people are making fun of you is they have low self esteem. and just keep your head up things will pull threw

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my bestfriend lives across the street from me.. well she talks to this guy who is 16 on aim and we are both 13 well hes not a virgin... since shes been talking to him her personality has changed big time. hes smokes pot and drinks all the time and shes starting to act like him. heres the bad thing she sneaks out of her house at 2 a.m and doesnt get back until 5 a.m. well she has done this the last 2 nights and im worried that something bad will happen.. they almost got caught out by the police 2 times.. id this keeps up shes gonna end up getting raped or something by him.. how can i tell her to stop this or something might happen.. any advice will be helpful and most appreciated..
thanks

signed
worried friend

i think you should sit down with your friend and talk to her if you havent already. amd tell her that she has changes and tell her that you are worried that something bad is going to happen. amd tell her that as a friend she should really listen to you. hope that helps

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I am 13 and my parents still treat me like a baby! They won't let me get hair highlights! How do I convince them to let me get highlights??
I rate very high!

when i was 13 my parents wouldnt let me get highlights either. so i convinced them to let me get ones that wouldnt stay in that long to see if they liked them and if they did they would let me get some. well they did so i got to get highlights so try that.

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Now everyone is dating really young and having boyfriends when their 13. i'm 13 and have had a couple of boyfriends but guys are just plain jerks sometimes at that age. most girls are crazy about dating young but older girls that have waited say that it is worth it to wait to date until your older. does anyone have any opinions on the topic?

i would wait i did and it helped cuz i found out the older guyz are they arent as much as a jerk. i wouldnt date just because everyone else is. so i hoped that helped

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