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Wait or not?
Now everyone is dating really young and having boyfriends when their 13. i'm 13 and have had a couple of boyfriends but guys are just plain jerks sometimes at that age. most girls are crazy about dating young but older girls that have waited say that it is worth it to wait to date until your older. does anyone have any opinions on the topic?
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i think its true the sad thing to admit is girls tend to and usually are alot more mature then guys thats why you will see alot of girls when u get into high school dating older guys boys are jerks then there still boys not guys not men just boys and they will grow out of it eventually probably by 30 hopefully i think its best to wait until highschool to date unless you really like someone theres nothing wrong with middle school flings but thats what they are theyre flings hope i helped
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Well a lot of people do that just for more attention, because they are desperate or because everyone else has one! If I were you I would listen to the older girls because they have experience in the field. Also if you wait you can hang out with a ton of guys and not have someone say your cheating on your boyfriend. Have fun with guys not love 1 and avoid the rest!
Hope I helped :)
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well it all depends on what your heart says i think. because if you listen to your heart and if your heart says you are ready, then you might take chance, but yes i know i am 14 and i think guys are Jerks and sometimes not worth a time. so yes in my opinion i want to wait until they have MATURED! and take some responisibilty and actually talk about something meaningful other then his sports or his whatever.
but its all dif in person
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Wait to date untill your older. Most guys stay jerks forever. There are precious few guys out there that can carry on a conversation without talking about sex. Good luck! Hope I helped!
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I think you should wait until you find one that's not a jerk. and one thats right for you
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well im not really the one to give you my opinion on this because when i was your age i dated guys like crazy. but now that i think about it unless you find a guy you really like you might want to wait guys get better, and its okay to wait.
hope it helps
♥ria
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Good Question! I believe form experience it's better to date a little later. After seeing the field... if they are jerks they may stay jerks for awhile. I know that guys are SO much better when they are older than at a younger age. Hope I could help!!! Happy Typing!
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You may think its a bit old but I think 16 is a good age for a girl to start dating a guy one on one. When you are 13 it isn't really dating because the guy isn't going to pick you up in his car and take you out for a dinner and a movie. At best a parent hauls you around and/or you hang out in the halls at school. I think at 13 you go out in a group with other people and at 16 you seriously start dating. :)
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Guys can be plain jerks at any age. Personally I waited until I was nearly 17 to date. I felt that when I was older, I was more mature and more ready for a lasting commitment to another person. I didn't feel that way at 13. I think that it's a personal choice that each person has to make when they feel the time is right. For one person that age may be 12, for others it may be 20.
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When your 13 your usually don't care. In my opinion if your going to date then start doing it when your 15 or 16, because by then you have some age behind you and your much smarter than you were at 13. Also by then you will have alot more freedom to do what you want and have more control over your own life so you can make better decisions regarding your life and those in it. Hope the advice helps.
-Ryan
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I'm 15 and haven't seriously dated. I have friends who have, and some have had totally breathtaking experiences, others have had their hearts ripped out. I think that you should date when you feel ready, whatever your age. You shouldn't cave to the pressures though. Find a guy you can see yourself being friends with. A good relationship always stems from friendship. If you can't be friends with the person you're dating, there's no future there.
Hope that helped!
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well i*m mixed a little prolly cuz i*m still young. Your rite a lot of boys your age.. and mine are jerks yes but sumtimes you just want sumone to be with. I know i do. Not EVER guy is a jerk, i had a boyfriend of 9 months @ 11, and it was actually sumwhat serious.. crazy i no. So i mean just do what you want but don*t have a boyfriend cuz your friends are find a guy you really like and have fun! your only young once rite? hope i helped hun!! xoxo, chelsea
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Its not set on your age its set on how you FEEL i know it sounds islly but its true i didnt start dating till i was 14, I had Boy friends but Boyfriends were considered Hanging out at school. Go with how you feel if you feel your ready then go for it if not that perfectly okay. Also a little off topic you dont have to be dating someone to Have your first kiss with them you can go hang out with a group and hook up with one of the guys, i hope i helped and if you need any help with any of this type of catorgories feel free to ask Ive been through it all. Im 15 and have had 17 boyfriends i know every type of guy imaginable im here to help.
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My opinion is wait for the right one. Don't waste time dating random guys. I mean its good to learn from your pass relationships and its good to know what types of guys are out there. Wait until your older because then you'll be more serious about having a relationship. It helps to get to know more people to make your bonds grow. When your older you'll have a better relationship and you'll have more of an opportunity of being together. Dont listen to what your friends say they can't make you do anything. Dont get in a relationship jus to be nice or because you want a boyfriend. Be with someone because you love them, can't stop thinking about him, and cant stop caring about him. Hope this helps!
-Manda
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i would wait i did and it helped cuz i found out the older guyz are they arent as much as a jerk. i wouldnt date just because everyone else is. so i hoped that helped
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Wait until you find a guy YOU think is worth it. Dating just because everybody else is doesn't make it worth your time. Don't listen to your friends, and don't listen to them when they're saying "Oh you should go out with HIM!!!" Because they will tell you that just to get you a boyfriend. If you don't actually like a guy, and he asks you out, don't say yes to be nice, or just to have a boyfriend. That's a waste of your time, and it's leading him on.
♥ Melissa
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Didn't date untill I was 19. There were some draw backs. Not to say I never kissed or anything, I made out a hell of a lot, but never wanted a 'relationship' with anyone. Some guys where a little shy of that, but in the end I think it was a good choice for me to wait untill I was out of highschool and out of my parents home. My choices felt like my own, not the choices of my parents or my friends. And I met so many more interesting guys in university then I could ever meet in highschool.
I didn't wait on purpose though, I was just really really choosey. I am glad I waited though, because even my breakups have been cleaner, I never learned bad relationship habits when I was young.
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