ok well i have a bf that iv been gion out with for about 3 months,im not sure wether to stay with him or not,i mean all of my friends are telling me to brake up with him and try out some other gies,but i love him and sometimes i dont i have no clue what to do,pleasse help me!!!
X0C0URT answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 1:41 pm: Why would you break up with him just because your friends say you should? If you really like him, there's no reason to try other guys. I can tell you what will happen right now. You'll date around for awhile and realize that what you're looking for is what you already had. If you really love this guy, stay with him and tell your friends to leave you alone about it. :-)
ria_is_hurr answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 1:11 pm: hey*
dont listen to your friends if you love him and he loves you stay with him. or if you want to listen to your friends just tell your bf that you like him a lot but you want to a little brake and you still love him.
Advicegrl4u answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 12:29 pm: if you want to stay with him make it clear to your friends there is no other boy you want! you shouldn't question your realtionship because of what your friends are sayin!
i hope i helped and please keep me posted!
<3333kristin
p.s: if u need more specifics just tell me [ Advicegrl4u's advice column | Ask Advicegrl4u A Question ]
ncblondie answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 1:48 am: While your friends may think they're being helpful, ultimately the choice is yours. If he makes you happy, I see no reason to break up with him.
Just tell your friends that you made your choice and you would appreciate it if they respected your choice, whether they agree or not. True friends will respect your right to choose for yourself and not make an issue out of a boyfriend. [ ncblondie's advice column | Ask ncblondie A Question ]
ari02 answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 1:18 am: well you kno my advice to you is to listen to your heart if you really love him than stay with him! dont listen to your mind or what everyone else says!!! well best of luck to you!
Alpha345 answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 1:15 am: Why would your friends want you to break up with him? Don't listen to your friends on this. You decide for yourself if you should break up with him or not, he is your boyfriend and so it is your decision. If you really care for him then tell your friends your staying with him and just ignore what they have to say about it. Good luck with it and hope this helps
-Ryan
P.S. Ever think that your friends might be trying to put a wedge between you two and try and cloud your judgement on it? Just a thought because unless if there is something majorly wrong with you two that you didn' mention then that seems like the only reason they would tell you to break up with him. [ Alpha345's advice column | Ask Alpha345 A Question ]
Pressing_On answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 12:48 am: Why would your friends be telling you to break up with him? I think you should do whatever makes you happy. If you like being with him, if you like spending time with him and having him close to you, then you should stay with him. You definately shouldnt let anyone make you reconsider how you feel about someone, or how you feel around them, whether theyre your friends or not. Any more questions feel free to inbox me. [ Pressing_On's advice column | Ask Pressing_On A Question ]
LanaBabie answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 12:47 am: Don't just break up with someone because your friends tell you to, or just because you've been dating for longer than a whore would. If you like him and you like the way things are going, stay together. Its not your friend's decision or even business about what happens with you two. Do what you want, ignore other people. Good Luck. <3 Lana [ LanaBabie's advice column | Ask LanaBabie A Question ]
craZlilchelC152 answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 12:45 am: well i don*t really no the guy so i can*t REALLY answer that. I think that you should go with your instincts. If you like him stay with him, i don*t kno y your friends don*t like him but give him a couple weeks and then decide!!
Sweetheart10 answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 12:25 am: If you really like him and he likes you just as much and everything is going good dont let your friends advice make you do something you will probaly regret.If theres something wrong with him,like he does stupid stuff or treats you bad then maybe you can do better but if you really love him and you've been going out for 3 months dont just let your friends ruin that for no reason...hope I helped..good luck! [ Sweetheart10's advice column | Ask Sweetheart10 A Question ]
cookierat123 answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 12:23 am: listen to me sista! your really gonna regreat breaking up with him if you do. answer this...do you really want to break up with him or are you just thinking you should bc your friends tell you to? well i really dont think you should. you love him and NOTHING should stand in your way of being together. go with the flow and only break up with him if YOU want to..not bc your friends tell you to. well, i hope i helped and feel free to ask me anything else.
ItzMzManda answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 12:23 am: Dont break up with him just because your friends say so. I know 3 months might seem short, but it still means something. Follow your heart...if you love him then stay with him and your relationship will get closer. I know you make feel bored with him, but try new things dont think that theres nothing to do. Hope this helps!
Dumbblond1chick answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 12:19 am: Dont dump him, If you feel like you wnat to then wait a week and see if you feel the same. 3 months is quiet awhile and with that you may be getting bored you may not realize that but its either that or your not seeing him enough. If its that your not seeing him enough you should A) see him more B) Experience new things Hooking up, handjobs, Fingering....Etc If its that Your getting bored try seeing less of eachother and experiencing some bases together. You should go hang out with other couples too. hope i helped, feel free to send me messages so that i can help you in any way. I know what im talking about when it comes to this specific catagory [ Dumbblond1chick's advice column | Ask Dumbblond1chick A Question ]
karenR answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 12:11 am: You do what your own heart tells you to do and not what well meaning friends might think. If you really care for your guy then stay with him and ignore the friends. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
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