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Member Since: April 26, 2005
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is it bad to masterbate? (link)
nope


sometimes i seriously just cant sleep...is it bad for an almost 15 yr old to use sleeping pills?
any suggestions on what type (if its not bad)? (link)
try melatoin or something...it works


well... i like this girl a lot. and i want to know the proper way to finger a girl. i dont want to do a bad job and i want her to be pleasured by it. so please tell me the best way to do it. i need to know by thursday. (link)
ok never hurt her! seriously dont try to see how many fingers u can get in her because it will just piss her off (trust me) follow the others advice and you will be fine


all my guy friends tell me guys like girls to take the first step with a guy. i like this one guy a lot. hes 19 im 17. so where would be best place to him out? and if i wanna hang out saturday night when should i call him?
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i asked some of my guy friends if they liked when a girl took it to the first step and they all said no it was a major turn off...and yeah most guys just like girls not to like strive over them if that makes any sense


ok I have been doing about 60 situps a day and now my stomiac hurts in the bottom of it. REALLY BAD to. Whats wrong and whats going on. I will rate all 5'd 4 good answers. (Please exuse the misspelled words) Thanks (link)
i think thats normal...i mean the same thing happens to me hahahah! keep up the hard work :)


I am 13 and my parents still treat me like a baby! They won't let me get hair highlights! How do I convince them to let me get highlights??
I rate very high! (link)
just tell them that you need to be able to live...and that the only way to fit in at school is to look good and highlights make you look good! haha it worked on my parents when i was your age :)


ok well i have a bf that iv been gion out with for about 3 months,im not sure wether to stay with him or not,i mean all of my friends are telling me to brake up with him and try out some other gies,but i love him and sometimes i dont i have no clue what to do,pleasse help me!!! (link)
all i have to say is if you think you love him then stay with him girl


ive never been kissd...im worried it will be too akward

i guess i jut need confidence or something... (link)
awwwwww hunni...there is nothing at all to worry about! its ok that you havent kissed anyone!its so much better to wait for someone perfect...cause then it will actually be special!dont waste it on anyone

hope i helped :)


My tampon gets stuck ALL the time so I need some good brand names so Im not soo embarassed when I go to the bathroom...HELP PLEASE!!! (link)
playtex gentle glide


Hey guys,
I'm 15/f and I was wondering if you can buy wireless laptops anywhere, and if so how much would they cost? Also, would you pay for your internet service the same way as if it were a regualar computer? If anyone can, please let me know. Thank you so much :-) (link)
i got mine at walmart.com and it works great!


OK...

My friend has been seeing her boyfriend for just over a month now. For two weeks they didn't even hold hands, they were so shy, but all of a sudden they kissed in the cinema and suddenly they are 'so in love' and on the same day as they kissed, they went to third base.

Last week, they had sex (in the WOODS!) and my friend is pretty sure she is pregnant. However, she is sayign she is 'bored' of her boyfriend and wants to 'move on'. I'm sorry but this is so stupid!! You don't sleep with someone you're 'bored' of and never really liked in the first place!!

She also wants an abortion.

First of all, I am angry at her for the whole 'oh I'm bored with you let's shag!' thing. I am also REALLY angry with her about the abortion because I am really against abortion in about 90% of cases, this one included. She wants to kill her own baby because she thinks she'll get 'bored' with it too, and because she made a mistake. She is 'making up' for that mistake with murder.

Now, I'm her friend and I am SUPPOSED to stand by her whatever, but this puts me in a HUGE dilemma because I do not agree with what she's done and what she is planning to do (split up with her boyfriend, have an abortion, not ever tell him she got pregnant). I'm really really angry at her right now and I can't talk to her, but I know she really needs my support at a time like this. How can I push my anger aside, how can I ignore my own stance on abortion and help her?

I need to stand by her...she needs all the love and support she can get, even though she doesn't deserve it. I was very tempted to slap her and run off when I found out but I realised that it's not my place to forgive or condone or accept or hate what she is doing, just to be there for her.

Please help...how can I get over my anger and resentment at what she is doing and be there for her? And don't just say 'talk to her' - if you have to, help me out on what to say!

Thanks for any help and sorry for the length. (link)
wow she sounds like a slut!thats a horrrible thing to do to someone...a guy has done it to me and just like left me in the cold and it fucking sucks! she might not be pregnant cause i thought i was...she might have a bladder infection type thing idk


im 21,but when comes to talking to boys im always blur.how can i attarct their attention?what kind of topics i can talk to them?
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wow something must be wrong...just never throw urself at a guy! they hate that


what do you get a guy(14,15,16) for his birthday or christmas?i have absolutely no idea what to get them. :/ suggestions?
-thanks (link)
maybe a cd..a shirt...a movie gift certificate


ok i've never been felt up before so i dont exactly know what the guy does up there anyways. when i feel my boobs i can barely feel the nipple unless its cold. is this normal because i always hear the guys saying oh she had such big nipples and im wondering what they'll think if i get felt up! sorry this is the stupidest question ever! (link)
its ok...you must be young! haha i am too but its fine if you are young you shouldnt have huge nipples


hey

my ex and i have gone through a lot and well i love him but he says im wasting my time trying i dont know what to do.should i just give up or should i keep trying (link)
hunny hunny hunny...i had the same problem and i kept getting the same advice! i think you need to move on...it will probably be hard but in the end you will thank yourself! usually when a guy says your wasteing your time then he doesnt want to be with you!it sucks i know! but you gotta get over him...TRUST ME


i need help what should i name my new puppy? like cute names. its a girl puppy (link)
maybe maggie! or daisy? or callie? idk


i was on myspace and i was reading my boyfriends comments and i noticed a new one from a girl in my grade. it was saying thank you. so i go to her page and i see that he commented on hers saying that she was beautiful and he thought she should know. is this weird at all? should i be mad? he is a very good boyfriend and always there for me and this is the only thing i have ever had to question about him..help! (link)
ahhhh im sorry! boys can be so gay! i am having problems with mine actually...but im sorry and i know this is easier said then done but talk to him because if you feel like he likes her then you might be wasteing your time! hope i helped you! i really hope things get better and if you ever have a feeling that hes cheating on you then dont just let that happen...any girl deserves better and no one deserves to be played! keep that in mind



I am looking for some web sites that sells clothes/shoes/bags/jewlery/etc. I am into alot of different styles--so any suggestions about where you shop online would be appreciated! thanks! (link)
try alloy.com its really cute and not alot of people know about it! but i


every one told me that my second period would most likley be late..but it was not..is this normal? and does that mean that most likley all my other periods will be on time to? thanks..i would appreciate any advice. (link)
for starters you are totally fine! my doctor told me that the first 2 years you have your period it wont always be steady, but if it is then it will be easier! your so lucky mine is scattered! we are all just made differently but dont worry about it


Ok, so my friends are telling me this guy likes me, but it's not the guy I like. They said he might ask me out, but I don't have feelings for him. How can I say I don't want to go out w/ him without sounding mean? (link)
the best thing to do is be honest but not harsh...just tell him you dont have feelings for him and if he doesnt except it then its his loss




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