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proper way
well... i like this girl a lot. and i want to know the proper way to finger a girl. i dont want to do a bad job and i want her to be pleasured by it. so please tell me the best way to do it. i need to know by thursday.
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ok never hurt her! seriously dont try to see how many fingers u can get in her because it will just piss her off (trust me) follow the others advice and you will be fine
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Well, there is no perfect way. Every girl is different and every girl has different nerves with different sensetivities down there. Start slow, heavy on teh foreplay. Don't just go jammin away at it. Kiss her softly, nibble her ear, kiss her neck. I would assume if you are going for fingering then you are already past feeling her up. Move from her neck down to her belly button. Kiss her there, run your tounge over her stomach, slowly inching up her shirt. Slide your hands inside her bra, massage her breasts and then maybe if your daring lick her nipples or nibble softly. Pay close attention to her facial experssions, as these can be a major indication of whther she's enjoying herself. If all is going well, unbutton her pants and slide them off slowly. I'd recommend rubbing her clit first, as this will really get her wet and make penetration easier. When she seems extremly aroused, start to tease her. Rub just around her pussy hole and insert a little bit of your finger at a time, nice and easy. Start to work it in deeper, making sure your not hurting her. Then when you feel you are in deep enough, i recommend a forward "come hither" motion with your fingers. This action with massage her insides, and quite possibly her g-spot. Above all of what i have told you, the most important piece of advice i can give you is COMMUNICATION! if you are close enough with this girl to be sexually active, then you should be able to ask her if she's liking it or what feels good. Hope i helped. If you have more questions feel free to ask me
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First off, make sure she wants you to finger her and remember you are doing it to turn her on, not to get you off.
Kiss her and touch her body first so she's aroused (there's nothing worse than someone fingering you when you aren't turned on or wet enough).
You may want to use extra lubricant (such as ky jelly) to make it easier and sexier.
For your next move you could try it standing up, but many guys find this way quite difficult.
It may be better to have her sitting down and leaning back, or lying down - it gives you better access to her vagina.
Slowly ease your finger inside her.
And here comes the best bit of advice I can give you - ask her what feels good.
Move your finger inside her, stroke and gently press in her vagina, and see how it feels for you, and what places she enjoys to be touched.
If she wants, you could try inserting more than one finger - but again, only do this to turn her on, not because you want to try and see how many fingers you can get up her.
Don't just focus on putting your finger(s) inside her.
Stroke or rub her clitoris, or get her to do this whilst you finger her.
You may also want to kiss her, talk about how it feels, or lick or kiss her breasts/ nipples.
Vaginal stimulation can feel fantastic, but make sure it's incorporated into sex, not just an act on its own.
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i suggest slowly move your hand down her vagina and slide one finger in and move in and out gently first and also ask her if she's ok.. dont jamm it in there and hurt her.. then if you can try to put another finger inside of her.. also while doin this just keep askin is she ok.. ♥ Nikki
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