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my boyfriends goin away for baseball tomorrow.. hes sleepin at his teammates house tonite.. and his teammates sister likes him alot n wants to get with him.. she wants him to go swimming with her tonight at their house.. theyre staying at the same hotel [ w/ a pool ] im gettin really jealous and worries.. he says hed never cheat and i believe him but temptation is hard to say no to for guys.. and he thinks shes 'hott'. should i be upset or get over it?
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i think you should get upset. my situation is much worse though.MY boyfriend was toghether with my exbestfriend (but they broke up after three days and we have been toghether for 3 noths or so)and she acctually flurted with him for a whole lesson. and in maths theres two of my friends that also flurting and i am getting really angry.
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well...if your boyfriend loves you...he wolt cheat...swimming with another girl isnt a big deal..my boyfriend goes to this girls house and goes swimming with her all the time..and he calls other girls hot..im ok by it...i know your prolly jealous and alll...i am of my boyfriends ex..but i mean its a normal thing...dont sweat it..just trsut your boyfriend
i hope i helped
britt
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well you dont have a reason to not trust him unless he proves you wrong so jus relax n take his word for it because if something does happen theres nothing you can do about it so jus hope for the best n hopefully he loves u n cares about u enough not to do it
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you have a good reason to be upset. i think when they all come home you should talk to him.he can lie so you need to be sure he didnt cheat. so what i would do is talk to one of his teammates that was there someone who is honest you know and see what that guy had to say.
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Psh i would be upset too! if he has a cell phone tell him to call you before he goes to bed or something.. you'll know if something is wrong when he starts actin' weird.
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Have you been able to trust him in the past? If you have, dont worry about it. If he says he wouldnt, then he means it. Guys hate it when there gfs dont trust them. I mean, wouldnt you hate it if he didnt want to trust you? So if you put yourself in his shoes, i think youll see that he wouldnt want you to have to worry so much.
Besides, if he is stupid enough to cheat on you, he's not worth it.
Hope I helped a little,
Jessy
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hey,
You have all the right to be upset. It can be really hard to trust guys. But, in your case thats pretty much all you can do. I mean, you cant like force him not to go. If i was in you're situation i'd be worried too. He told you he would never cheat on you. So i suppose you're going to have to take his word for it.
<33 kayla
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YOU SHOULD BE UPSEY && YOU SHOULD TALK TO HiM ABOUT iT.
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I WOULD BE A LITTLE WORRIED AT LEAST , AND TELL THAT BITCH TO BACK OFF! WELL YEAH I WOULD BE MAD TOO~ good luck
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Yes you should be upset. What kind of a boyfriend tells their girlfriend other girls are hot? And if he really cared about you, couldn't he stay at a different hotel? This is harsh but my advice is to dump him before you get hurt.
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you could use this to test your boyfriend on how much he cares and loves you.. if he does anythin wit this girl then you noe he probably doesnt love you as much as you love him.. by this he can either gain more trust from you or lose your trust and you..you have ever right to be upset i would be to.. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*
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If the guy really digs you then he wont cheat. I wouldn't stress out about it to much, but if he's really serious about you he wouldn't even go swimming with her with the risk of hurting your feelings. If he does then it's a good sign that he's proabably not a keeper...
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You like your boyfriend, so it's natural to be a little worried and jealous. But if your boyfriend says he wouldn't cheat on you and he hasn't given you any reason to assume otherwise, you should trust him.
Hope that helped you some!
~Bee~
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you have every reason to be upset...if i were you i would be too.i wouldnt want my boyfriend going to a house with some girl who he thinks is hott. if he really does love you then he wouldnt do anything to dissapoint you. you should ask his friend to keep an eye out for them, if you talk to your boyfriends friend, thats what i would do. best of luck to you
danni <33
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I personally would say confront him. Let him know that you're worried about what's going on, and if it comes down to it, talk to the girl. If he's YOUR boyfriend, you have the right to care and be upset about it.
<b>♥</b> Melissa
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