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hey my names kayla im 14 years old and im from rhode island i loovee giving poeple advice so go ahead and ask away! hehe
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I don't have much time in my crazy schedule and my boyfriend and have gotten really close lately and hang out all the time... my friends are getting annoyed and are saying that i don't spend enough time with them. i try really hard to do things with them, but it seems that i can never fit everyone in.. i want to stay close to my boyfriend but i don't want to lose my friends either.. comment please!
Hey,
Atleast you admit that you really are trying to fit them into your scheduel. But if you're friends know that you're blowing them off to be with some boy they have all the right to get pissed off. i mean, if my friend was doing that to me i'd get pretty mad.
Anyways, i think you shouldn't spend all of your time with your boyfriend...you need to spend some more time with your friends. explain that to him and im sure he will understand.
Get together with a bunch of your friends and you wont have to worry about "fitting everyone in".
i hope i helped!
i have this thing called hyperhydrosis, which is when you have really really really sweaty hands and sweaty feet ALL THE TIME, and even if you wipe them off on something, they don't get dry, they just stay wet. my boyfriend keeps asking me if we want to hold hands, and i keep making up excuses and stuff because it's really embarassing that i have sweaty hands, but i don't want to keep having to make up excuses every time, because he asks a lot, and he's already starting to get really suspicious and everything. please help me think of a good excuse that i can use everytime, or tell me if you think i should just tell him about it. if you think i should just tell him about it, then tell me how i should say it.
i know this might seem like a stupid question, but please help, and i'll rate high for good answers!!!
hey,
just tell him about it. if he really loves you im sure he can deal with it.
Okay, I'm sorry, but this is going to be REALLY long.
I was at summer camp last week, and i went with a bunch of my friends. We were having oodles of fun, and there was this guy there that i have liked for EVER! He lives near me and i see him alot, but he has never acted interested in me before. Now, at camp on...Tuesday, during the night game he sat next to me (on a loveseat) and started to poke my knee. So i poked him back. then he took his elbow and dug it into my hip so i jabbed him really hard in his side....it was kinda funny. Then he took his hand and kept putting it on my knee. I wasn't comfortable with that so i kept pushing it off but he wouldn't stop. Then on Wednesday he asked me to play tetherball with him, i so won. then we played pingpong, and i definitly lost. Then on Thursday it got REALLY weird. First I was in crafts and he was in pingpong. Those two games are in the same room. He lost in pingpong so he was sitting down. He called me over and told me too sit on his lap. I did not!!! Then I sat next to him in the chair next to him. He asked for my hand and i said "why" he said he wanted to see somthing. So i held out my hand. Then he just started holding onto my hand and stuff. I was really uncomfortable with this. After that my team and his team were assigned to go to the pool togeather. So while we were at the pool i did NOT want to go swimming. He kept splashing me and trying to push me in, and i was in my cloths! Then i got sick of it so i just jumped into the pool, cloths and all, and dunked him. Okay. He kept holding my hand all day and stuff and on friday, I was really uncomfortable with it. Then on friday everyone in camp catchs him making out with this girl!!!! Now i dont know what to think!!! I dont want to yell at him or anything, cause he is going through alot of problems and he has always been able to talk to me about them and no-one else. So i dont want him to think he cant. what should i do!!!!????
hey,
He obviously has feelings for you if he is flirting with you and holding your hand and everything. Or atleast it seems that way.
Now, think back to all the crushes you've had. When you think a guy doesnt like you, you get upset right? Well you said he called you over to sit on his lap and you refused. That might give him the idea that you dont like him. Also, you said that you felt uncomfortable when he was holding your hand. If you felt uncomfortable he could probably tell by the way you acted around him. That also could have made him feel like you dont really like him. Anyways, what im getting at is that he might have been upset because he thought you didnt like him.
Just because they found him making out with another girl doesn't mean he doesnt like you. She could have made the moves on him and he just went with it. After all you aren't going out with him. Even though he made out with that girl i think he must like you if he was holding your hand and everything. Guys dont just do that to any girl.
well i hope what i said made some sense
all of my friends are some of the nicest people in the world...but my dad just doesn't seem to like any of them. he always calls them brats or says that i can't hang out with them. they've all met him, and i keep telling him how great they are...but he just doesn't listen. how do i get him to see how amazing ALL my friends are?
hey,
I think it seems like you've already tried to show him how amazing they are. And obviously it isn't working out to well. I suggest you talk to your dad about it. Tell him that you dont appreciate how he's always so negative about your friends and that it hurts you that he doesnt aprove of such great people. Or something along those lines.
i have a problem this guy will not go out withme untill i get a b/f 4 my friend and he wants me to get my brother to go out with her but he only likes her as a friend wat should i dooooo???
PLZZZZZZ HELP ME!!!!!!!!!
Hey,
Honestly, that makes no sense. He must not like you too much if he requires you find your friend a bf before he agrees to go out with you. I dont even understand why he would make you do that in the first place.
If you really like this boy, then i suppose your going to want to meet those requirements. I advise you not to do so. Its a bad idea. If your brother doesn't like your friend as anything more than a friend dont try and make them go out. or force them to go out. You could totally ruin their friendship. Some people aren't meant to be in a relationship like that. So dont spoil their friendship just to go out with some ultra picky boy.
But, if you think that this guy is really worth the trouble, you can try and set your friend up with someone. It doesnt have to be your brother! Why is this boy being so picky!?
If i was in you're position i would totally forget about getting with him because he seems like he needs to get his priorities straight if he is making you set other people up in order to go out with him.
my boyfriends goin away for baseball tomorrow.. hes sleepin at his teammates house tonite.. and his teammates sister likes him alot n wants to get with him.. she wants him to go swimming with her tonight at their house.. theyre staying at the same hotel [ w/ a pool ] im gettin really jealous and worries.. he says hed never cheat and i believe him but temptation is hard to say no to for guys.. and he thinks shes 'hott'. should i be upset or get over it?
hey,
You have all the right to be upset. It can be really hard to trust guys. But, in your case thats pretty much all you can do. I mean, you cant like force him not to go. If i was in you're situation i'd be worried too. He told you he would never cheat on you. So i suppose you're going to have to take his word for it.
All of a sudden this morning, my nokia 3205 cellphone screen went BLUE (eventually went black) and I can't see ANYTHING. I can still make and recieve calls, but the menu and display are gone. How can I fix this.
hey,
i HIGHLY doubt that your going to be able to repair your phone yourself . maybe you can go back to the store you bought it at and get a warranty or something or ask them to repair it. if your phone can still make calls and stuff then its most likely only the screen that's the problem so just ask the store or whoever about it.
kayla
last night, i had a dream that i was showing my friend our old house (i actually lived there) and we went in the backyard and we had a big ravine in the backyard and we went to the bottom and a fox jumped out in front of us and ran into a path in the woods. then a coyote or a dog or a wolf or something, attacked the fox and bit its snout. the dog came after me but i kicked its head and he backed off. but right after i kicked him, he was really really friendly and he knew all commands one could ever think of!! its like he knew the english language. then the fox came back out and the dog was sitting next to me and i told him "get him boy!" and so the dog who i named Blaster, attacked his snout again. but no blood or killing. the fox ran away. then my friend seemed to just dissapear because i didnt see her in the dream anymore. then we were in a totally different house and my brother and sister were tossing my stuffed animal dog named Shultzie around and i got mad and told Blaster to attack them.he bit my brothers leg and my sisters arm. but my parents thought it was neccasary. haha. so then i walked in the kitchen of my dads house with blaster. i think i started crying just a little bit and my stuffed dog was all dirty and the collar broke off. then i looked ay blaster and petted him. then i woke up.
does this dream mean anything? i dont have a dog..could it mean im getting a dog? please answer. sorry it's so long. will rate a 5!
hey,
its possible...or maybe you're had the dream because your constantly hoping or thinking about getting a dog. dreams can mean anything..its complicated.
is it ok to shave next to your belly and your lower back?
hey,
i suppose its ok...but i wouldnt reccomend it. the hair will grow back thicker and darker. just like the hair on your legs.
Hey Everyone, Whats up?
You Know Jessica Simpson's new "Dessert line" Of beauty probucts? I was wondering, Can you Really eat them? Or Not? I read the back of a Bottle to see the ingredients and I really couldn't tell. Anyone Know?
(Are they worth the price?)
-SLeK-
(If it matters, I'll rate and leave feedback!)
hey,
my cousin has that stuff. yeah you can really eat them. i dont think they taste very good though... :/ yuck...They are definitly NOT worth the price...i mean there is really no point to the stuff...lip gloss you can eat...isnt it supposed to be to put on your lips and make you perty?! the whole idea is rediculous...complete waste of money...
kayla
well me and my ex-boyfriend still talk and I love him and he stil has feelings for me do u think we still have a shot of working it out?and getting back toeghther?
hey,
well if you both like eachother i dont know why you wouldnt be able to work it out. go for it. second chances are great cuz you can try and avoid any mistakes you made when you went out the first time. good luck!
Hey. I was wondering, what is the best way to get highlights done...at a salon or at home using the highlighting kit. How long would it take if I were to get temporary highlights? How long would it last? How long would it take for the highlights to appear on my hair? I have like dark brown hair that looks black (I'm African American), and I was thinking of getting brown or light brown highlights. What do you guys think looks best?
P.S.: If I were to use the home highlighting kit, which is the best one?
hey,
i dont know much about salon highlights so i cant really answer all of your questions...but my friend's mom did the at home highlighting kit. it was a good quality one too...and it turned her whole head orange...I definitly suggest you get it perfessionally done...it will come out much better...
kayla
My face always looks oily no matter what i do! I use Noxzema and sometimes Clearasil Ultra what can i do so my face isnt that oily looking?
Hey,
i guess i have the same problem. i just put on liquid foundation and then i put on a powdered one on top of it. that should work. (it does for me)
14/f
do you do if you like a guy who is a really bad kisser and he wants to make out with you?
i know he bit a girls lip and made it bleep. lol. and also he like of doesn't give you time to break or anything.
plus i have never kissed anbyone before!
hey,
well it shouldnt matter if he is a good kisser or not. thats pretty funny though that he bit a girls lip...but i think you can work around that and get to know him and stuff. dont worry about kissing just yet. im sure he isnt that bad. and if he is i suppose you just have to make the best of it.
I need help, i like this girl and i wanna know how do u talk to her on the phone like wat to say to here. I rate 5's
hey,
well its not really that difficult to find something to talk about. just ask her how she's been and what she's been up to lately and stuff. just dont worry about it. you dont have to like script what your going to say.
hi my name is jess i met this kid at camp named matt i think i like him and i want to know if he likes me back how is this possible to find out if he likes me back
Thanks jess
ps. please dont delete this it is urgent
Hey,
Of course its possible! You just have to really put some thought into how he acts around you. If he flirts and pays extra attention to you he might like you. Talk to him a little more and maybe it will be a little clearer to you.
**much love**
kayla xo
Ok, me and this girl have been talkin' 4 a while now (for like 6 months). We were just friends at first but I've always liked her. She's been in really bad relationships and thinks men are dogs and will treat her like dirt. I really like her though and I wouldn't do anything like that. I like her too much. Plus I'm not even that kinda guy. I wanna love her and show her trust, honesty, and loyalty. She's been so hurt that she can't see that I wouldn't do that to her. I wanna be with her; she is the most incredible girl I've ever met. On top of that I think I like her so much it might be turning into Love. I need some GOOD advice. Help!
P.S. I'll rate high.
Hey,
Ok well once a gurl is hurt a number of times she pretty much expects every guy to treat her like shit! I mean, when the same thing happens to you over and over again you start to expect it. So you have to prove to her that you really love her and your not going to hurt her. Not just by telling her, do things for her and show her you care. Tell her exactly how you feel about her. I know if a guy cared for me as much as you seem to care about her i would be flattered. Just tell her how you feel and see what happens.
**much love**
kayla xo
My birthday was about a week ago, and my mom gave me a Tiffany braclet (if you dont know what that is its like a 400 dollar braclet). A few days after I went to the beach with my cousins and I was wearing the braclet. We were boogyboarding in the waves and the braclet slipped off my wrist. It went with the waves. Now I lost it and I havent told my mom yet. Im not sure how she would react but im scared to tell her. How should I say it? Please help
Hey,
Wow. Well you know she is eventually going to find out about it. So u might as well tell her as soon as you can or she will be angry that you didnt tell her sooner. So just tell her the truth and that it was a complete accident and maybe she will show you some sympathy.
**much love**
kayla xo
im 14/f...i feel like i sleep a LOT! like here's an average day: wake up around 10...take a nap from like 1 to 3 30...then get up and do whatever...then take another nap from like 5 to 6 30...then stay up until like 1 in the morning and go to bed and do it all over again the next day...is this normal or is there something wrong???
Hey,
Maybe the reason you need to sleep so much during the day is because you arent getting enough sleep at night! Its also possible that you have a disorder. Talk to your doctor about it.
**much love**
kayla xo
Okay I’m 15 and I weigh 110 and I’m 5’6 is that to skinny? I don’t think it is but some people say that is and I wanna gain some pounds. And I want it to show I just maybe wanna get to like 120 at least. If anyone knows any good ways of gaining some pounds please let me know what they are. Also will you tell me from the information I gave you up top does that sound like I’m skinny or is it fine? Thank you so much!!
*K
Hey,
Yeah that is pretty skinny. Just eat more at your usual meals. You'll probably gain more weight that way. Eat until your full.
**much love**
kayla xo