i have a problem this guy will not go out withme untill i get a b/f 4 my friend and he wants me to get my brother to go out with her but he only likes her as a friend wat should i dooooo???
soccerplayer5674 answered Friday August 5 2005, 6:33 pm: I don't think this guy is worth it, he obviously doesn't care that much about you (no offense to you) or how much you want to go out with him, I mean did you tell him that your brother only likes her as a friend? If you did and he still wont go out with you, you should definately get over him he is deffinately not worth wasting your time im sure plenty of other guys would want to go out with you!! But if you didnt tell him then tell him and see how it goes, sorry if this seemed a little harsh on him but I hope I helped!! =D [ soccerplayer5674's advice column | Ask soccerplayer5674 A Question ]
ACWNS09 answered Friday August 5 2005, 6:30 pm: First, why does he want you to get a boyfriend for your friend? If he really likes you, he'll go out with you anyway. But if you really want to go out with him and it's the only way, you should just find someone who will go out with her. If that doesn't work, just trying explaining the situation to him. If he wants to go out with you, that other stuff shouldn't matter [ ACWNS09's advice column | Ask ACWNS09 A Question ]
xRoOxiSxBlOnDex answered Friday August 5 2005, 6:11 pm: Okay, if this guys so concerned about your friend, tell him to deal with it himself. It's one thing to make a comment or suggestion, it's another to say he won't date you until SHE has a b/f. That's stupid.
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xokaylao2 answered Friday August 5 2005, 6:03 pm: Hey,
Honestly, that makes no sense. He must not like you too much if he requires you find your friend a bf before he agrees to go out with you. I dont even understand why he would make you do that in the first place.
If you really like this boy, then i suppose your going to want to meet those requirements. I advise you not to do so. Its a bad idea. If your brother doesn't like your friend as anything more than a friend dont try and make them go out. or force them to go out. You could totally ruin their friendship. Some people aren't meant to be in a relationship like that. So dont spoil their friendship just to go out with some ultra picky boy.
But, if you think that this guy is really worth the trouble, you can try and set your friend up with someone. It doesnt have to be your brother! Why is this boy being so picky!?
If i was in you're position i would totally forget about getting with him because he seems like he needs to get his priorities straight if he is making you set other people up in order to go out with him.
<33 kayla [ xokaylao2's advice column | Ask xokaylao2 A Question ]
knottypanda answered Friday August 5 2005, 5:48 pm: If he will only date you if you hook someone else up, than he obvious doesn't like you enough to begin with. Don't jump into relationships; it's far too desparate. If he will only go out with you under certain circumstances, then it's not worth it. He should love you uncondtionally, like a puppy =). He doesn't have enough respect for you to give you a proper response. He's using you as a tool. Don't do it. Move on >.< i know it's probably not what you want to hear, but i think it's for the best.
MummuM answered Friday August 5 2005, 5:36 pm: That sounds really weird and immature of him. Why doesn't he want to go out with you until you get your friend a boyfriend? Just doesn't make any since. He's the one that is hurting himself by not being with you, until your friend can find a boyfriend. If he's acting like this, find a new guy to crush on, sweetie. Relationships shouldn't come with conditions like this. If he likes you, he should like you for who you and shouldn't worry about who everyone else is dating.
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karenR answered Friday August 5 2005, 5:13 pm: Personally I wouldn't want to date someone if it came with conditions. If he truly liked you he wouldn't be worried about who anyone else was dating. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
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