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Hey guys!!! its Goober ((wende)) and Gumby ((mel))and we are here for you guys 24/7! dont be afraid to ask anything cuz there is NO stupid question!! and if you like or dont like our answer feel free to leave us feedback!! we love that!! :D!! ok well ya..have fun!

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ok,so.....i have been friends with this guy for about a year and a half, and we are just,like,so close in personality...everyone says hey think we should go out....and soo, we do like everything together and we are both drummers,and i liked him for a while, and i really wanted something to happen between us,but nohting eneded upo happening...then just recently, he asked me out on a date, and i was like,i actually have a chance!woot woot! so we go out,and have an even greater time i thought we would have...so we start dating regularly and we become boyfriend and girlfriend...so i ws happy, and like...i feel so close to this guy..and then one night we were at his place,and we were watching a movie,then we started "watching" the movie,and i was like so happy this was happening,then we started talking and he asked me if i would ever have sex with him..and i was like,?? i feel like our connection is strong enough to with hold that if we actually proceded with it,but do you think i should go thru with it or not??

well i think that you should wait and save yourself for someone when your older. im not saying you ABSOULTLY HAVE to wait till you're married, but it would be nice. if you guys are as close as you say you are then he would understand if you said you weren't ready. but then again if you want to have sex with him, then go right ahead but just use protection! but what i think you should do is wait. waiting is always better because then if something bad did happen like an STD, or even a child you would be older and be able to deal with it more. im mean, make out all you want to and whatever lol but i would hold off on sex. if you need anymore help talk to me online! hope i helped ... !!

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My friend and I were on a cruise.EVERYBODY was drinking like all the minors. She got Vodka and mixed it with Red bull. She was being really stupid and she brought it to the lobby of the ship where alot of the police people were b/c it wasl like 4:30 in the morning.Well they caught her but they told her they would talk to her parents in the morning cuz it was late. Well we got off the boat really early that morning so they didn't have time to talk to her parents (actually my parents). Should i tell my parents that she was drinking and have them tell her. She would know that i told then..i don't know what to do please help

hey sweetie!!!
your like in a super tough position!!!! because you dont want to make your friend mad at you for telling your parents about her drinking but all you want to do is help her but she might be mad right?!?! well you should probably tell your parents about her drinking even though your friend will find out you told and be mad.....but you have to be prepared for the worst! expect her to be mad! but you know you helped her in the long run and that your a great friend right now......she might not notice it at the moment, but she will later!!!! and you will feel better!!! well i hope i helped!!!! and well im grounded so i cant talk to you online at the moment!!! if you have any other questions feel free to ask!!!! lots of love: goober ((aka:wende))

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ok like i am both of yalls friends and i amm soo hott and i think yall are too(hehe) and i wanted to see if yall could guess who i am...i am a girl. soo just post and ill read itt...haha we will see if you know me well.


kiss kiss meee

ummm is this brittany??? or maybe megan... or alexandra!!
gahh i dont know lol..!! give me 3 clues nextime unless i got it

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do you think that being 14, weighing 140 pounds, and being 5'4 is overweight?

oh my goodness....NO!!!! as long as you eat healthy and lift weights your perfectly fine!! i thought i was overweight but then i learned to deal with what i have and to work out to be healthy, not skinny like the actresses and models because thats NOT realistic at all!! well i hope i helped you!!
love goober ((aka:wende))

if you need anything else just im me!! id love to talk to you!!

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hey! um...like i really liked this one guy and he "liked" me too for a while. but then we started doin things and i really didnt want to do something i did but i did anyway ((cuz i thought if i didnt he wouldnt like me anymore)). But after that he wont talk to me anymore. i was alright for a little while and just got over him and stuff but now i really like him again, but i dont want to ask him why he wont talk to me ((i think i was used but some of my friends that are close to him say that he would never do that)). I cant get him out of my head i really really like him alot. i dont know what to do.

OMG i know exactly how you feel!! he like totally hurt your feelings didnt he?!?! because this is so ironic because this JUST happend to me!! think of how much hes hurt you like about doing the thing you didnt want to do but you did it anyway because you were the one who cared about yalls relationship.....if he truley like doesnt act that way like your 'friends' say than maybe hes just acting diff and having a bad day. but if he wont talk to you than he doesnt like you and is trying to send you a message....and unfortunatley you have to accept that and say ok you know what hes totally my waste of time and i can do so much better!! well i hope you feel better! and i hope i helped!!

love goober ((aka:wende))
if you need any extra talking just im me!!! i love to talk about boy trauma!!

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okay. i need to talk to someone and none of my friends can really help. my parents are divorced and i dont see my dad very often. i live with my mother who is an alcoholic and gets pissed off easliy. today my brother and mom got into a huge fight. she is now gone, i mean she just left. i called her and she said that she just needed to be alone. she hasnt returned yet, and i dont know what to do. i am only 14 and my brother 11. she is most likely going to come home incredibly drunk and when she is drunk life just sucks... i dont know what to do anymore because i am just sick of it. this isnt the first time she has just left......

wow, im so sorry. my parents are divorced too and i dont see my dad very often, but i guess your a little worse off cause you have to deal with an alcohalic. my advice to you is to either:
a.)try and talk to your mom when she is sober, and explain to her how it makes you feel when she is drunk and how it makes you feel when she leaves. maybe do some research on how to recover as an alcoholic and tell her it would make you feel better if she slowed it down on the drinking.
b.)call your dad. i know that might seem hard to do cause you dont see him often but tell him whats going on and maybe try and find a time for just you and him to get together and just talk. maybe who knows...he can talk to her about it

i hope i helped, cause i really understand to some extent what your going through! if you need to talk more about it my IM is: imasuperstar673!!

Love, Gumby (( aka Mel ))

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i am almost 14 and i weigh 140 pounds i am 5'4 and i need a way to loose weight. i am not good at stay to a diet so i need something easy that i could find around the house
it is summer and i need help fast!!!!! i rate

try climbing your stairs alot if you have a two story house, or jogging around the block. it really does pay off in the end. and you dont NEED a diet to loose weight, im not on a diet but i excersize alot and it really helps!! but if you do cut down on calories but just having smaller portions of food, thats not really a diet its just smarter eating. hope i help! if you need to talk some more my IM is: imaSuPeRsTaR673 oooorrrr you can ask my partner in crime for more help too. her sn is: blondestbrnet242

Love, Gumby (( aka Mel ))

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