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what the heck am i supposed to do?
ok,so.....i have been friends with this guy for about a year and a half, and we are just,like,so close in personality...everyone says hey think we should go out....and soo, we do like everything together and we are both drummers,and i liked him for a while, and i really wanted something to happen between us,but nohting eneded upo happening...then just recently, he asked me out on a date, and i was like,i actually have a chance!woot woot! so we go out,and have an even greater time i thought we would have...so we start dating regularly and we become boyfriend and girlfriend...so i ws happy, and like...i feel so close to this guy..and then one night we were at his place,and we were watching a movie,then we started "watching" the movie,and i was like so happy this was happening,then we started talking and he asked me if i would ever have sex with him..and i was like,?? i feel like our connection is strong enough to with hold that if we actually proceded with it,but do you think i should go thru with it or not??
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well i think that you should wait and save yourself for someone when your older. im not saying you ABSOULTLY HAVE to wait till you're married, but it would be nice. if you guys are as close as you say you are then he would understand if you said you weren't ready. but then again if you want to have sex with him, then go right ahead but just use protection! but what i think you should do is wait. waiting is always better because then if something bad did happen like an STD, or even a child you would be older and be able to deal with it more. im mean, make out all you want to and whatever lol but i would hold off on sex. if you need anymore help talk to me online! hope i helped ... !!
<3 Mel
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