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I have this problem..My bestfriend was going out with this boy..Then this boy broke up with her..She was shock (i guess)..But okay, that's not the major problem..Now,I'm going out with that boy..and no one knows that except my sister..I've been going out with that boy for 2 weeks or so..now I have this illfeel..I feel that I'm so wrong by going out with my bestfriend's ex boyfriend..I don't know what to do..Should I break up with that boy and give him back to my bestfriend, or keep going??
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If he is your friends EX then you should be able to date him without feeling guilty about it. He doesn't want her for a girlfriend anymore or she wouldn't be an ex. So, stop feeling guilty about it. You are doing nothing wrong. :)
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well i should tell you to tell your friend but you really dont wanna get her upset but you should break up with him and not feel so bad and then tell your friend that you went out and it is over but it really depends on how forgiving your friend is good luck....................................chelsea
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Talk to your best friend before you make any rash decisions. She might be okay with it, or she might need a little more time. Just tell her you're fine with doing whatever she wants, and hopefully it'll work out for the best. [=
<b>♥</b> Melissa
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What's more important to you? Your friendship w/ your friend or your boyfriend. If you think you friend would eventually forgive you, I would tell her when you get a chance to sit down and talk to her as soon as possible. She may understand, she may not, but you also have to remember that if she gets mad, she might have a right to because you kept it a secret from her. But, there's also a chance she may understand. But my advice is to tell her because she has every right to know and I know how it feels to find out secrets that won't make me happy. Don't keep the secret any longer. Even if you do break up w/ your b/f she has a right to know that you dated him. I don't know your friend, and I don't know how she'll react but, I hope you'll be prepared right away. Good luck and I hope I helped.
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well that is deffinately a mistake...its like an un wrtitten rule that friends do not date best friends ex's you can hurt the relationship very badly n lose a friend especially since you kept it from her n lied .....break up with him n hope for the best
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You should tell your friend what's going on and ask her how she feels about it. Make sure you let her know that you didn't want to hurt her and will put your friendship first no matter what. If she gives you her blessing, keep dating the guy. If she doesn't you should dump him, but make sure he knows he didn't do anything wrong and that you still think he's a great guy and all.
Hope that helps! Good luck!
~Bee~
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well its not really right to go out with your bestfriends ex...ive been in this situation before and my friend eventually got over it because she is my bestfriend.dont let a guy get inbetween a good friend ship, its just totally not worth it later on. i would just tell your bestfriend whats really going down and see what she says...hope i could help a little .
danni <3
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well it depends on how much you like this guy!
But also you should tell your bestfriend that you are seeing and have been seeing her ex, cause if she finds out from somebody else first that won't be too good, If you keep seeing him. Also you should see if this guy still likes your bestfriend before you dump him so he can be with her, If you decide to give him back to your bestfriend. Also if I were you i would call my guy and ask him if he still likes my bestfriend, then 3-way my bestfriend and tell her that we have been dating and go from there.
Hope I Helped
~Nikki~
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talk to your friend about if she still likes the boy and what she would do if you started going out with him. if shes not cool about it then dump him but if its fine then stay just remember that ur friends are always gonna be more important then ur bf
♥ Nikki
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WELL iF YOUR FRiEND STiLL LiKES THiS BOY THEN ii WOULD SEE iF SHES OK WiTH YOU DATiNG HiM... THiS HAPPENED TO ME AND MY FRiEND WAS PiSSED! i WOULDNT RiSK LOSiNG YOUR FRiEND OVERA BOY... ii DiD AND iT JUST iSNT WORTH iT... HOPE ii HELPED ! ~XOXO~
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you should talk to your friend and tell her you like the guy and would like to go out with him..if shes totally not cool with it, then you should dump him...but if shes ok with it, keep going
friends come first.
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