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Q: Okay, i have this friend who has been my friend since like kindergarden....but this year she has changed so much its unreal. A lot of our other friends think that same thing, but we are not sure if we should tell her or not, cuz we dont want her to get pissed off at us. She is like pretty much obsessed with this guy and yet doesnt want to admite it, and that's one of the reasons why she has changed so much. Its because of a guy. Now tell me, do you think that we should talk to her about this or should we jsut leave it the way it is? WE care a lot about her and dont want to stop being her friend but this is really getting out of hand...so what do you think we should do??

well talk to her about it... maybe she doesnt realize you guys think this way. and im sure she wont get pissed... hope i helped!
ex-oh

Q: I have a friend that I have pretty much grown up with but when were with other people she is a total jerk to me. When were just hanging out by ourself she is a great friend..... some people say shes two faced but idk...

she is seriously two faced and you dont need someone like that... hope i helped !

Q: hey what do i do when i want a girl to have sex with me and do other things to me and just have a lil fun

cory your a loser ! hehehehhe

Q: i really like this guy and i want to go out wit him but he is older and i don't knowhow he feel's about me what should i do

just ask him ! if he likes you go from there... it usually works !!

Q: ive been going out with my b/f for a long long time now...and i love him but i just met this guy who seems to perfect...we have all the same things in common and we talk about almost anything 2gether...and i like this guy i just met a lot (i think) and i know this guy i just met doesnt have a girlfriend and i dont know if he likes any other girl...i dont even know if he likes me...what should i do? should i break up with my boyfriend (which our relationship is struggling at the moment and he doesnt realize it) and go out with this other guy or just stay friends with other guy and stay with my b/f???? im so lost help me...

*help..me*

well sweety you need to know if the guy you like likes you back... and if he does then you need to make a decision... make like a list of like pros and cons about both.... i know it sounds mean but i cant think of ne thing else ! if you wana know more talk to me on aim... x Kaitlynn x3

Q: Ok I have a friend(or so I thought). I found out that she likes my boyfriend. She's always trying to get his attentiuon and stuff and she's even tried to break us up a few times. I love my boyfriend a lot and I know that he loves me. But this girl worries me. Sometimes he even gives her the attention she wants, and he says he doesn't mean to. Is this girl really my friends? And does my boyfriend love me as much as he says he does?

Thanks Kaitlynn!
I Love You.

no she isnt... shes only using you to get to your bf... sorry to say... and even if he says hes not trying to give her the tyme of day, i think he is... i mean i dont wana break you guys up but thats just what i think... hope i helped ! xoxo

Q: i really really like this girl. and i want to ask her out but i dont know how i should do it. How should i?

well first it would be good to know if she liked you back... if she does then just start a conversation with her and when you think "the moment is just right" ask her... hope i helped !

Q: Ok so have this friend that my mom doesnt want me to hang around with anymore. She's ben my best friend for like ever and i dotn want to stop being her friend. My mom doesn't understand that. And i keep trying to explain it to her, but its just not working. THis friend of mine is like one of htose things where you say "I dont know what i would do with out you!" type of deals. And my mom doesnt understand that either. My friend and I still talk all the time on the phone all the time and she was at my house two days this week. My moms not too happy about it. How should i tell my mom that my firned and i arent going to stop being friends and to stop yelling at me every time shes here or i takl to her??

SiGnEd,
I need help

just be like well me and miranda are going to be friends no matter what you say so can you like chill? lol well you know thats what i would say so... well talk to me in private about it ok? hope i helped a lil!

Q: What is the name of Nickleback's new song???

photograph... awesome song ! hope i helped !

Q: who sings the version of listen to your heart thats been on the radio all the time. its not roxette right? it sounds like someone dif.

D.H.T sings it... hope i helped !

Q: You can't help acne with tylenol and advil. You have to use acne stuff. I'm nto sure what works well though. Just saying sorry if it sounded mean

i didnt even do that... my sister clicked on the wrong question... sorry! and i have this body wash that works really good... its called body clear body wash by neutrogena(sp?)... you can get it at like wal*mart... hope i helped !

Q: YOo...well im 14 and female.. theres a guy that i really really like.. the feelings i have for him are unexplainable... we went out before.. we've been broken up forrr about 9 months:-/ a long time i no. but we have kept in touch and still talk a lot.. everybody wants us to hook back up..my family, his family, and even our friends.. but theres a catch.. he has a girlfriend. they have been on and off for a while but he says the only reason he keeps goin back to her is he feels bad... and he tells me he has feelings for me.. and he has cheated on his g/f wit me more than once...:( . i cant even put how i feel in words.. being around him just makes me happy. but idk what to do anymore.. i see him all the time.. and i dont no wha i should do.. should i get over it or go for it...?

YOU DONT SOUND LiKE YOU WOULD EVER GET OVER iT... SO GO FOR iT ! JUST THE WAY YOU DESCRiBE HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT HiM MAKES iT KiNDA OBViOUS(SORRY iF THATS MEAN)! HOPE ii HELPED AND ii HOPE iT WORKS OUT !!

Q: ok so I have a crush on two boys. one of them is like idk but put it this way we don't hang out but the other one lives right down the street and we hang out all the time! they both know I like them idk what to do. should I just ask out the one that lives down the street since I actually hang out with him or go with the other one and hop things work out?

iT ALL DEPENDS ON WHO YOU LiKE MORE... DONT JUST GO OUT WiTH ONE FOR THE CONViENCE OF HiM LiViNG DOWN THE STREET... HOPE ii HELPED !

Q: okay....lately one of my best friends is acting weird...she used to be so hyper and fun and punkish...i guess thats how you would describe it...lol but anyway, nows shes all sad and angry and never talks to anyone as much as she used to. and i know your gunna say to talk to her about it but people are so fucking stuborn that you can say as many things to them as you want and they never do shit about it. so give me something other than try and talk to her about it. k? bye bye ~*~hugs+kisses~*~

WELL THE FiRST THiNG THAT COMES TO MiND iS TO TALK TO HER/HiM ABOUT iT... ii UNDERSTAND THAT YOU DONT WANT TO HEAR THAT BUT JUST TALK TO ME ABOUT iT ON AiM OR MY EMAiL AND iLL TRY TO HELP BETTER ! KAiTLYNN !

Q: I have pretty bad back acne.. What can I do to get rid of it?

TRY TYLENOL OR ADViL... iT SHOULD HELP..... KAiTLYNN !

Q: ok my question is what are the symtoms of sifilic? if thats how u spell it?

signed
just wondering girl...

iM REALLY SORRY BUT ii HAVE NO iDEA... ii WiSH ii COULD HELP YA BUT ii CANT EVEN FiND iT ON GOOGLE!
MUCH LOVE ! KAiTLYNN

Q: well my ex boyfriends birthday is coming up and we decided we were gonna spend the day together after school or the following day together! weve been broken up for almost 7 months now! ya i know a really long time! but through it all weve been like best of friends and we talk all the time! and weve hung out twice this summer! well he does tell me he knows we both want to be together but it wont work right now because he is dating another girl but they arent going out cause she cant have a boyfriend! and even after being broke up hes like i love u and i always will! and just last night he said he missed us! and i still really care about him! but anyways for his bday i wanna do something really cute! i was already thinking about making him a cake and decorating it all cute and getting him a card! but i was trying to think of something else special i could do to show him how much i care! any ideas? thanks so much!

well ii like the cake and card part ! ii would get him a cd of his favorite band or spend the day at his favorite place... ii dont know... sorry ! ~xoxo~

Q: hi kaitlynn i kno u and ull prolly guess who this is... ne way i went out with this girl two times before the first time she relle hurt me and i felt relle bad but i still liked her so we went out again a while after that didnt work out to great and we hadnt talked much since then then one night she was takling to me and she told me she liked me again and i told her i still liked her and it was cool and i went to see a movie with her and we almost kissed but i didnt wanna rush her into a relationship like before and then she stoped talking to me for a while after that and i got all confused and thot something was wrong so i tried talking to her a few times and a few times she ignored me and then yelled at me to stop asking her what was wrong but now shes acting different again so i was wondering what i should do cuz i relle love her and want to stay with her any advice???

is this heather ? well ne way ii wouldnt push to hard... when she decides she likes you again shell come back... in the mean time ii would try and think of something else or someone else... ii really dont know what else to say... hope ii helped somewhat ! ~xoxo~

Q: There is a girl who I used to be best friends with and have known her for sort of a long time now. Well, now she is annoying to me and I don't like her as much because she annoys me and she thinks she's cool and acts really stupid sometimes. I get into fights with her a lot and so I don't talk to her. I don't know what is going on, but I don't really know what to do. What do you think? (sorry this is long)

WELL THiS PAST YEAR AT SCHOOL ii WAS LiKE THis WiTH MY FRiEND CASSiE... SHE WAS SO ANNOYiNG AND SHE ACTED REALLY STUPiD SOMETiMES... BUTii TALKED TO HER ABOUT iT AND NOW WERE OK... ii THiNK YOU SHOULD TALK TO HER ABOUT iT... TELL HER THAT SHE CAN GET ON YOUR NERVES SOMETiMES... THAT SHOULD WORK ! HOPE ii HELPED ! ~xoxo~

Q: I have this best friend every time we go some where people are all over her to me shes a dork But shes my friend I don't know what to do

THiS PROBLY iSNT GOOD ADViCE BUT YOU SOUND JEALOUS... MAYBE YOU SHOULD JUST LET HER BE... SORRY ii COULDNT BE OF MORE HELP! ~xoxo~

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hey my name is Kaitlynn and i love to give advice! i love my friends, laguna beach, degrassi, my cell phone, AIM... ill be happy to help ne way i can... xoxo