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im losing my best friend what do i do? (link)
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you need to talk to him/her and straighten stuff out, if they're REALLY a best friend, they'll be willing to work stuff out. if not, you haven't lost anything.
good luck,
-Kyle
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ok your a guy.. if a girl liked you.. would you rather her tell you and be honest or not...??? even if you didnt like her liek that.. but just as a friend.. or wat if you did like her.. u were jsut scared??? (link)
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honnnnnesty is ALWAYS the best way to go about things, no matter what. because lies are derived from negativity, and that ruins everyone's day. be completely honest with him, and i'm sure he'll be just as honest back ;].
good luck,
-Kyle
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is it true that most guys like their friends that are girls in some way? (link)
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ummmmmmmmmmmmmmm, idk, maybe, yeah, kinda, haha, it just depends, i think it's more of a "yeah she's cute", but only because she's a good friend and the guy thinks very highly of her, idk, that's a hard one, i'll say yes, because i'm affectionately oriented and i like a lot of my chick friends in some small way or another. :p
good luck on that one haha,
-Kyle
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okay here it goes... you like this guy... yall used to "go out" or w/e right.. well yall stoped talking for a lil bit well latly yall have been hanging out a whole lot right.. and you think things are going good, he tells his friends he likes you just scared or w/e... well he even acts like it... but then you see him somewhere with this girl in her car.. just them... his 2 other Guys friend in another car... so heres the ?... what to think?? is there a chance... do you think he is just scared???? (link)
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ehhh...sounds kinda...fishy to me. i think that he's whatever he needs to be at the given moment to keep everyone happy, i'd move on if i were you. :\ sorry, but good luck!
:],
-Kyle
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ok.. here it goes.. what do you do if you like this guy like a WHOLE lot... but yeah i just realised it.. we used to "go out" or w/e it was.. but yeah we decided to "take a break" "and let the drama die off"... exactly what does that mean?? does that mean there is hope in the future?? or no hope??? but yeha.. ok this guy and me have just recently started hangin out again liek after a month or two.. but yeah..i thought i was over him.. but realised im really not.. and i love being around him... but yeah... how do i know if he still likes me liek that.... i really cant tell.. at times he act liek he does.. but i duno.. cause i mean he never said to anyone he was over me.. but i dunno is there a chance??? (link)
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yes, there's alllways a chance for everything, nothing is guaranteed, tho, so don't dive in head first. haha, just talk to him about it, if you don't, nothing will change.
gooo for it.
good luck,
-Kyle
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Mudvayne "Happy?"
Thats a good song Haha I like posting on here wether then your stupid Xanga. Anyways I just got done wayching Troy and The notebook. Well Troy was some sweet shit watching Brad Pitt kick everyones Ass and then Dragging that Guy Haha Funny shit. Well on the Notebook I had a few tears because if you've seen it you know what im talking about by saying the Very Last scene. When the Guy layed with his Wife who actually remembered him and they died, thats some Said Shit. Anyways Going Listening to More Mudvayne and some H.I.M. and maybe some Seether and Hawthorne Heights. (link)
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lol, cody, you're a crazy nup. :D NIGROID, spend the night at my house on friday, we have unfinished bitchings to hand out. LMFAO.
yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!,
-Kyle
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i like 2 guys and i know for sure one likes me but i dont know about the other...what should i do? (link)
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lol, just go with who you know will be there for you as a friend even after you split up, that's IF you date, try to keep them both as good friends, but if you know one wont be there when you need him later on after the split...go with the other. you'd be doing yourself a favor.
good luck,
-Kyle
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i like two guys at once...and i know for sure that one likes me and wants to go out with me but i dont know about the other...i also dont know which one i like more...what do i do? (link)
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talk to both of them privately about it. but dont mention one guy to the other, play it safe. um, go with what feels more..."right", rather than what feels sane. :]
good luck,
-Kyle
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Hey there my sexy wexy...lol...I got your msg from last night and I just want you to know that I am going to start doing what I want, rather than what will keep the peace. I hope you are sincere, which I bet you are. I can't wait til this weekend because ya know...=) Well I'll let you go for now. Te amo! Ich liebe dich!
'You know who (link)
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^____^ haha, always :p
-Kyle
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Always smile, because you never know who might have been falling in love with you smile.
When do you know youre ready to take a friendship into a further stage, like bf/gf? (link)
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when you know, you know, both people are feeling it and it's a mutual attraction. let it blossom!
-Kyle
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hey! one of my friends keep saying really mean things to me and she called me a bitch before and then her so called "best friend" always tries to be the center of attention....what should i do about my best friend? (link)
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i guess i'd tell you to sit your friend down in private and talk things over with them, otherwise nothing will change and problems will only become more frequent.
good luck,
-Kyle
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Listen, what I did seems to be the best committment I can make between me and HIM right now....I love him so very much. Yeah I like you, or liked you...IDK, its just that right now this is what seems best for me. Im sorry my friends called you. After I got that txt they took my phone from me. Im so sorry things are going this way. HIM and I are closer now. Maybe this was a good thing. You said that youd understand. I hope you.
Caring always,
You know who! (link)
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*sigh* yesm, i DO understand, and...it crushes me because i know how you work and how you think and all that, and i know that you keep promises no matter what, so...i guess that means you wont be able to talk to me? :\ no worries.
still here,
-Kyle
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ok so lets say umm... you liked someone very very much. you became fast friends and got so close that you could talk to eachother and tell eachother very personal things all that kinda stuff ya know. and then you start developing feelings for this person. you tell them about these feelings.. they tell you they have the same feelings towards you. Yall still talk and act the same and hang out allll the time but like.. nothing happened once you told eachother that. You haven't really talked about it since. Or when i ask him about it or bring the subject up he says to me "why should i tell you how i feel when i don't know exactly how you feel" so i tell him how i feel.. and he says to me "i'm not sure i should say it now, but i promise you i will tell you sometime." .. and well you're just together all the time talk to them more then you do any other person. Everyone always asks "whatsup with you and him" you have no answer because you have no clue really.. Nowwww.. what do you do... (link)
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i say bring it out in the open with that person, and let them know exactly how you feel and exactly what you want to happen. if you don't, you're wasting emotion, your efforts will have been in vain!
good luck,
-Kyle
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Okay try this one on for size...if I stop dating the current boyfriend, and just start "seeing" him...that would save me from MAJOR committment, right? And tell the one that is from the past that maybe things can be the way they used to be one day, then maybe I can be a little free and do the things I want to do. I love the current very much, but fell out of love with him over a month ago. I have always subconciously loved the past one. Maybe some people are right...to leave the past in the past...what do you think? Or should I...go on and break the currents bfs heart? And later on break mine with the past love because I went back to the past. I cant change what happened last year, but I can help the present...
You tell me... (link)
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you're right, what happened last year can NOT be changed, but it CAN be mended, and what was lost can once again be rekindled, :], "seeing" would make more sense, and probably would be more convenient and less taxing for you to put up with, someone gets hurt no matter what, it's unavoidable, so...:\ try to get what you want the least painful way. Memories are my favorite thing, i cherish each one, that's why i went BACK to the past. to hell with what people say. :p
lol...wubby agrees,
-kyle
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ok, i graduated early, woopdy doo and all that but my mom just lost her job and now im doin my best to help out with the bills but im runnin ragged because im also doin all kinds of side jobs like mowin and stuff, but im still having the hardest time getting everything paid, my moms tryin her best and she has found a job, but its gunna be a lil bit cuz she has to take classes first, dude im about to crash, wtf do i do? (link)
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dude, all you can do is try. you're doing more than most men have the courage to even think about, and you're only 18, so you're still a youngin compared to the rest, don't fret, just keep it up.
proud of ya and glad to call ya friend,
( i know who dis is!!! )
-Kyle
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Okay, I'm between two guys right now. One that is current that I love and one that was in the past that I loved very much. I've never forgotten about this one from the past. I could have never done that. I still feel for this person a lot. He still loves me too...or at least he says he does. So you tell me, what is there to do if I stay with the current bf and lose the other forever?
You know who this is... (link)
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there's no way in hell you'd lose the other one forever, he's here no matter what, allllways! and i'm not exactly sure that stuff will last for TOO long between you and the current one...because it seems like you want space anyway, so just wait it out, and just be honest to yourself and others.
i'll elaborate later, mind is jumbly right now, sorry :(
wubby loves you, and so does his pappy. haha :]
-Kyle
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what would you do...if somebody broke up with you...blocked you for a good 2 months or so...and then all the sudden started talkin to you again...? you hate to get too close b/c you know it could do some damage but yet the guy he used to be was somebody you were so head over heals for...and somebody you really enjoyed havin in your life...i mean you havent been happy since the break up..no matter what you try but yet the thought of gettin back together would never be an option..he would have to prove himself BIG TIME...but how are you to act towards them? I mean a friendship is what you want....but is it what you need...and is what you need what you should do or should you follow your heart and make the best of the situation..? grrr
-"aus cream lady"
sorry just way too much in my head and had to type it out and this is where it went... (link)
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but how are you to act towards them? < that's what you said, and...well, the deal is, DON'T act, be honest, straight forward, and PLEASE be the genuine person that i've come to know and call friend. if you let him know how you feel and where you want things to lead (friendship and whatnot) then you've done your part. the WORST he could do would be to say no, and in doing so he'd only be proving to you and everyone else how much he hates having the best there is dropped into his lap. :] he'd be a fool to not take you up on at LEAST a friendship of some shape, form, or fashion. and if he DOES, in fact, turn you down on a friendship, then he's only showing his immaturity and inability to cope with the past and get over things. you did NOTHING wrong in the first place, and i know this, you've told me the story :p. i hope this helps, because i desperately need to see you smile in 2b, that way i can get thru 3b...4b...and 5th period haha ^____^.
you're sooo sweet, he'd be crazy if he said no!
the best of luck,
-Kyle
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Ok well theirs to boys.. The one ive been on and off with since last february.. And we've been threw everything you can image together.. He was my first serious boyfriend and we did everything for each other.. But one day he cheated on me.. And its been about 2 months and every since then he's been denying it .. But i know he did and i know he just didnt want me to know but for the past 2months he;s been telling me he loves me and is sorry for everything.. Last night we went for a walk on the beach :) And he told me he loved me and cared about me and i know he wasnt lying.. And one of my xbfs Dan likes me again dont get me wrong i still care about him and what not but dan is taking me to prom and i didnt tell the other one.. and he said if i ever get back with dan he is never talking to me again.. But im deff. going to prom but i dont want to hurt dan because last time i left him for my other boyfriend.. which is the first guy i was talking about.. Should i just tell the first one im going to prom with dan and see how he reacts.. and see what happends from then on?! please help... (link)
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hm, picture yourself as both of those guys, and think of how they'd feel depending on what decision you made. then you'll know for sure what to do. follow your heart :p
good luck,
-Kyle
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OK, well me n this guy went round and round a while back.. and well i messed up and stuff, but now i stil can tget him out of my ead after 2 months of knowing mew n him will never be again.. i dont knwo what to do... I have TRYED to like talk with different guys but i always htink of this one. please help me out, i am going crazy knowing he doesnt want me! (link)
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in a situation there's only 2 things you can do. you can resort to black magic, or make a conscious effort to find someone else, rather than push them away with thoughts of your ex. so...since the 1st is kinda outta the question, lol, what's left?
*nods* yep, you're right, now go for it!
good luck,
-Kyle
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what do you do when you just broke up with a guy... but yeah... you think you like someone else... but they just broke up with there gf like the sameday you and ur boyfriend broke up... yeah hasnt even been a week but yeah... and also this guy is a really good friend... i just dont no what to do! thanks alott! (link)
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iiiiii say you let that guy know exactly how you feel, if he's a good friend, he'll understand and either concur with how you're feeling, or he'll let you know ( nicely ) that he feels otherwise...or not as strongly as you do in the same manner. it's not like it could end in a TOTALLY negative way. the worst he could say would be "no". if you let your feelings go unnoted and unacknowledged, then it's all in vain and will go nowhere anyways. SO...LET THE BOYYY KNOW :p
if this is who i thinkkk it is...don't be a MOron :p
if it's not, then don't take notice to the afore stated inside joke.
good luck,
-Kyle
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