Member Since: August 1, 2004
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Last Update: August 1, 2004
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alot of people say that kissing a boys ear-lobe will turn him on, but i think thats kinda embarresing, like he'll look at me weird or something...do you think thatll happen? (link)
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Some guys are turned on by that, and i mean REALLY turned on and some arent. Youll know pretty quickly which he is and if he isnt he's not gonna mind that youre trying to figure out what does...that's just a good thing either way (:
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ok heres a random poll: which kind of clothes r u most into?
•abercrombie/hollister
•hot topic
•pacsun
•vessie b type stuff
•atletic type stuff...soffees,t shirt,n tennis shoes
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NONE OF THE ABOVE
im one of those people that dont think most mainstream brand labels are worth my attention or money - i mean really, if i pay more for something for this label that says this is cool and popular and millions of other people have it, i dont know it just seems unimportant and a waste. ill pay extra for something really unique or cool but honestly i like thrift stores for that reason - you can find cool stuff and it's not ridiculously priced, then i have more money to actually DO stuff and enjoy life
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boys. why do you think it matter what kind of underwear a girl wears. i mean y does it matter what kind of clothes she wears? whats so sexxy about Tongs or g-strings or booty shorts?jw (link)
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boys can be such simple creatures and for many the closer you are to being nekkid the more arousing for them. Sex sells for that reason, but honestly, i just think thongs are more comfy to wear, maybe im just weird....
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Hello. My name's Amanda and I'm 15 and from New York. I've loved the spotlight since I was a very little girl and I can't think of a time when I wasn't entertaining someone. My main interests are dancing and acting but I also do a lot of singing and modeling too. I remember being a little girl and singing and dancing around the house and I'm always getting complimented on my acting and modeling skills, haha. Of course I don't want to sound like I'm bragging but it's just the truth and I want you to know the truth before you go and give me advice. Anyways, I've been taking dance classes since I was about 5 or so and when I was in 3rd grade I started singing in a children's choir along with getting vocal training. I sung in the choir untill I was 13 and now I've moved on to other things. I'm searching for an agent right now and I've begun taking acting classes. The reason I'm writing here is because I need advice on my parents. They don't seem to support me as much as they used to. I mean, they're awesome parents but they think I should be more focused on becoming a lawyer or doctor(which I have no interest in) then becoming an entertainer or someone in the entertainment industry. I don't understand why they're acting so cold lately towards my dreams. I know that it takes a lot of work to become something but I'm willing to work hard for it and I just wished they had my back. Also, my friends seem to think that my vocal and acting training and stuff is silly and they don't see why I go on auditions and stuff. It really hurts when they mock me for what I do...I know they don't mean to hurt me but I don't like it at all. Most of my friends are really big jocks and so am I but I'm a very verstile(sp?) person and I like other things too and they can't seem to understand that. Anyone have any advice? I'd love someone to talk with about this! Thanks for reading, Amanda (link)
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Hey Amanda! Congratulations from me for pursuing what you truly enjoy and working at it! My intrests are also in the arts, and im working towards finding a career with that, one i enjoy and have fun with and pays the bills... Right now i spend alot of time at a job that really isnt me, so i can live and save money to afford school for what i love. Im saying this so you know i understand what you do but also because this is probably where your parents are coming from... Making something in the arts what you do in life can be harder than being a doctor or lawyer as far as finding work, and they're probably concerned about that... They want to see you happy but also want to know you will live comforatably and not go through hard times.
That is one thing to consider - Iv learned through hard times its sometimes neccesary to sacrifice what i really love or enjoy now, to set myself up so i can do exactly what i want later. I'm not saying AT ALL to give up on what your'e doing - there's no better path in life to be on other than the one you LIKE being on, making yourself happy and in turn others, but i am saying balance is always neccesary. Im 21/female and have found this to be true through experience, and noone else, like my parents telling me what i should do, was able to show me.
My dad still pushes an ultra-conservative career on me, but we've reached an understanding that im just not going to be a lawyer or doctor, but i am looking ahead and balancing what i want with the things i need. Im still figuring it all out but im also having fun doing it! As far as your friends just make fun back, or let them know it really does bug you and theyll probably listen if they know you mean it. Neways i dont know if any of that helped but i hope it did - life can be complicated but its worth it when you find what you like and follow it (:
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i'm almost 13 and I still like watching cartoons, some of my closet friends still watch cartoons, but some of them only watch MTV and stuff. Should I stop watching My cartoons? (link)
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I LOVE cartoons! So do most of my friends - I think cartoons are better than most shows on TV anyways. Im 21 and i dont think ill ever stop enjoying cartoons, comics, the funnies!
So watch, laugh and enjoy no matter how old you are! (:
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ppl tell me that im really pretty and i no that i am (not to b conceited or anything) but sometimes i just feel like i want to change the way i look.. like i find an imperfection and think that it makes me ugly..is this normal?
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EVERYONE is critical of themselves on some level. It's a part of human nature. And even though you've heard this before: Looks DONT matter! At least not half as much as kindness, intellegence, humor, etc...
So accept those little things and take a good look at all the people you see day to day - some may be better looking by your standards but there are also those you wouldnt trade places with - be grateful and proud of what you have!
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There are a few girls at my skool who have extreme problems with jealousy. They're mean to me and a few other girls bcuz their obviously jealous. i tell my friends that it really bugs me but they just tell me that their jealous and not to worry about it.. i shouldnt worry about it rite? thanx (link)
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No matter where you go in life you'll run into the snotty cliques and mean, jealous types. This is just an unfortunate fact of life in my experience. The only person you can really control, though is you! You always have the power of choice and what you choose shows others your strengths and weakness' - I'd say the best thing to do is to not let it get to you. These girls have their own issues and could be acting that way for many reasons. Stand up and be firm if something happens that really matters, but as far as petty stuff goes, live your own life and focus on the people who are your friends, and yourself - what you do and say (:
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Ok...I bleached my hair blonde and it looks really good but my aunt is a cosmotigist or however u spell it and she said it would look better if i got dark highlights put in it...what color highlights do u think i should put in it to make it look better?A chose between red,brown,or black.Thanx! (link)
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I personally have dyed my hair red for the past year so maybe im a little byist - Red is striking and cute, I'd go for that.
And if you dont like it there's always the option of stripping and changing it
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at least youll know for futute reference it's just not you're cup o tea and youll find something you like more
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idk what to do, today i was riding around my town on my bike to see if any of my friends wanted to hangout, and i met up with my friend lets call him tony. So we started to hangout and wen i went to go give him a hug he grabbed my booty. and i figured he was kidding around. Cuz we're madd tight so we started hangin out kidding around like making jokes and crapp like freinds doo, but then we started sitting down next to each otha and stuff and he started puting his hands all ova me, i told him like to stop where it came up to the limit like if he were tryin to go near my chest or between my legs. but although i stopped him from goen there he still patted my tush like it was a dog or cat or sumthin like that, i didnt mind itkind of was nice. Then he would start massaging my thighs making all these funny yet sweet comments. But then tony startted getten nasty askin weird questions like if i would ever give him a hand, jo*b, or blow. and i was like uhhhhhh idk. cuz i really didnt, then he started asking me if he would french me, i kinda wanted to but then i didnt. i really dunno what to do. im kind of a afraid to kiss him cuz i kinda dunno how. if someone could explain or help me with wut should i do IT WOULD BE GREAT. o yah and once after he kinda slid his hand against my chedt i got up and said i hadd to go.
thanxx
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Confused girl:
In my humble opinion "Tony" sounds like a moronic, immature creep who cant even fathom the concepts of respect or decency. Lets say you were less of a strong, assertive female, and you were too scared to even push him away or say no -how far could that have gone?
It's obvious where he wanted to take it, and if he truely cared for you as a friend or more he wouldn't have even tried the on-demand booty call style manuever- one that made you feel uncomforatable and confused. A real romantic encounter should make you feel happy, and he will want to know whats OK before getting all up on you. You did say you're friends, and its possible he's gotten the impression that you like him, although his crude approach still makes me think "pervert" either way. My advice would be to either 1)Talk to him, ask simply why he did that, and tell him how it made you feel. Search his attitudes and answers for clues as to weather or not he really cares or if he's just a jerk you should stay away from. Be cautious of smooth-talkin! 2)Trust your intuition - what made you get up and leave in the first place! If any guy tried to get with me like that I'd tell him off and walk away - You usually know you can trust someone when they make you feel completely comforatable.
LOVE AND RESPECT YOURSELF and more often than not people will love and respect you...
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