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idk wut to doo
idk what to do, today i was riding around my town on my bike to see if any of my friends wanted to hangout, and i met up with my friend lets call him tony. So we started to hangout and wen i went to go give him a hug he grabbed my booty. and i figured he was kidding around. Cuz we're madd tight so we started hangin out kidding around like making jokes and crapp like freinds doo, but then we started sitting down next to each otha and stuff and he started puting his hands all ova me, i told him like to stop where it came up to the limit like if he were tryin to go near my chest or between my legs. but although i stopped him from goen there he still patted my tush like it was a dog or cat or sumthin like that, i didnt mind itkind of was nice. Then he would start massaging my thighs making all these funny yet sweet comments. But then tony startted getten nasty askin weird questions like if i would ever give him a hand, jo*b, or blow. and i was like uhhhhhh idk. cuz i really didnt, then he started asking me if he would french me, i kinda wanted to but then i didnt. i really dunno what to do. im kind of a afraid to kiss him cuz i kinda dunno how. if someone could explain or help me with wut should i do IT WOULD BE GREAT. o yah and once after he kinda slid his hand against my chedt i got up and said i hadd to go.
thanxx
confused girl
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i think that you should just go for it and do what you are comfortable with. OMG i was scared to kiss to and i would always avoid the situation but then like finally i went to say bye to this kid i liked and i guess he really wanted to or sumpthin and he went for it and you know what?? it wasnt as bad as i thought it would be. like i was scared i didn't know what to do but really i juss went along wit it on instinct and in the middle of the kiss (it was long lol) i was like WOAH PRICE CHECK lol im making out with this kid woah buddy lol well anyways if you avoid him he might get mad and you might ruin the whole touchy thing but just go for it and if you really dont like him then tell him you like it as friends
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Maybe u should just go for it w/ him because good friends make even better bfs!!! :) HOPE I HELPED!!!
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The boy was very horny and was testin the waters to see how far he could go with you. If he isnt someone you really want to get involved with than i wouldnt mess with him. Boys dont use their brain when they are horny. They just let the mind in their penis do all the thinking for them.
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If you don't feel comfortable with him feeling you up, then tell him straight up that you just wanna be friends 'n friends ONLY.Good Luck, 'n hope I helped!
-tori
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Hey! I've had the same problem....what started out to be a really close friend was kinda something different. He touched me and stuff alot. I finally layed the law down and told him strait up....I told him we were just friends and thats all I want to be, no means no(I mean w/ him touching me), & that if he cant respect me than we arent gonna hang out! Hope I helped gurl! Let me know if you need somethin else!
<3 ally
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welll....do u like him? if u do then dont tell him to stop if u like it. if u dont like him more then a good friend then tell him that. and telll him that u dont like when he does that shit to u. and if u dont like him more then a friend then u shouldnt let him touch ur ass!
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Confused girl:
In my humble opinion "Tony" sounds like a moronic, immature creep who cant even fathom the concepts of respect or decency. Lets say you were less of a strong, assertive female, and you were too scared to even push him away or say no -how far could that have gone?
It's obvious where he wanted to take it, and if he truely cared for you as a friend or more he wouldn't have even tried the on-demand booty call style manuever- one that made you feel uncomforatable and confused. A real romantic encounter should make you feel happy, and he will want to know whats OK before getting all up on you. You did say you're friends, and its possible he's gotten the impression that you like him, although his crude approach still makes me think "pervert" either way. My advice would be to either 1)Talk to him, ask simply why he did that, and tell him how it made you feel. Search his attitudes and answers for clues as to weather or not he really cares or if he's just a jerk you should stay away from. Be cautious of smooth-talkin! 2)Trust your intuition - what made you get up and leave in the first place! If any guy tried to get with me like that I'd tell him off and walk away - You usually know you can trust someone when they make you feel completely comforatable.
LOVE AND RESPECT YOURSELF and more often than not people will love and respect you...
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