what would you do...if somebody broke up with you...blocked you for a good 2 months or so...and then all the sudden started talkin to you again...? you hate to get too close b/c you know it could do some damage but yet the guy he used to be was somebody you were so head over heals for...and somebody you really enjoyed havin in your life...i mean you havent been happy since the break up..no matter what you try but yet the thought of gettin back together would never be an option..he would have to prove himself BIG TIME...but how are you to act towards them? I mean a friendship is what you want....but is it what you need...and is what you need what you should do or should you follow your heart and make the best of the situation..? grrr
-"aus cream lady"
sorry just way too much in my head and had to type it out and this is where it went...
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xXxKyleStylexXx answered Monday April 4 2005, 1:49 am: but how are you to act towards them? < that's what you said, and...well, the deal is, DON'T act, be honest, straight forward, and PLEASE be the genuine person that i've come to know and call friend. if you let him know how you feel and where you want things to lead (friendship and whatnot) then you've done your part. the WORST he could do would be to say no, and in doing so he'd only be proving to you and everyone else how much he hates having the best there is dropped into his lap. :] he'd be a fool to not take you up on at LEAST a friendship of some shape, form, or fashion. and if he DOES, in fact, turn you down on a friendship, then he's only showing his immaturity and inability to cope with the past and get over things. you did NOTHING wrong in the first place, and i know this, you've told me the story :p. i hope this helps, because i desperately need to see you smile in 2b, that way i can get thru 3b...4b...and 5th period haha ^____^.
you're sooo sweet, he'd be crazy if he said no!
the best of luck,
-Kyle [ xXxKyleStylexXx's advice column | Ask xXxKyleStylexXx A Question ]
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