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Hey everyone my name is Nikki and i'm 13 years old. I got this advice thing cuz i like helping people and sometimes if I help other people out then I can figure some of my own problems. I love to dance and act and I love hanging out with my friends! oh and of course I love my bf Nick!!

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well me and my boyfriend just broke up 2 days ago and like hes tellin people that he doesnt know why he broke up with me but then hes tellin other people that he broke up with me because i was mean to him and treated him like crap which i didnt.. its actually the other way around and all of my friends are sayin that too.. and he told someone else that he broke up with me because i was "crazy" but like i really really like him and he said he wasnt going to go back out with me because i treated like crap.. but like now he wont even talk to me.. and today i heard that one of my so called best friends went up and told him after school that he did the right thing.. i dont know what to do.. help me please

wow it seems to me that hes just a jerk!! forget about him and all those rumors. your friend wasn't being a good friend to you and you need to talk to her about why she said that. the thing is she could of been jealous of you and him and liked him. so you need to just talk to her and talk to your ex about why hes saying all these different things to people. hope it works out!

♥ Nikki

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well me and my boyfriend broke up like 5 days ago.. but now im dating someone else.. and well i think my friend likes my ex.. and like i liked my ex a lot and she has done this to me before.. last year i was dating someone for like 5 months and we broke up and right after we broke up she started likin him and they went out and like no one knows how much it sucks to sit here and watch her do it again.. what do i do ?

ok i know someone who use to do this to my friend a lot too so try talking to her about it be like.... "ok i may not like my ex anymore but i'm not completely over him. so can you atleast like wait more because when i see you flirting with him and stuff i kind of don't like it cuz you did this to me once before and it really hurts seeing you with him." ya know something like that because if you don't say anything to her shes probably gonna just keep doing it again and again.
hope i helped!

♥ Nikki

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ummm well what happened was, me and two friends got into a fight and they both went against me. now im talking to one of them and the other still hates me and said no matter what i say to her she'll never talk to me ever agian...im completely lost without them. what should i do?


P.S. Thank you!

ok well your lucky to have one of them back i mean i know you want both but if you have one back the other girl might start coming back. just give it sometime and maybe try focusing on a sport or on school or something...yea i kno lets focus onschool right? hehe but seriously if you give it time and find something else to do it should work out in the end.
hope i helped!

♥ Nikki

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okay,well this kid has been my neighbor sense...we where born n i liked him sense i was like 4...(haha)..n hes a year older then me so now hes in 7th .. n we were always best friends then westarted going out n it was on and off then i found out he liked this other girl .. so i duimped him .. n now we went to a dance n i really like him again n everyone was telling him n he didnt beilve them cuz he thought i liked his best friend .. so now i really dont no wat to do ...


*--confussed--*

Well... just online or on the phone say to him "ya know how everyone says i like you and you don't belive them? well its true" or something else like that. maybe he likes you and he just doesn't believe everyone cuz he thinks its a joke there trying to play on him.
hope it works out.

♥ Nikki

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im dating a boy and he didnt come to school one day and this other boy came up and talked to me for like the whole day and i think i kinda sorta like him a tinnie tiny bit but im not sure ? but i have liked my boyfriend for like 4 years now and i finally got to go out with him so what should i do
sincerly,
confused

ok well think about who you really like i mean its not far to either of them if you date them and like a different guy. so try and figure out who you like more and just follow your heart.

♥ Nikki

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me and my boyfriend have been goin out for almost a week now and i love him more than anything.. but almost all of my friends are tellin me to break up with him or im to good i can find better and tellin me all the bad things he does(like smoke pot and drink) and it makes me really mad that they tell me that shit.. but what do i do ?

ok don't listen to your friends about telling you your too good for him. maybe you are but that doesn't matter if you really like him. and if he does pot and drinks thats up to you to decide if its alright with you. if you don't like him doing that stuff just try talking him out of it and maybe it will work. and if it doesn't decide if its ok with you because if it isn't maybe you should break up but if its ok then stay with him its your choice not your friends. just tell your friends that you don't need approval of your bf because its not their desicion its yours.

♥ Nikki

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aright so there this guy i dated for 3 1/2 months well he dumped when school let out and wouldnt go back out after that so i kinda tryed to move on so i hung out and go real close i mean we was like doin everything like we was datin but we wasnt well now i have to go to school everyday and see the guy that i love but he would date me so i dk wht to do stick with the summer guy and move on or jus wait around and keep tryin to get the one back ? IM soo confused ehh i hate this .. please help me !

if i were you i would figure out first which guy you like more because you might just be going out with the summer guy to make the other guy jealous but not really realize it at first. so before you go and date one guy think about your feelings and just follow your heart. hope it works out good.

♥ Nikki

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SO i have this friend let's just say her name will be Sara.
So Sara and my other friend (hhmmm...Kat) sometimes hangout like when saras parents go up to Nevada and trips.so saras mom asks kats mom if sara can stay at
her house...so then during the time when saras staying the weekend at kats i try to find fun things to do all together...like go to the movies,mall,the center...etc.
but when i ask them they say no because sara usually gets left out but we all try our hardest not to...anyways one day after alot of bugging them sara gives in to going to the mall...well unfortunatley on that day sara just happens to of had her period and is acting really quiet and shy and kranky(im not saying thats a bad thing because she cant help it but..) so when i try to think of sumthing to talk about she doesnt answer and kat does so she was like leaving herself out. so after we go home aand i ask sara so did we leave you out and she responds yes and i was like we cant help it ur really moody and kranky ( i was thinking this not saying)and so then Kat really wants to hangout agin besause she had alot of fun but sara doesnt( and because shes been stuck with her all weekend and is kinda getting annoyed)...so now whenever we all hangout sara says she cant handle all of us together and it always just reuins our plans....


whats a girl to do?...so that we can all have fun but no1 will be left out & hurt

---confused girl

maybe sarah just feels that you and kat are closer of friends and she doesn't say anything and makes herself feel left out for attention. or she could just be getting left out because maybe you and kat talk about things a lot and sarah doesn't kno whats bewing said and feels left out. to try solving this problem i would hang out with kat by herself then hang out with sarah by herself then have kat and sarah hang out by themselves. by doing this you could each become closer and then when you all hang out things could be different...at times everyone will feel left out i kno that because it happens to me sometimes too. so just try getting along with eachother more and then see what happens

♥ Nikki

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Ok, I really like this guy and i've been waiting for him to get dumped I know its kinda selfish and everything... But his g/f dumped him and he knows I really, really like him and everything I want to go out with him s0o0o badly But I'm not sure when he'll be ready to let go of her and move on to me and I'm really not even sure he likes me!! Help!

sighnd

.::. .::. LOst HoPe .::..::.

well just wait like at least a week and if he seems to be getting over it go for it but if he doesn't then just wait till you think hes over her. hope it all works out

♥ Nikki

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i want to fuck my boyfriend but he wants to too. and he feels a little weird. and i dont know why. but when i always want to fuck him he leaves and says i will be right back i need to go get candles and then 3 hours later he comes back and he smells alot different so i think he is cheating on me but still fucking me. what should i do?

ok well how old are you?? and maybe the guy doesn't really want to fuck you and thats why hes leaving because he doesn't want to be pressured

♥ Nikki

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Me and this girl have been Best Friends all summer i mean we have done everything together. Now her and this girl she used to be friends with are friends again after a fight. Now we don't do anything and I get treated like nothing. Me and this other girl are friends to but not when it's the three of us because one of us gets left out. I hate the way she's doing this to me and I have other friends but i miss having hetr to talk to so now when i call her she's always like i have to go i have company. How should I let her no without us getting in a fight?

ok a lot of times this will happen i mean when i have a sleepover with 2 people one of us is always left out just try talking to her and being like..."hey i really like having you as a best friend and now that _(the other girl)_ became your friend again i feel left out a lot. I mean it's not that i don't like her or anything but i feel like she's taking you away from me and i really miss you." she'll probably understand and my guess is that she's hanging out with her a lot because they haven't talked in a long time.
i hope it all works out :]

♥ Nikki

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ok well i like this guy ALOT and his friend told me that he didnt like me at all but his friend is known for lieing alot so i dont know if i should trust her or if i should go ahead and ask him if he likes me. but i feel really weird talk to him because she told me that he doesnt like me.sooo i dont know what to do... then i started talking to my ex again and i think i still like him but i hate how he acts when we are going out its like his twin brother! but please help im so confused!

|x| totally confused |o|

ok well if i were you ask a different friend i mean you don't want to think he like hates you or something when he could really actually like you and stuff. or maybe have one of your friends ask him. and then about your ex...if you think you like him don't date anyone yet because is you go out with the one guy the other one might find out you like your ex and then...well things might get pretty ugly!! lol so just follow your heart

♥ Nikki

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Okay well i really wish i had a boyfriend but wiegh about 79 and everybody spreads roumours that i starve myself and that i throw up my food .. but i don't i just don't like to eat i hate eating ... so theres these girls at school who tell everybody that [ we used to be best friends =\ ] and they hate me so everytime i start to like somone they find out and tell them that whole story and scare them away .. what do i do ?!?!

signed-
really sikiny person

well what age are you?? because some people are just skinny and have a wicked fast matabulism(not sure about spelling) so even if they eat a lot they don't gain weight. try talking to your guidance counselour about this because you need to not hate eating that can be really bad for you.

hope i helped

♥ Nikki

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i got raped bye a 6 year old wat do i do

ok um yea i'm not so sure that this would really be true cuz how does a 6 year old even kno what rape is

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ok well me and this girl...lets call her cindy...are friends i guess but if we're around certain people she ignores me and acts like i'm not even there but if its just us then shes nice to me and we act like friends....so i don't get it are me and cindy friends or not?

i would try talking to her about why she does this to you. maybe there is something embarring that you do and she doesn't like it. a true friend would never do this to you so you might wanna drop her and stay with people that wouldn't do this to you

♥ Nikki

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I have this problem..My bestfriend was going out with this boy..Then this boy broke up with her..She was shock (i guess)..But okay, that's not the major problem..Now,I'm going out with that boy..and no one knows that except my sister..I've been going out with that boy for 2 weeks or so..now I have this illfeel..I feel that I'm so wrong by going out with my bestfriend's ex boyfriend..I don't know what to do..Should I break up with that boy and give him back to my bestfriend, or keep going??

-feeling-guilty-girl-

talk to your friend about if she still likes the boy and what she would do if you started going out with him. if shes not cool about it then dump him but if its fine then stay just remember that ur friends are always gonna be more important then ur bf

♥ Nikki

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Ok, well I'm 13 and I have a B/F. Everything has been going grea...But hes a little shy and we haven't done anything! no holding hands, kissing stuff like that. Hes hasn't even made out yet?!? the only thing we have done is hug like 4 times!
I really like him But I want him to care about me a little mor Ya know? s0o how can I find a way to tell him how I'm feeling?!?!?


sighned,
Xox Neglected Xox

you should talk to him about it or if you don't want to then maybe have a friend talk to him...the reason could just be that he thinks you don't want to do anything with him but hopefully if you give him a hint about it he'll get the idea and stop bveing so shy

hope it works out! :]

♥ Nikki

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ok so i have a boyfriend that i've been with for about 6 months now. im 16, my boyfriend is turning 19 in september And about four months into the relationship, i got raped by his older brother and now his family is blaming me and telling ppl it wasnt raped so now im questioning myself if it was rape or not. and then the cops got involved because my boyfriend called the cops since i told him what happened when i slept over. so when the cops were investigating, they found out that me and my boyfriend have been having sex as well. so now me & andrew arent even allowed to see each other legally and im just wondering if i should stay with him after all this happening, we want to have kids in the future and he even asked me to marry him...is this a good idea?

ok ITS NOT YOUR FAULT!! and don't let anyone tell you otherwise if you get raped then its their fault not yours!

i would maybe back away from the family for a little and give it time to start blowing over but ya know don't break up with your bf and it would probably be a good idea not to get married just yet

♥ Nikki

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im a girl and im 16. my ex boyfriend and i are pratically going out again, as my 2nd chance. but theres this other guy. ive known him longer, and ive hooked up with him a few times. even tho its summer, i wanna hang out and see him, but i dont want to make my bf mad. i almost feel like i like this other kid, as i love my boyfriend. i have feelings that make me want to go out with this other kid, but i have a boyfriend that i love. what should i do?

if i were you i would just follow your heart and if you can't decide who you like better then to just take a little time away from them both and think about

hope it all works out :]

♥ Nikki

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Is 13 old enough to have a boyfriend...not like pair off and go out on an actual date or anything...but to really like a boy and have a first kiss or sumthin...it's not like I want to, but when I see kids in my grade kissing and holding hands and stuff and I'm just curious to whether it's right or if it's silly or if it's age-appropriate...?

well it isn't really any age for going out but like when you think you're ready then give it a shot

just don't rush into anything you don't want to do its your choice not theirs!

♥ Nikki

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