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?age appropriate?
Is 13 old enough to have a boyfriend...not like pair off and go out on an actual date or anything...but to really like a boy and have a first kiss or sumthin...it's not like I want to, but when I see kids in my grade kissing and holding hands and stuff and I'm just curious to whether it's right or if it's silly or if it's age-appropriate...?
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of course your old enough if your trusted by your parents. i mean i've seen 11 yearolds go off holding hands and makin out
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Kristen
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There really is not exact age set off when its appropriate to have a boyfriend. Its just some families and some people have there own ideas. So if you think its a good age then its a good age. If you dont think it is then wait until you think its fine. My idea on it is that its a fine at 13 to have a boyfriend, but thats just me.
Hope i helped!!
♥ THINKPINK
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Well, i am 13, i havent been kissed. And there is nothing wrong with that. But i think when you get to highschool is the appropriate age. Do it when your ready.
♥ nicole
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Hmm... How can I answer this... 13 is... kinda young. But that IS when puberty starts... In my oppinion, 14 is a better age. But then again, the laws of society is also a factor that plays with how we feel things should be. I know I word this akwardly and I probably haven't helped much, but I gave you my opinion. But think about this. Awhile back, 13 used to be when your parents' were expecting you to get married and have a family!
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its all up to you when you think your ready to comit im not saying like marring or anything im saying if you really like this guy then when you think your ready youll know it and dont rush yourself take your time and if you 15 and you are ready to have sex make sure he wears a condom
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It all depends on your maturity level, and what your parents will allow. If you're mature enough to have a boyfriend, then kissing should be fine. It all depends on your maturity, and how comfortable you are. But having a boyfriend and hand holding is definitely okay. Kissing just depends on what YOU feel most comfortable with.
<b>♥</b> Melissa
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I think your way to young to have a boyfriend. The appropriate time to have a boyfriend is when your in highschool. People at 13 arent mature enough especially boys. Sry if you dont like the answer but its my opinion!
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HECK YES IT IS! but not if you dont want one. you will get one soon enough.
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I think that you don't need to rush things. Hold on to boy FRIENDs while you can. It won't be long before every boy you get close to asks you out, and it's REALLY annoying. You are the best judge of your life, though.
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lol, in my opinion of coarse it is!!! i starded dating in like 3rd grade and i had my first kiss at age 12lol,it wasent who i wanted it to be so make sure u really like da guy
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hmm when i was 13. i was in a relationship that lasted a 2years and half. we broke up like 2 months ago. the reason being is that "I" wasnt ready to do anything. and he was 17 and i'm 15. so yeah. but yes it is approate age to start having boyfriend's. long as you don't pressure yourself into doing anything he wants you to do. hope i helped ya
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umm yeah i think its fine, i had my first REAL bf when i was 11, and it lasted 9 months, and he was my first kiss too. And i had like 1046 when i was 13 haha so yeah i think its fine! Hope i helped!! xoxo, chelsea
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well it isn't really any age for going out but like when you think you're ready then give it a shot
just don't rush into anything you don't want to do its your choice not theirs!
♥ Nikki
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sure it is...but if your not ready to do that kind of stuff then dont. just because your friends are doing that stuff doesnt mean you have to.
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YES 13 IS OLD ENOUGH TO HAVE A BOYFRIEND.
but just remember like if you're ever doing something you don't want to do... don't let them force you into anything.
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I think any age is appropriate as long as you are realistic about it and you don't do things you will regret! If you have a boyfriend at a young age, that's great, but you have to keep in mind it probably isn't going to last until marriage! As long as you are mature enough to not spend TOO much with your boyfriend and live your own life I think it's alright.
I have a pretty strong definition on love, so when I see little kids throwing the word "love" around it's annoying, but basically it just depends on how strong you believe in it. Dating is about bonding with someone, gaining new experiences, and finding what you need and want. If things don't work out you move on and live life.
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kissing and crushing is fine.. however i personally believe NOTHING beyond that is.
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When I was thriteen I thought the idea of having a boyfriend at that age was silly. I'm twenty now and I still think it's silly. Mostly because I can't imagine finding a thirteen-year-old boy even a little bit attractive as a person.
I think is it a fine time to experiment, the problem is alot of young people put more emphasis and emotion into these relationships then is healthy. The expectations are just too high and they oragize thier lives around 'relationships' that only exist in the school halls, online and at a few parties a year. As long as you don't try to invest the rest of your life in some guy at thriteen, do what you want.
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absolutely!!! from 13 on through highschool should be your beat years with guys and having boyfriends...as long as you just keep it at holding hands and kissing its perfectly fine.
danni <3
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By 13 your old enough to actually start having an interest in the opposite sex so what your asking about is fine. Just don't get into anything serious or the like, because 13 is definately too young for any of that. But for what your asking, yeah it is age appropriate. Hope this helps.
-Ryan
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Personally, i think it's a fine age, as long as you don't get too serious and stressed out over it so that it's interfering with your life. I had my first "boyfriend" when i was 10 i think. But of course, it was just a silly "like-like" thing, not actually *dating*.
hope this helps! plz rate! :D
~*Jaimee*~
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Of course its appropriate! Thats actually the age all this sorts of stuff starts to happen! I mean just DONT HAVE SEX OR NETHING! lol but I`m pretty sure you kno better than that! Good luck! && its definitely appropriate!
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A kiss at 13 isn't anything to worry about. On the other hand, these days it usually doesn't STAY at a kiss - things seem to progress to sex and pregnancy awfully quickly.
But a kiss, jeeze, that's fine. Although it's also totally fine to wait. Basically, do what feels right to you. You sound pretty sensible.
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